I haven't posted here in a long time, but here are a few pics as an update for those who remember me haha!
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It makes me so emotional seeing trans people from an era when being queer was vilified and shunned from society 🥹🏳️⚧️💛✨
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I AM NOT AN ADULT CONVERSATION
I came out on New Years and it went well! Everyone was at the very least accepting in the moment, but today I did have an experience that felt like the opposite.
I was in a car with a couple people (all over 21) and one person wanted to invite one of their younger family members (she's 10), I was familiar with her and wasn't opposed so I said "alright, I haven't had a chance to let her know so It'll definitely be a way to come out" and they all said "DO NOT TELL HER" I was confused initially, the whole point of me coming out for the New Year was to stay out of the closet, and that's exactly what I said, they told me the parents wouldn't be happy and that they needed to "explain it to her first" so she'll understand. I don't know about any of you but the only real "explanation" is "here is my new name and pronouns!" "Why did I change? Because I'm more comfortable as a girl!" And that's that.
I was told we'd figure it out when she got into the car, and the only "figuring out" we all did was shoving me back into the closet because "the parents should know first"
I AM NOT AN ADULT CONVERSATION! I AM A HUMAN BEING! IM OUT OF THE CLOSET AND I'D LIKE IT TO STAY THAT WAY! YOU DON'T WANT HER TO KNOW!? KEEP HER OUT OF MY FUCKING CAR!
After it all happened I was REALLY upset, I still am, but I feel really dumb for being upset. IDK I think I just needed a place to vent real quick. I thought I was done needing to get deadnamed and misgendered without correcting people, but I guess I'm not. It was disappointing to say the least...
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I came out on New Years and it went well! Everyone was at the very least accepting in the moment, but today I did have an experience that felt like the opposite.
I was in a car with a couple people (all over 21) and one person wanted to invite one of their younger family members (she's 10), I was familiar with her and wasn't opposed so I said "alright, I haven't had a chance to let her know so It'll definitely be a way to come out" and they all said "DO NOT TELL HER" I was confused initially, the whole point of me coming out for the New Year was to stay out of the closet, and that's exactly what I said, they told me the parents wouldn't be happy and that they needed to "explain it to her first" so she'll understand. I don't know about any of you but the only real "explanation" is "here is my new name and pronouns!" "Why did I change? Because I'm more comfortable as a girl!" And that's that.
I was told we'd figure it out when she got into the car, and the only "figuring out" we all did was shoving me back into the closet because "the parents should know first"
I AM NOT AN ADULT CONVERSATION! I AM A HUMAN BEING! IM OUT OF THE CLOSET AND I'D LIKE IT TO STAY THAT WAY! YOU DON'T WANT HER TO KNOW!? KEEP HER OUT OF MY FUCKING CAR!
After it all happened I was REALLY upset, I still am, but I feel really dumb for being upset. IDK I think I just needed a place to vent real quick. I thought I was done needing to get deadnamed and misgendered without correcting people, but I guess I'm not. It was disappointing to say the least...
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To much anal ???
Just been diagnosed with proctitis trauma from anal sex had my colonoscopy yesterday and confirmed that the last fck I had was enjoyable but rough but no pain he drove it hard and deep but luckily came in me quickly.
Been in pain the last few months in the stomach/ large bowl, colon/ sigmoid area and have been bleeding.
The findings are my colon nerves and mucus lining are very inflamed and white and a lot of the blood vessels that should sit on top the mucus wall lining surface have gone possible scare tissue built up over the surface.
They also noted my colon had been altered in a way it should naturally sit and the internal mucus lining has deformed in placed from abrasion of anal sex and toys.
For every one getting fck bareback etc please take care of your botty hole, I know us guys love it and enjoy it.
I've been engaged in bareback for the last 5 years and only had in that time about 40-50 meets as a bottom for bareback.
Waiting to find out how I go forwards and if I can bottom every again.
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Just been diagnosed with proctitis trauma from anal sex had my colonoscopy yesterday and confirmed that the last fck I had was enjoyable but rough but no pain he drove it hard and deep but luckily came in me quickly.
