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Why my Instagram algorithm is all about fighting and killing??
Why my Instagram algorithm is all about fighting and killing??
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Waitt... Did I miss something Why my Instagram algorithm is all about fighting and killing??
It's not only me, right?
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Unorthodox Tips on Socializing
Socializing is often seen as a daunting challenge an obstacle standing between people and their goals, whether it’s landing a good job, building meaningful friendships, or finding a fulfilling relationship. In this series, we’re going to break it down and simplify the process so we can all navigate it with more confidence.
Before We Begin
I’m not an expert, far from it. I’ve made plenty of mistakes, but I’ve learned from them, and I’m still here, genuinely improving. I won’t promise to help you avoid every misstep because mistakes are part of the process. But I can try to make it easier for you to break the cycle and avoid repeating them.
Things to consider while fostering symbiotic relationships with peers
Scenario 1: Finding Common Ground
If you see someone wearing a shirt featuring your favorite anime in campus, the gym or an anime event, don’t be afraid to start a conversation. If they don’t recognize the reference, simply apologize and walk away you have nothing to lose.
Too often, people open with something like "ተመችተሽኝ ነው" "I like your face". If you do this, you’re setting yourself up for failure. Instead, build connections through shared interests.
Energy Speaks Louder Than Words
People can’t see your energy it’s like the wind. You only notice it through its effects, like trees swaying or petals twirling in the air. The golden rule. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. If you want to be liked, show genuine interest in others, and most of the time, they’ll reciprocate. All the “tips and tricks” will come naturally when you truly care.
Scenario 2: Eye Contact & Confidence
Many people struggle with eye contact that nervous feeling when someone’s gaze is locked onto you. There are no shortcuts. Just do it. If it’s overwhelming, start with people you’re comfortable with and gradually work your way up.
Here’s the thing: whether you meet their eyes or not, they still see you. Avoiding eye contact makes you appear more anxious, the more you avoid their eyes the more they see through you not less. So be more afraid of not making eye contact. Yes, you might overdo it at first and stare awkwardly, but with practice, you’ll learn when to hold or break eye contact.
Scenario 3: Conversations Are Like Dancing
Think of a conversation as a dance avoid stepping on each other’s toes. If you stumble, laugh it off and keep going. But some people dance frantically distracting you with their flailing arms and stepping all over you, so it’s important to recognize when to walk away… or when to run.
Scenario 4: Giving Genuine Compliments
Be authentic in everything you do people can tell when you’re not. If the moment is right, don’t hesitate to compliment someone, even a stranger, as long as it’s appropriate.
Breaking the Ice Naturally
Imagine you're leaving class and spot a classmate you've never spoken to. Instead of overthinking, simply point out something specific:
"I love your Hatsune Miku T-shirt!"
"That perfume smells nice, is it vanilla?"
It helps if you actually know something about the subject. After a few lines of conversation, introduce yourself assertively. And no, I won’t tell you to smile you should already be doing that if you’re genuinely engaged.
Why point things out? It provides context. People aren’t constantly thinking about you; they might not even register your presence at first. By directing their attention to something specific using your eyes or body language (their shirt, scent, or accessory), you reduce the chance of awkwardness.
Expressions & Body Language: Your Natural Melody
Being in tune with yourself matters. This is where “be yourself” actually applies.
Your smile is one of your greatest assets use it well. Ever notice how people laugh less when they’re alone, even when watching their favorite show? Or how close friends often develop similar laughs? Social harmony starts with understanding your own rhythm. Practice different ways of laughing it might sound quiet but as you get comfortable, your natural laugh will emerge.
Unorthodox Tips on Socializing
Socializing is often seen as a daunting challenge an obstacle standing between people and their goals, whether it’s landing a good job, building meaningful friendships, or finding a fulfilling relationship. In this series, we’re going to break it down and simplify the process so we can all navigate it with more confidence.
Before We Begin
I’m not an expert, far from it. I’ve made plenty of mistakes, but I’ve learned from them, and I’m still here, genuinely improving. I won’t promise to help you avoid every misstep because mistakes are part of the process. But I can try to make it easier for you to break the cycle and avoid repeating them.
Things to consider while fostering symbiotic relationships with peers
Scenario 1: Finding Common Ground
If you see someone wearing a shirt featuring your favorite anime in campus, the gym or an anime event, don’t be afraid to start a conversation. If they don’t recognize the reference, simply apologize and walk away you have nothing to lose.
Too often, people open with something like "ተመችተሽኝ ነው" "I like your face". If you do this, you’re setting yourself up for failure. Instead, build connections through shared interests.
Energy Speaks Louder Than Words
People can’t see your energy it’s like the wind. You only notice it through its effects, like trees swaying or petals twirling in the air. The golden rule. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. If you want to be liked, show genuine interest in others, and most of the time, they’ll reciprocate. All the “tips and tricks” will come naturally when you truly care.
Scenario 2: Eye Contact & Confidence
Many people struggle with eye contact that nervous feeling when someone’s gaze is locked onto you. There are no shortcuts. Just do it. If it’s overwhelming, start with people you’re comfortable with and gradually work your way up.
Here’s the thing: whether you meet their eyes or not, they still see you. Avoiding eye contact makes you appear more anxious, the more you avoid their eyes the more they see through you not less. So be more afraid of not making eye contact. Yes, you might overdo it at first and stare awkwardly, but with practice, you’ll learn when to hold or break eye contact.
Scenario 3: Conversations Are Like Dancing
Think of a conversation as a dance avoid stepping on each other’s toes. If you stumble, laugh it off and keep going. But some people dance frantically distracting you with their flailing arms and stepping all over you, so it’s important to recognize when to walk away… or when to run.
Scenario 4: Giving Genuine Compliments
Be authentic in everything you do people can tell when you’re not. If the moment is right, don’t hesitate to compliment someone, even a stranger, as long as it’s appropriate.
Breaking the Ice Naturally
Imagine you're leaving class and spot a classmate you've never spoken to. Instead of overthinking, simply point out something specific:
"I love your Hatsune Miku T-shirt!"
"That perfume smells nice, is it vanilla?"
It helps if you actually know something about the subject. After a few lines of conversation, introduce yourself assertively. And no, I won’t tell you to smile you should already be doing that if you’re genuinely engaged.
Why point things out? It provides context. People aren’t constantly thinking about you; they might not even register your presence at first. By directing their attention to something specific using your eyes or body language (their shirt, scent, or accessory), you reduce the chance of awkwardness.
Expressions & Body Language: Your Natural Melody
Being in tune with yourself matters. This is where “be yourself” actually applies.
Your smile is one of your greatest assets use it well. Ever notice how people laugh less when they’re alone, even when watching their favorite show? Or how close friends often develop similar laughs? Social harmony starts with understanding your own rhythm. Practice different ways of laughing it might sound quiet but as you get comfortable, your natural laugh will emerge.
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Me a dude in taxi
He saw me using ChatGpt, and he said I use ChatGpt for work along with DeepSeek. They helped me so much at work, and I was like yeahhh everybody should use them, there is so much to know from them, we should normalize that Blah Blah, and then i asked what he does for living and guess what he said....... I am a pharmacist
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Once you've read the dictionary, every other book you read is just a remix.
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Once you've read the dictionary, every other book you read is just a remix.
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