Remember the post from the other day how nothing is ever good enough for women? Behold: This reasonable man. (I’m not Diamond.) source
I've complained about all horse games being bad SO extensively that a 50-person game company finally went "fine, make a better one" and put me in charge of their next project. We exhibited the game to Gamescom last month and it'll be out this winter. source
If you're gonna be anti-porn, at least be so for a good cause, and not just cause you think it'll strengthen your masseters. source
TIL the odious truth about the wait time for beginning amorous again after having a baby.
My wife recently gave birth to our child, and we were told that we should wait six weeks before becoming intimate again. I knowingly thought to myself at the time "ah, that's an estimate. We shouldn't rely on it." If only I knew!
She got back from her IUD appointment yesterday, and they told her she could do sexy times again! Except... It would hurt. Probably a lot.
Oh, it turns out that the guidelines given by the hospital after a birth are so that the woman isn't injured enough to be hospitalized by sex. I guess one of the girls told her that they "know how important it is to take care of your husband after all the no-nookie time."
What the hell. I'm a huge pervert and love sex... but never at the expense of my partner! I'm pissed. I couldn't think of a place to post about it because other socials are so awkwardly full of family, but I feel like the message is important. Should I post my anger on Facebook and such? I just remembered the advice
>Reddit is where you go to talk to people you don't know about the things that matter. Facebook is where you go to talk to people you know about things that don't matter.
Anyway, that's my rant about how post childbirth sex guidelines are geared towards men because patriarchy, and I hate it. The end.
www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xavo84/til_the_odious_truth_about_the_wait_time_for/ source
My wife recently gave birth to our child, and we were told that we should wait six weeks before becoming intimate again. I knowingly thought to myself at the time "ah, that's an estimate. We shouldn't rely on it." If only I knew!
She got back from her IUD appointment yesterday, and they told her she could do sexy times again! Except... It would hurt. Probably a lot.
Oh, it turns out that the guidelines given by the hospital after a birth are so that the woman isn't injured enough to be hospitalized by sex. I guess one of the girls told her that they "know how important it is to take care of your husband after all the no-nookie time."
What the hell. I'm a huge pervert and love sex... but never at the expense of my partner! I'm pissed. I couldn't think of a place to post about it because other socials are so awkwardly full of family, but I feel like the message is important. Should I post my anger on Facebook and such? I just remembered the advice
>Reddit is where you go to talk to people you don't know about the things that matter. Facebook is where you go to talk to people you know about things that don't matter.
Anyway, that's my rant about how post childbirth sex guidelines are geared towards men because patriarchy, and I hate it. The end.
www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xavo84/til_the_odious_truth_about_the_wait_time_for/ source
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Boyfriend of 5 years is asking for a “payout” on the house I own
My boyfriend and I have been having a rocky patch. The underlying issue is that there is a power dynamic that is weighted in my favor, specifically because I make significantly more money than my boyfriend, and I own the house we live in. I bought the house 6 months before I met him. It’s only my name on the deed and mortgage. I also was a high earner when I met him.
I work a job that requires a professional license and make over 6 figures. My boyfriend is a delivery driver (think Grubhub) and makes probably what the median income is for the area.
When it comes to the house, I pay roughly 73% of all household expenses. My boyfriend pays me a flat fee of $500 per month as his contribution to household/mortgage expenses. This amount has not changed in 5 years. I have paid for all repairs on the home (probably around 15k at this point) and furniture etc myself.
When we go on trips, I pay for them. We usually take 2 to 3 vacations a year. Sometimes he will cover the cost of the rental car but otherwise, it’s me paying for airfare and Airbnb costs, entertainment, etc. I do this because I’m well aware of the income disparity between us and I don’t want to add financial strain to him for things that aren’t ‘necessities’.
We’ve been arguing lately, and I think he’s bugged because he says when we are not getting along he doesn’t feel like the house is “his”. I know this must suck to feel like he would have to move, pay WAY more for living expenses, and change his whole lifestyle should we break up, so I can sympathize with that. Rents in this area are over $1,000/month in most cases.
But now, he’s saying to make him feel more secure, he would like a formula to determine how much of his $500/month went toward the mortgage, and then use that figure as his “minority stake/equity” in the home. Therefore, if we break up, I would owe him this amount as a payout. Currently the figure he’s come up with is $11,400 based on his math (at the end of this year he will have paid me a cumulative $30,000 in rent payments over the 5 years we’ve been together).
So in essence, he wants $11,400 should we break up and he have to vacate the home.
