My boyfriend told me my pussy is too loose
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I guess I’m glad he was honest, but I honestly feel very hurt by it. He said that I get too wet and I’m not tight enough so it doesn’t feel very good for him.
I wanted to tell him that with my ex boyfriend, I had a really hard time getting wet. My ex would hurt me sometimes from forcing himself in me when I wasn’t ready… so me being overly wet and “loose” is exciting for me, it means that sex is actually enjoyable and painless.
Now I’m trying to think of ways to make myself less turned on because I want it to be good for him but I don’t know what to do :(
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CW: non consent
I guess I’m glad he was honest, but I honestly feel very hurt by it. He said that I get too wet and I’m not tight enough so it doesn’t feel very good for him.
I wanted to tell him that with my ex boyfriend, I had a really hard time getting wet. My ex would hurt me sometimes from forcing himself in me when I wasn’t ready… so me being overly wet and “loose” is exciting for me, it means that sex is actually enjoyable and painless.
Now I’m trying to think of ways to make myself less turned on because I want it to be good for him but I don’t know what to do :(
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I told him I was tired of taking on the mental load of managing our relationship and he said "tell me how I can make it up to you" without even kind of seeing the irony.
Just thought that was funny, looking back.
This type of thing would be said a lot- "tell me what you want me to do" "tell me what you want to hear"
This is the equivalent to hearing "just make me a list" after you ask him to help with meals and househild upkeep.
So not only do I have to get hurt, bring it up, manage the conversation so it's healthy and productive, but.i also have to tell you how to fix it and what to say?
Have some agency. Get a sense of self. Act on your own accord and navigate the consequences of being yourself like every other person on the planet.
It's been a while since I broke up with that person, but when I visit home and see him, I still get annoyed about how much he milked my trust and devotion dry.
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Just thought that was funny, looking back.
This type of thing would be said a lot- "tell me what you want me to do" "tell me what you want to hear"
This is the equivalent to hearing "just make me a list" after you ask him to help with meals and househild upkeep.
So not only do I have to get hurt, bring it up, manage the conversation so it's healthy and productive, but.i also have to tell you how to fix it and what to say?
Have some agency. Get a sense of self. Act on your own accord and navigate the consequences of being yourself like every other person on the planet.
It's been a while since I broke up with that person, but when I visit home and see him, I still get annoyed about how much he milked my trust and devotion dry.
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