Been in pain the last few months in the stomach/ large bowl, colon/ sigmoid area and have been bleeding.
The findings are my colon nerves and mucus lining are very inflamed and white and a lot of the blood vessels that should sit on top the mucus wall lining surface have gone possible scare tissue built up over the surface.
They also noted my colon had been altered in a way it should naturally sit and the internal mucus lining has deformed in placed from abrasion of anal sex and toys.
For every one getting fck bareback etc please take care of your botty hole, I know us guys love it and enjoy it.
I've been engaged in bareback for the last 5 years and only had in that time about 40-50 meets as a bottom for bareback.
Waiting to find out how I go forwards and if I can bottom every again.
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I am being forced into marriage and fear honor killing – Trans man in a conservative family (URGENT HELP NEEDED)
I am 20 years old and I am a trans man living in a very conservative family and environment. I am writing this because I am in immediate danger and I don’t know what steps to take anymore.
My family is forcing me into a marriage against my will. This is not a discussion it is happening because they are afraid I will “ruin the family’s reputation.” The man they want me to marry is over 30 years old, and no one has asked for my consent. The marriage is being arranged between families and will be strict and controlling.
I am currently:
•Not allowed to leave the house except rarely
•Forced to wear hijab and niqab
•Forbidden from working or being financially independent
•Forbidden from owning or using a car, even though I am 20 and licensed, because “it’s shameful for a girl to drive”
•Completely controlled and monitored
I am in a long-distance relationship with my gender-fluid partner, which my family does not know about. If they find out, things will become extremely dangerous.
A year ago, I was nearly forced into a similar marriage with a 34-year-old man. It was canceled at the last moment only because my uncle discovered the man was unstable and drank heavily. That situation caused me severe depression, and now it is happening again..worse and more serious.
If I refuse this marriage or try to sabotage it, the situation at home will escalate. I am genuinely afraid it could lead to severe violence or even an “honor killing.” In my environment, people openly boast about these acts.
I am not exaggerating. I am not safe.
I need urgent, concrete steps on how to get out:
-Legal options
-Escape planning
-International help or asylum information
-Organizations that help LGBTQ+ people in forced marriage or honor-based violence situations
Please do not tell me to “talk to my family.” That is not an option.
Please do not tell me to “be patient.” Time is working against me.
I am asking for help because I want to live
not just survive.
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I am 20 years old and I am a trans man living in a very conservative family and environment. I am writing this because I am in immediate danger and I don’t know what steps to take anymore.
My family is forcing me into a marriage against my will. This is not a discussion it is happening because they are afraid I will “ruin the family’s reputation.” The man they want me to marry is over 30 years old, and no one has asked for my consent. The marriage is being arranged between families and will be strict and controlling.
I am currently:
•Not allowed to leave the house except rarely
•Forced to wear hijab and niqab
•Forbidden from working or being financially independent
•Forbidden from owning or using a car, even though I am 20 and licensed, because “it’s shameful for a girl to drive”
•Completely controlled and monitored
I am in a long-distance relationship with my gender-fluid partner, which my family does not know about. If they find out, things will become extremely dangerous.
A year ago, I was nearly forced into a similar marriage with a 34-year-old man. It was canceled at the last moment only because my uncle discovered the man was unstable and drank heavily. That situation caused me severe depression, and now it is happening again..worse and more serious.
If I refuse this marriage or try to sabotage it, the situation at home will escalate. I am genuinely afraid it could lead to severe violence or even an “honor killing.” In my environment, people openly boast about these acts.
I am not exaggerating. I am not safe.
I need urgent, concrete steps on how to get out:
-Legal options
-Escape planning
-International help or asylum information
-Organizations that help LGBTQ+ people in forced marriage or honor-based violence situations
Please do not tell me to “talk to my family.” That is not an option.
Please do not tell me to “be patient.” Time is working against me.
I am asking for help because I want to live
not just survive.
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