▪️ Don't burden her with your past

Most of all, it annoys me when a girl remembers her past 100 times per conversation, regrets something or nostalgic about past relationships (I generally hate this 🙈).

I'm sure girls don't like this behavior from men either.

I do not argue if you just tell her about your life or remember funny stories - this is normal.

But you cannot endlessly think about the past. The past is in the past. It doesn't matter what you were "before." What matters is who you are now.

You are building a relationship now, at the present time. What difference does it make how you were 5 years ago?

▪️ How to understand that she likes you?

I can't wait to talk to you about how not to screw up in a conversation with a girl. It is very important to develop the ability to distinguish between flirting and companionship, so as not to get into awkward situations.

A girl who really likes you will ask you more personal questions, because she is interested in your life and hobbies.
The questions will mainly concern you only.

But the lady, for whom you are nothing more than a friend, will ask about all sorts of nonsense

▪️ Touch her

Girls are easy to touch, gentle and confident at the same time.

Do not behave like a maniac, "touching" the unfortunate woman wherever possible. All touches should happen as if by chance, completely by accident.

Bodily contact is light, unconstrained, it remains in the girl's memory, does not cause rejection, only attracts the desire to see again.

▪️ Say what she wants to hear

And I'm not just talking about compliments and other favors now. If you know roughly and predict her thoughts, then go for it!

Feel free to say: "Yes, how great it would be if the extended eyelashes lasted longer", or or "If all the dogs in the world found a home" or "I know how to start making money in Insta".

It depends on what the girl dreams of 😏

▪️ She is not your mother, who will wipe up snot

Well, take pity on the girl, in the end and end. Become a man!

There is no need to make excuses and ask how you should act in a given situation. Girls need someone who can solve problems, not run to her for advice.

Yes, okay, the girl will be pleased, and she will always be ready to help you in a difficult situation, and she will appreciate that you trust her. This is all good and understandable, BUT this does not mean that you need to ask advice on any little things.

▪️ Don't just use compliments to sleep with her ...

Even if this is your main goal, the girl should not guess about it.

I will say more: if you persistently and diligently shower a girl with compliments, she will think that "she is your last hope." You will just be pathetic in her eyes.

But from this do not conclude that it is not worth giving compliments at all (as the self-confident and "knowledgeable" guys think).

Show your powers of observation in the end. Consider something subtle in a girl (that is, not a neckline, but a hairstyle or character).

▪️ "I beg your pardon, excuse me, but can I find out what your name is?"

"No, damn it, you can’t!"

When you immediately begin to apologize from the first phrases, you automatically put yourself in the position of the one who is being evaluated (and it is over you?).

Apologies just like that, NOT FOR WHAT - this is the position of an insecure little man.

You exclude any apology from your speech - you get self-confident + the girl's burning gaze 😉

▪️ Watch your scent

Yes, you read everything correctly. Smell is an important detail of how to please a lady (no matter what age😉).

Yesterday I was in the store and saw this picture: a guy and a girl were choosing wine and then he leans too close to her, and she, poor, recoiled from boiling water and made such an expression as if she ate something sour.

But a woman's nose is much more sensitive than ours, so girls feel smells much more sharply.

Do you use perfume?

▪️ Share something with her

Before it's bed, start over from the beginning - find some neutral activity that will interest both of you.

Do you both love Terminator? Order pizza, grab some wines and set up a cozy home theater.

Do you like sushi? Try to cook them together. So you will not only have an unusual and pleasant time, but you will surely become even closer together

▪️ Intellect is the most powerful weapon in your arsenal

Let the girls correct me if I'm wrong by saying that they are attracted to erudite men 😏

At the beginning of my thorny path, I tried to learn something new every day, deepened my knowledge in various fields. From what polish color is currently in vogue to the Krebs cycle (I had a few hot nights with a M.D.).

Yes, yes, there were girls who were led on the outside or a fat wallet, but you yourself understand that you will not go far with this.

▪️ Do not try to interrupt her if she shares something intimate with you.

Usually in such conversations you can find out about her whole life, as well as values ​​and dreams. Very often, girls told me about how they see an ideal relationship, and so I could learn a lot of new things for myself.

It is also very important to support her when she is not in the mood. It happens that a girl asks for help to resolve a difficult situation in life, and if you have sufficient life experience and erudition, then try to give advice. She will appreciate it.

▪️ Have a romantic date

You can follow the standard path: flowers, a restaurant, gifts. But this is a "hackneyed" way and you will be like everyone else. And you need to be original.

