Fun fact of the week:
Despite what many people think, over 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. Penetration isn't everything, guys!
Despite what many people think, over 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. Penetration isn't everything, guys!
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Who's ready for today's Hot or Not...
Hand restraints during sex/foreplay?
Hand restraints during sex/foreplay?
Anonymous Poll
91%
HOT
9%
NOT
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Fun fact of the week:
The average time for sexual intercourse is around 5-7 minutes, according to a bunch of studies. However, this varies depending on factors like age, relationship dynamics, and individual preferences.
The average time for sexual intercourse is around 5-7 minutes, according to a bunch of studies. However, this varies depending on factors like age, relationship dynamics, and individual preferences.
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Incoming! yes, March is knocking on the door which means it’s time for your monthly selection of the best sex-positive events from around the world, carefully curated by our team.
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LONDON
11th March - Stimulation (Fold) [link here]
“Stimulation is a sex-positive, queer-friendly party for self-expression and dancing in a safe space. On 11th March will be ascending upon FOLD London, from 10pm until 6am. We bring with us some of Berlin's finest as well as Jan Vercauteren from Belgium.”
15th March - March Ball by Torture Garden (Electrowerkz) [link here]
“We’re going back to our purest form for this year’s March Ball, and bringing you TG at its raw, unfiltered finest. There’s no additional theme for this party, but you can expect fully immersive decor, exceptional performances (including TG debuts from Estelle Bathory and Jao), superb DJ lineup and fully kitted out dungeon and couples room.”
20th March - Fox Den Fantasy (East London underground fantasy den) [link here]
“We will kick the evening off with fun icebreakers to get to know each other better. Then we will have facilitated exercises to help you articulate your desires and express your boundaries in a safe way.”
11th March - Stimulation (Fold) [link here]
“Stimulation is a sex-positive, queer-friendly party for self-expression and dancing in a safe space. On 11th March will be ascending upon FOLD London, from 10pm until 6am. We bring with us some of Berlin's finest as well as Jan Vercauteren from Belgium.”
15th March - March Ball by Torture Garden (Electrowerkz) [link here]
“We’re going back to our purest form for this year’s March Ball, and bringing you TG at its raw, unfiltered finest. There’s no additional theme for this party, but you can expect fully immersive decor, exceptional performances (including TG debuts from Estelle Bathory and Jao), superb DJ lineup and fully kitted out dungeon and couples room.”
20th March - Fox Den Fantasy (East London underground fantasy den) [link here]
“We will kick the evening off with fun icebreakers to get to know each other better. Then we will have facilitated exercises to help you articulate your desires and express your boundaries in a safe way.”
Resident Advisor
STIMULATION at FOLD, London (2022) ⟋ RA
On 11th March will be ascending upon FOLD London, from 10pm until 6am. We bring with us some of Berlin's finest as well as Jan Vercauteren from Belgium....
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BERLIN
6th March - Human Colours (KitKatClub) [link here]
“Come and enjoy human diversity through techno music, burlesque performances, and body art. Attendees can enjoy live DJ sets, captivating burlesque shows, and the opportunity to participate in body painting sessions.”
8th March - Colours of the night (Insomnia) [link here]
“On this special evening, each visitor will receive a colourful wristband that signals their intentions for the night. Whether you want to dance, flirt or experience new adventures – the choice is entirely yours! The club's various rooms invite you to live out your creativity and desires. Let yourself be carried away by pulsating beats and discover the diversity of the night.”
27th March - Porn by Pornceptual (Muenze) [link here]
“Pornceptual is Berlin’s iconic sex-positive party and art collective, blending eroticism, techno, and radical self-expression. Held in underground venues, it attracts a diverse, open-minded crowd celebrating body positivity, queerness, and sexual freedom.”
6th March - Human Colours (KitKatClub) [link here]
“Come and enjoy human diversity through techno music, burlesque performances, and body art. Attendees can enjoy live DJ sets, captivating burlesque shows, and the opportunity to participate in body painting sessions.”