I wanted to get some other peoples’ reactions to this, since I’m in total shock.
www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xbgsi1/boyfriend_of_5_years_is_asking_for_a_payout_on/ source
My boyfriend and I have been having a rocky patch. The underlying issue is that there is a power dynamic that is weighted in my favor, specifically because I make significantly more money than my boyfriend, and I own the house we live in. I bought the house 6 months before I met him. It’s only my name on the deed and mortgage. I also was a high earner when I met him.
I work a job that requires a professional license and make over 6 figures. My boyfriend is a delivery driver (think Grubhub) and makes probably what the median income is for the area.
When it comes to the house, I pay roughly 73% of all household expenses. My boyfriend pays me a flat fee of $500 per month as his contribution to household/mortgage expenses. This amount has not changed in 5 years. I have paid for all repairs on the home (probably around 15k at this point) and furniture etc myself.
When we go on trips, I pay for them. We usually take 2 to 3 vacations a year. Sometimes he will cover the cost of the rental car but otherwise, it’s me paying for airfare and Airbnb costs, entertainment, etc. I do this because I’m well aware of the income disparity between us and I don’t want to add financial strain to him for things that aren’t ‘necessities’.
We’ve been arguing lately, and I think he’s bugged because he says when we are not getting along he doesn’t feel like the house is “his”. I know this must suck to feel like he would have to move, pay WAY more for living expenses, and change his whole lifestyle should we break up, so I can sympathize with that. Rents in this area are over $1,000/month in most cases.
But now, he’s saying to make him feel more secure, he would like a formula to determine how much of his $500/month went toward the mortgage, and then use that figure as his “minority stake/equity” in the home. Therefore, if we break up, I would owe him this amount as a payout. Currently the figure he’s come up with is $11,400 based on his math (at the end of this year he will have paid me a cumulative $30,000 in rent payments over the 5 years we’ve been together).
So in essence, he wants $11,400 should we break up and he have to vacate the home.
I wanted to get some other peoples’ reactions to this, since I’m in total shock.
www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xbgsi1/boyfriend_of_5_years_is_asking_for_a_payout_on/ source
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Boyfriend of 5 years is asking for a “payout” on the house I own
My boyfriend and I have been having a rocky patch. The underlying issue is that there is a power dynamic that is weighted in my favor,...
2 days ago, Bill Maher ran a full on MRA segment on his show where the left-leaning guest claimed only 1/3 men are having sex. MRA groups jumped on it, claiming 80% of men aren't having sex as women only go for 'Top 20% Chads'. Their source for this is a WaPo study...that shows 72% of men having sex
Here's the ghastly segment:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAgUHyXr7_Y
And I'm sure we've all heard of the incels' "80/20 paradigm" by now.
Well here's the source for it all:
www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/
A study that, although it acknowledges there's been an uptick in young male sexlessness, still shows 72% of men engaging in sex along with 82% of women.
This information has now been twisted on major mainstream news and entertainment shows to flip it from one third of men NOT having sex to only one third of men HAVING sex, and has been used by the manosphere to claim 20% of the men have sex with 80% of the women. That's right, they use a study showing 70% of men are having sex, to claim 80% of men AREN'T having sex.
Either too many men in the U.S. are so stupid, uneducated and illiterate that they need to be immediately removed from any form of power or influence and replaced by women, or this is being done deliberately to radicalize an army of lost and angry young men against women and feminism. Perhaps both.
www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xbs4t7/2_days_ago_bill_maher_ran_a_full_on_mra_segment/ source
Here's the ghastly segment:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAgUHyXr7_Y
And I'm sure we've all heard of the incels' "80/20 paradigm" by now.
Well here's the source for it all:
www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/
A study that, although it acknowledges there's been an uptick in young male sexlessness, still shows 72% of men engaging in sex along with 82% of women.
This information has now been twisted on major mainstream news and entertainment shows to flip it from one third of men NOT having sex to only one third of men HAVING sex, and has been used by the manosphere to claim 20% of the men have sex with 80% of the women. That's right, they use a study showing 70% of men are having sex, to claim 80% of men AREN'T having sex.
Either too many men in the U.S. are so stupid, uneducated and illiterate that they need to be immediately removed from any form of power or influence and replaced by women, or this is being done deliberately to radicalize an army of lost and angry young men against women and feminism. Perhaps both.
www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xbs4t7/2_days_ago_bill_maher_ran_a_full_on_mra_segment/ source
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