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Why are women pressured into receiving anal sex so much when men are the ones with orgasm buttons in their butts?

This has always confused me.

I've met many cishet men who want to do anal with me. Like, its been disgusting how much pressure men have put towards violating a boundary I clearly state before getting into any sexual situation. I've had men beg me to play with my butt hole. I don't care if other people like anal, it's not for me and I shouldn't be pressured into doing something I'm not comfortable with. I don't put pressure on men to do sexual things they state they aren't comfortable with and I expect the same respect in turn.

What really grinds my gears is that if you ask most of these men if they'd let someone who has at least >50lbs on them go to town on their butt holes, they say no. They have no interest in having their anus violated. But why? Men have an actual orgasm button in their butt holes so if anyone should be taking it up the ass in a cishet relationship, it makes far more sense for the man to be on the receiving end of anal. (and yes I know there are plenty of cishet men who do butt stuff, I'm talking about the ones who only want to violate women's anuses and not have theirs even touched)

I hate the double standard of women needing to make their butt holes available for penetration, knowing full well we have far less of a chance from orgasming from anal stimulation than men, while men can keep their butt holes virginal. It's been relieving to dial back on dating and hooking up with men because I don't have to worry about someone pressuring me into doing something I don't want to do. I've had partners violate my boundaries and sexually assault me by trying to do anal, and that's an incredibly terrifying and gross experience I don't want to go through again.

Edit: to all the women who have been leaving comments here saying they have been anally raped and sexually assaulted by men, my heart goes out to you. Far too many us of have experienced this. It is so disgusting that there are some men out there who do this to women.

Edit 2: cishet = cisgendered heterosexual, it refers to a cis woman and cis man being together.

Edit 3: some people here have suggested that some men only have an interest in penetrating a woman's asshole to cause pain, degradation and humiliation. I've received a few DMs from men asking me to recount tales of negative and painful experiences I've had with anal sex, so I think you're on to something there.

www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wmkxq1/why_are_women_pressured_into_receiving_anal_sex/ source

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Can girls/women just be allowed to enjoy things without being made fun of by society?

I saw on another subreddit a video of a huge line of what appears to be a sorority at a Starbucks because pumpkin spice dropped early or something. The comments are absolutely horrendous, making fun of girls for liking pumpkin spice lattes and other "basic bitch" things. God forbid girls enjoy simple pleasures in life. We are ridiculed for liking pumpkin spice, the autumn season in general, astrology, makeup/skincare, etc. You never see this level of bullying for men enjoying stereotypical masculine activities like football, the Super Bowl, them obsessing over the latest video game drop, whatever.

It just speaks on how pervasive cultural misogyny really is, even when politics aren't involved. As soon as we girls/women collectively enjoy something, it's considered stupid or silly and a waste of time.

www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wo6hp2/can_girlswomen_just_be_allowed_to_enjoy_things/ source

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I pretended to be a 14 year old girl to a 37 year old grown man who randomly messaged me on Telegram. Turns out, he's a married Christian who's on the board of a nonprofit.

He hit on me, said I was going to get him into "trouble" and that he wanted to see me in a bathing suit. He even sent face pictures to me! Idiot was using his legal full name on Telegram, too. I screenshot everything, sent it to the nonprofit's Facebook and his wife. Now we wait...

www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wpkwvf/i_pretended_to_be_a_14_year_old_girl_to_a_37_year/ source

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