8th March - Colours of the night (Insomnia) [link here]
“On this special evening, each visitor will receive a colourful wristband that signals their intentions for the night. Whether you want to dance, flirt or experience new adventures – the choice is entirely yours! The club's various rooms invite you to live out your creativity and desires. Let yourself be carried away by pulsating beats and discover the diversity of the night.”
27th March - Porn by Pornceptual (Muenze) [link here]
“Pornceptual is Berlin’s iconic sex-positive party and art collective, blending eroticism, techno, and radical self-expression. Held in underground venues, it attracts a diverse, open-minded crowd celebrating body positivity, queerness, and sexual freedom.”
kitkatclub.org
<< KitKatClub - THE HUMAN PROJECT - Information, Communication,
Networking - Futter für Herz und Hirn! >>
Networking - Futter für Herz und Hirn! >>
Community-Projekt mit dem Schwerpunkt Gesellschaft & Sexualität.
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PARIS
13th - 16th March - Tout Est Chaos Chez (Madame Arthur) [link here]
“Welcome to Madame Arthur, a transvestite cabaret open since 1946, in the heart of Pigalle and at the foot of the Butte Montmartre. Enter now into our decadent universe, mixing live music and spicy show!”
19th March - Eyes wide shut (Les Chandelles) [link here]
“Discover the beginnings of libertinism with a mask party to remember. These events are exclusively for couples who want to enjoy all of lifes pleasures”
22nd March - Le mask (Le Mask) [link here]
“Le Mask is a Parisian club known for its themed events and welcoming atmosphere, providing a safe and consensual environment for individuals and couples to explore their sensuality.”
13th - 16th March - Tout Est Chaos Chez (Madame Arthur) [link here]
“Welcome to Madame Arthur, a transvestite cabaret open since 1946, in the heart of Pigalle and at the foot of the Butte Montmartre. Enter now into our decadent universe, mixing live music and spicy show!”
19th March - Eyes wide shut (Les Chandelles) [link here]
“Discover the beginnings of libertinism with a mask party to remember. These events are exclusively for couples who want to enjoy all of lifes pleasures”
22nd March - Le mask (Le Mask) [link here]
“Le Mask is a Parisian club known for its themed events and welcoming atmosphere, providing a safe and consensual environment for individuals and couples to explore their sensuality.”
Madame Arthur
Tout est chaos chez Madame Arthur - Madame Arthur
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NEW YORK
7th March - Clusterf*ck (Hacienda) [link here]
“Don't miss the wildest party at Hacienda where the sluttiest among us gather for group play!”
8th March - Dirty Circus Variety Show (House of yes) [link here]
“House of Yes presents Dirty Circus, our longest-running variety show. Circus, cabaret, burlesque, aerial acrobatics, pole dancing, drag, sideshow and beyond!”
26th March - HMU Academy: Public Play for Everyone (Hit me up) [link here]
“Does the thought of getting frisky in public excite you? Learn covert and overt ways to play on your own or with others when you're out!”
7th March - Clusterf*ck (Hacienda) [link here]
“Don't miss the wildest party at Hacienda where the sluttiest among us gather for group play!”
8th March - Dirty Circus Variety Show (House of yes) [link here]
“House of Yes presents Dirty Circus, our longest-running variety show. Circus, cabaret, burlesque, aerial acrobatics, pole dancing, drag, sideshow and beyond!”
26th March - HMU Academy: Public Play for Everyone (Hit me up) [link here]
“Does the thought of getting frisky in public excite you? Learn covert and overt ways to play on your own or with others when you're out!”
Wearehacienda
Sex Positive Events, Education, & Living
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Fun fact of the week:
First impressions really do matter! Studies show that 55% of your first impression comes from body language, 38% from your tone of voice, and only 7% from the actual words you say. So, it’s not just what you say – it’s how you say it.
First impressions really do matter! Studies show that 55% of your first impression comes from body language, 38% from your tone of voice, and only 7% from the actual words you say. So, it’s not just what you say – it’s how you say it.
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Fun fact of the week:
Did you know that 1 in 3 couples who married between 2005 and 2012 in the U.S. began online?
Did you know that 1 in 3 couples who married between 2005 and 2012 in the U.S. began online?
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Incoming! yes, it’s April already. Which means not only is the weather heating up… so is your calendar 🔥
Here is your monthly selection of the best sex-positive events from around the world, carefully curated by our team.
