queer polyam anarchy 🖤❤️🌈
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(self-)education, memes and experiences about queer non-monogamous relationships and sex advice (CN)

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having a sex-talk about preferences, boundaries and anything important to mention before engaging in a sexual activity with someone (new) can be really helpful -- but also really hard to start and to keep track off.
this list "yes no maybe" provides a variety of sex-related questions, including contraception, STIs, preference of pronouns and use of words that can be answered with "yes", "no" or "maybe".
let each partner fill out one of these, print them, save them, add a date when it was filled-out -- preferences and boundaries can change!
talk about the results, ask questions, be kind and always make sure to recieve consent. talk about safe-words and hard-limits.
check-in with your partner(s) from time to time, is the list still the same? did things change?
make sure everyone is comfortable and has given their explicit consent to activities. ask questions if you are unsure about something, stand up for your own boundaries.
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