Men created dating apps hoping they'd lead to low cost, low effort casual sex with conventionally attractive women. It has not gone the way they'd hoped source
I—I just know by their own religious standards and beliefs, they WILL get what they give. Literally F them. source
I told him I was tired of taking on the mental load of managing our relationship and he said "tell me how I can make it up to you" without even kind of seeing the irony.
Just thought that was funny, looking back.
This type of thing would be said a lot- "tell me what you want me to do" "tell me what you want to hear"
This is the equivalent to hearing "just make me a list" after you ask him to help with meals and househild upkeep.
So not only do I have to get hurt, bring it up, manage the conversation so it's healthy and productive, but.i also have to tell you how to fix it and what to say?
Have some agency. Get a sense of self. Act on your own accord and navigate the consequences of being yourself like every other person on the planet.
It's been a while since I broke up with that person, but when I visit home and see him, I still get annoyed about how much he milked my trust and devotion dry.
www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/x686z7/i_told_him_i_was_tired_of_taking_on_the_mental/ source
Just thought that was funny, looking back.
This type of thing would be said a lot- "tell me what you want me to do" "tell me what you want to hear"
This is the equivalent to hearing "just make me a list" after you ask him to help with meals and househild upkeep.
So not only do I have to get hurt, bring it up, manage the conversation so it's healthy and productive, but.i also have to tell you how to fix it and what to say?
Have some agency. Get a sense of self. Act on your own accord and navigate the consequences of being yourself like every other person on the planet.
It's been a while since I broke up with that person, but when I visit home and see him, I still get annoyed about how much he milked my trust and devotion dry.
www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/x686z7/i_told_him_i_was_tired_of_taking_on_the_mental/ source
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