Here is your monthly selection of the best sex-positive events from around the world, carefully curated by our team.
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LONDON
6th April - The Liquid Love Experience (Old Street venue) [link here]
“Liquid Love is an extraordinary immersive intimate group event where guests are gently guided into exploring their bodies, their boundaries, human connection, playfulness, touch, and the magical sensuality of flowing skin on skin contact.”
11th April - Klub Verboten x London w/ Lady Starlight (The Cause) [link here]
“In times when the world, your wallet and the web let us down, we are committed to holding on to our values and ethos by delivering hot new artists such as Lady Starlight. Here is to high life on a low budget. Pleasure for all. Hate for none. More surprises shall await you on the day.”
25th April - Foxy Playtime (East London underground fantasy den) [link here]
“Playtime is one of our oldest events and definitely one of my favourite formats. The venue is super cute with a variety of spaces to have fun in as well as socialise. And due to the group size, curation of guests and the icebreaker games we play at the start, we always manage to have the loveliest bunch of people which makes for a great party. 💕”
6th April - The Liquid Love Experience (Old Street venue) [link here]
“Liquid Love is an extraordinary immersive intimate group event where guests are gently guided into exploring their bodies, their boundaries, human connection, playfulness, touch, and the magical sensuality of flowing skin on skin contact.”
11th April - Klub Verboten x London w/ Lady Starlight (The Cause) [link here]
“In times when the world, your wallet and the web let us down, we are committed to holding on to our values and ethos by delivering hot new artists such as Lady Starlight. Here is to high life on a low budget. Pleasure for all. Hate for none. More surprises shall await you on the day.”
25th April - Foxy Playtime (East London underground fantasy den) [link here]
“Playtime is one of our oldest events and definitely one of my favourite formats. The venue is super cute with a variety of spaces to have fun in as well as socialise. And due to the group size, curation of guests and the icebreaker games we play at the start, we always manage to have the loveliest bunch of people which makes for a great party. 💕”
DesignMyNight
The Liquid Love Experience
Buy tickets for The Liquid Love Experience, London. Information on The Liquid Love Experience, Sun, 6th Apr 2025 @ 15:00 - 21:00 in London.
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PARIS
5th April - Playdate Party (Akasha Society) [link here]
“Have you ever wanted to break free? Open a window into our world to find other friends and potential loves. Play games and meet new people. Enter the adult playground and make your fantasy come true. During this adventure, members will be welcome to explore in a safer, respectful and inclusive space. We will do two connection workshops in order to ice break the participants. There will also be plenty of room for meeting other members and enjoying the evening at your own pace.”
16th April - Threesome Night (Taken Club) [link here]
“Le Taken Club is a libertine club that hosts themed nights catering to various fantasies and preferences. Here we emphasize consent and provide a safe space for exploration so you can have a night you won’t forget.”
17th - 20th April - Fait Briller Diam’s (Madame Arthur) [link here]
“Pom pom pom pom… in your dreams, Arthur dons his iconic blue peach skin and listens to your nocturnal confessions… Good news, it's definitely real! For one evening, the creatures bring Diam's back on stage, to the delight of platinum blondes.”
5th April - Playdate Party (Akasha Society) [link here]
“Have you ever wanted to break free? Open a window into our world to find other friends and potential loves. Play games and meet new people. Enter the adult playground and make your fantasy come true. During this adventure, members will be welcome to explore in a safer, respectful and inclusive space. We will do two connection workshops in order to ice break the participants. There will also be plenty of room for meeting other members and enjoying the evening at your own pace.”
16th April - Threesome Night (Taken Club) [link here]
“Le Taken Club is a libertine club that hosts themed nights catering to various fantasies and preferences. Here we emphasize consent and provide a safe space for exploration so you can have a night you won’t forget.”
17th - 20th April - Fait Briller Diam’s (Madame Arthur) [link here]
“Pom pom pom pom… in your dreams, Arthur dons his iconic blue peach skin and listens to your nocturnal confessions… Good news, it's definitely real! For one evening, the creatures bring Diam's back on stage, to the delight of platinum blondes.”
www.taken-club.fr
Taken-Club - Rates
Prices of the Taken Club - Couple, single woman from Wednesday to Saturday from 10.30 pm. Couple with one drink per person: 75 euros. Woman alone with a drink: 35 euros. Consumption prices are shown at the bottom of the page.
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BERLIN
12th April - Tantra Speed Date (Yoga Sky) [link here]
“Here at Tantra Speed Date, we do speed dating a little differently. You see, our trained facilitators use cutting-edge relational techniques to bring you and your dates into a mindful state of presence. When you're in this state, any feelings of nervousness or self-consciousness will melt away. So you can simply relax, have fun, and put your best foot forward…”
13th April - Elysian Temple Night - Part III (The Playhouse Berlin Collective) [link here]
“We are overjoyed to invite you to the third installment of our 'Elysian' temple nights in Berlin. Elysian is the next in the series of Temple Nights by The Playhouse Collective. It will be an intimate, close-knit event with 30 participants to ensure a cosy, personal atmosphere. Unlike other events like this, we prioritise a very bespoke, personal relationship with our participants, all sexualities, genders, and backgrounds are welcome.”
17th April - Klub Verboten x Berlin (Kreuzwerk) [link here]
“Hand on the heart, there isn’t any better occasion for a romantic date ahead of easter than this. Hide egg-shaped 8Uttplugs in your besties bu77hole. Play with bunnies.”
12th April - Tantra Speed Date (Yoga Sky) [link here]
“Here at Tantra Speed Date, we do speed dating a little differently. You see, our trained facilitators use cutting-edge relational techniques to bring you and your dates into a mindful state of presence. When you're in this state, any feelings of nervousness or self-consciousness will melt away. So you can simply relax, have fun, and put your best foot forward…”
13th April - Elysian Temple Night - Part III (The Playhouse Berlin Collective) [link here]
“We are overjoyed to invite you to the third installment of our 'Elysian' temple nights in Berlin. Elysian is the next in the series of Temple Nights by The Playhouse Collective. It will be an intimate, close-knit event with 30 participants to ensure a cosy, personal atmosphere. Unlike other events like this, we prioritise a very bespoke, personal relationship with our participants, all sexualities, genders, and backgrounds are welcome.”
17th April - Klub Verboten x Berlin (Kreuzwerk) [link here]
“Hand on the heart, there isn’t any better occasion for a romantic date ahead of easter than this. Hide egg-shaped 8Uttplugs in your besties bu77hole. Play with bunnies.”
Eventbrite
Tantra Speed Date® - Berlin! (Meet Singles Speed Dating)
Join the speed dating revolution with a 94% connection rate! Meet singles and ignite sparks with fun, chemistry games!
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NEW YORK
11th April - RITES OF SPRING: GRRL • LATEX GIRL • STARYA (House of yes) [link here]
“Sap daddies unite! We’re celebrating the arrival of Spring and new vibes with a witchy dance party invoking ancestors, sacrifice, and rituals.”
1-26th April - Erotic City (Eric Firestone Gallery) [link here]
“Curated by 93-year-old artist Martha Edelheit, this exhibition features over 60 works—including paintings, photographs, and sculptures—that delve into sensual and erotic themes. Edelheit emphasizes the cultural and subjective nature of erotic art, aiming to provide aesthetic pleasure and challenge narrow perceptions of erotica.”
25th April - JMV Presents QUEERLESQUE (Club Cumming) [link here]
“Spring has certainly sprung & JMV is back again with a super hot cast for Queerlesque”
11th April - RITES OF SPRING: GRRL • LATEX GIRL • STARYA (House of yes) [link here]
“Sap daddies unite! We’re celebrating the arrival of Spring and new vibes with a witchy dance party invoking ancestors, sacrifice, and rituals.”
1-26th April - Erotic City (Eric Firestone Gallery) [link here]
“Curated by 93-year-old artist Martha Edelheit, this exhibition features over 60 works—including paintings, photographs, and sculptures—that delve into sensual and erotic themes. Edelheit emphasizes the cultural and subjective nature of erotic art, aiming to provide aesthetic pleasure and challenge narrow perceptions of erotica.”
25th April - JMV Presents QUEERLESQUE (Club Cumming) [link here]
“Spring has certainly sprung & JMV is back again with a super hot cast for Queerlesque”
Shotgun
Rites Of Spring: Grrl • Latex Girl • Starya, Brooklyn, New York · Shotgun Tickets
Tickets for Rites Of Spring: Grrl • Latex Girl • Starya in New York, United States – April 11, 2025
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LOS ANGELES
5th April - Queerventures Social Hike (by Sex Positive LA) [link here]
On Saturday, April 5th at 10 AM enjoy a wonderful hike in the hollywood hills with some queer folks at the Hollywood Reservoir! Since this is a Level 1 event it is open to all members and non-members alike. Members, feel free to bring friends! Allies welcome!
18th April - Sexy Bunny Friday (Club Joi) [link here]
“Club JOi in Los Angeles is where sultry sophistication meets uninhibited fun. Tucked away in a sleek, upscale venue, JOi is the playground for open-minded adventurers and sexy socialites looking to connect, flirt, and explore.”
20th April - Sunday Soundbath at the Dungeon (Dungeon East) [link here]
“Relax and reset with the healing sounds of crystal bowls at your favorite monthly queer and kink affirming sound bath!”
5th April - Queerventures Social Hike (by Sex Positive LA) [link here]
On Saturday, April 5th at 10 AM enjoy a wonderful hike in the hollywood hills with some queer folks at the Hollywood Reservoir! Since this is a Level 1 event it is open to all members and non-members alike. Members, feel free to bring friends! Allies welcome!
18th April - Sexy Bunny Friday (Club Joi) [link here]
“Club JOi in Los Angeles is where sultry sophistication meets uninhibited fun. Tucked away in a sleek, upscale venue, JOi is the playground for open-minded adventurers and sexy socialites looking to connect, flirt, and explore.”
20th April - Sunday Soundbath at the Dungeon (Dungeon East) [link here]
“Relax and reset with the healing sounds of crystal bowls at your favorite monthly queer and kink affirming sound bath!”
www.sexpositivelosangeles.org
SexPositive Los Angeles (SPLA)
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INCOMING: Hottest Events Around The World This Month. Stuff Your Social Calendar, Spring Has C*m.
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NEW YORK
9th May - Token Party Bondage Edition (Brooklyn) [link here]
Join us for an unforgettable night of rope play, led by our skilled dommes. From sweet surrender to delicious torment, satisfaction is guaranteed.
10th May - Dirty Circus: Variety Show (House of Yes) [link here]
Circus, cabaret, burlesque, aerial acrobatics, pole dancing, drag, sideshow and beyond!
14th May - The Knot Spot (Location TBC) [link here]
A welcoming night for riggers and rope lovers to learn, share, and connect—from curious beginners to seasoned pros. Explore the art of Shibari in a supportive community.
9th May - Token Party Bondage Edition (Brooklyn) [link here]
Join us for an unforgettable night of rope play, led by our skilled dommes. From sweet surrender to delicious torment, satisfaction is guaranteed.
10th May - Dirty Circus: Variety Show (House of Yes) [link here]
Circus, cabaret, burlesque, aerial acrobatics, pole dancing, drag, sideshow and beyond!
14th May - The Knot Spot (Location TBC) [link here]
A welcoming night for riggers and rope lovers to learn, share, and connect—from curious beginners to seasoned pros. Explore the art of Shibari in a supportive community.
Eventbrite
Token Party Bondage Edition
Rope tying has never been so fun...
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LOS ANGELES
3rd May - Sex cells res-erection (Dragonfly Hollywood) [link here]
More than a party—it’s a cultural explosion of music, fashion, and unapologetic self-expression for the beautifully bizarre.
17th May - Neon (Illuminauhty) [link here]
Join our vibrant Illuminaughty community for a sultry Neon night in a luxe Laurel Canyon home. Dress in your wildest neon, unwind in the hot tub, explore multiple play areas, and indulge in music, massage, and more - surrounded by L.A.’s sexiest crowd.
May 23rd - May 25th - WeHo Pride Arts Festival (West Hollywood) [link here]
Happening across West Hollywood, the WeHo Pride Arts Festival celebrates expression, inclusion, and creativity—featuring art, dance, performance, and more.
3rd May - Sex cells res-erection (Dragonfly Hollywood) [link here]
More than a party—it’s a cultural explosion of music, fashion, and unapologetic self-expression for the beautifully bizarre.
17th May - Neon (Illuminauhty) [link here]
Join our vibrant Illuminaughty community for a sultry Neon night in a luxe Laurel Canyon home. Dress in your wildest neon, unwind in the hot tub, explore multiple play areas, and indulge in music, massage, and more - surrounded by L.A.’s sexiest crowd.
May 23rd - May 25th - WeHo Pride Arts Festival (West Hollywood) [link here]
Happening across West Hollywood, the WeHo Pride Arts Festival celebrates expression, inclusion, and creativity—featuring art, dance, performance, and more.
Eventbrite
SEX CELLS res-Erection
The legendary party Sex Cells is back for one night only.
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LONDON
2nd May - Pinky Promise: The Botanical Ball (Electrowerkz) [link here]
Spring is rising and so are we! Pinky Promise welcomes you to step into our Botanical Ball, a night to honour the energy of new beginnings with bodies coming alive in full blossoming bloom.
9th May - Klub Verboten (The Cause at 60 Dock Road) [link here]
With the sun finally peeking through and warmth in the air, spring stirs, shaking off winter’s grip with a promise of something new, electric, and inevitable.
25th May - Joyride Bank Holiday Edition (Corsica Studios) [link here]
Joyride is a space to Rave, Play and Connect for the queer and the curious. Centered on the values of joy, freedom and deviance, Joyride prioritises pleasure and exploration.
2nd May - Pinky Promise: The Botanical Ball (Electrowerkz) [link here]
Spring is rising and so are we! Pinky Promise welcomes you to step into our Botanical Ball, a night to honour the energy of new beginnings with bodies coming alive in full blossoming bloom.
9th May - Klub Verboten (The Cause at 60 Dock Road) [link here]
With the sun finally peeking through and warmth in the air, spring stirs, shaking off winter’s grip with a promise of something new, electric, and inevitable.
25th May - Joyride Bank Holiday Edition (Corsica Studios) [link here]
Joyride is a space to Rave, Play and Connect for the queer and the curious. Centered on the values of joy, freedom and deviance, Joyride prioritises pleasure and exploration.
DICE
Pinky Promise: The Botanical Ball Tickets | From Free | May 2, 2025 @ Electrowerkz, London | DICE
Spring is rising and so are we! Pinky Promise welcomes you to step into our Botanical Ball, a night to honour the energy of new beginnings with bodies coming...
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PARIS
8th-11th May - Madam Arthur presents: Madame Gaga (Madame Arthur) [link here]
Welcome to Madame Arthur, a drag cabaret open since 1946, in the heart of Pigalle and at the foot of Montmartre. Enter our decadent world, blending live music and a spicy show!
2nd May - Pornceptual does Paris (La Bellevilloise) [link here]
For nearly 12 years, Pornceptual has championed queer underground spaces. Now, the iconic collective lands in Paris with LOLSNAKE, Rachel Noon, and rising local talent.
23rd May - Cabaret "Les Moches" (Ménagerie de Verre) [link here]
A show where cabaret meets ballet, and where drag flirts with striptease. Think it's impossible? Come discover a world where poetry and scandal collide.
8th-11th May - Madam Arthur presents: Madame Gaga (Madame Arthur) [link here]
Welcome to Madame Arthur, a drag cabaret open since 1946, in the heart of Pigalle and at the foot of Montmartre. Enter our decadent world, blending live music and a spicy show!
2nd May - Pornceptual does Paris (La Bellevilloise) [link here]
For nearly 12 years, Pornceptual has championed queer underground spaces. Now, the iconic collective lands in Paris with LOLSNAKE, Rachel Noon, and rising local talent.
23rd May - Cabaret "Les Moches" (Ménagerie de Verre) [link here]
A show where cabaret meets ballet, and where drag flirts with striptease. Think it's impossible? Come discover a world where poetry and scandal collide.
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