Therefore, invite her to some unusual place - it does not matter whether it is a museum of modern art or a pond - the main thing is that both of you are interested there.

To get to the point, it is better to find out the interests and fears of the girl.

In general, at every meeting with her, I study such a topic as "kryshesnos" and store them in my arsenal, so that every time I do not think, but how to evoke unreal emotions in her.

The main thing is not to go too far in this matter: your task is to surprise, not shock.
And yes, don't give only positive emotions 😈

▪️ How does a girl in love behave?

So, you really don't know how to tell the difference between the behavior of a girl who is head over heels in love and the one who doesn't care about you?

You are lucky with me 😏 Listen and remember.

When a girl is in love, for example, with you, then she is cold to everyone else, like a queen from a cartoon. That's just absolutely. Although even Johnny Depp in his youth will approach her, she will be indifferent to him.

The point is that there is only one alpha male for her. And if she flirts only with you, then you are the one, the one and only.

▪️ Make her laugh

So, only without violence)))
Girls love guys who can make them laugh.

Know that laughter helps release dopamine (the hormone of happiness). So go ahead and tell your funny stories and anecdotes.

Just please, don't go too far, you didn't come to "Stand Up". No need to look like a real clown 😉 Everything is good in moderation.

▪️ You must be confident!

If you think what to drip into a girl's ears, tell how you value her, while just walking by the hand with her, leading her home, and then going to hang out, and the girl will instantly melt from your words, then you are very mistaken.

I will now say the same phrase, but in different words, and you will see how the meaning will change 👇

1⃣ "Do you want to go out for a walk? Write how it will be convenient for you there and go to meet me."

2⃣ "In an hour I'll be under your house, we'll go to the cinema, then I'll take you home, run to pack."

Do you feel the difference? Vooot, and I'm about the same.

You have to work with girls according to the "said-did" scheme. Then they will reach for you ❤️‍🔥

▪️ Find out what makes her happy

Let's say tomorrow you have your first date with a girl. You must probe the soil as carefully as possible in order to understand what you are dealing with. I have a question in stock to get to know the girl as quickly as possible, but in detail ...

The moment she laughs, gently ask: "What brings you joy?"

Remember, the healthiest relationships are those that are enjoyable. To do this, you must at least roughly understand how to make your girlfriend happy.

But do not go too far with the "interrogation", because the girl is also worried.

▪️ Time to bed

Of course, sexual compatibility is an important factor. But perhaps you attach too much importance to this?

Take your time to put your body parts in it 😅 Wait for emotional closeness. Because, if on the contrary, and you experience enchanting sensations from physical intimacy, the brain will be clouded. And the thrill of physical intimacy will be the deciding factor when you decide that it is SHE. Over time, this thrill will begin to fade, because there was no real intimacy and there is no.

One day you will look at the woman with whom you spent the night and you will understand that she is a stranger to you. Yes, it happens. Do not repeat my mistakes, act according to your mind.

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▪️ Become a walking "positive" battery for her

Do you want the girl to literally crave every meeting with you? I know, I know ... And who doesn't want to?) That's why you need to become for her, in the literal sense of the word, an accumulator of positive energy.

Imagine the situation: here you met the same one, you have love-carrots and other tenderness. The first weeks or months everything was fine, but then you start behaving like an insecure bumpkin - torment her with jealousy, mistrust, endless phone checks and tantrums.

Do you think she will appreciate it and want to be with you for the rest of her days? The answer just sounded in your head

To keep the relationship for a long time, give a woman an endless portion of positive and warmth, please and inspire her

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▪️ If you want to educate someone - go to kindergarten

Have you met guys who like to play "mommies"? I just hate it ... Every day they forbid something to their girls, indicate how to live, trying to re-educate them. Guys, stop, STOP! The forbidden fruit is sweet, remember this.

Give her a condition with which she either agrees or does not. Here it is, the real masculine position. There are no restrictions. She either makes a choice in favor of you or not.

But make sure that these conditions do not escalate into manipulation. Otherwise, instead of a loving and confident man, you will turn into a soulless abuser 😉

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▪️ You have to match it

I understand perfectly well that you (and, in principle, any man) wants to see next to you a luxurious and intelligent woman with a model appearance.

But let's put all the dots and other punctuation marks right now. Look, you dream of going hand in hand with a well-groomed woman who knows her worth and smells like France? Then you must understand that first she decides to observe your behavior and appearance.

All this is understandable that women pay attention to charisma, self-confidence and deep inner peace. But who are we kidding?

You can't see your charisma through greasy hair and protruding belly. So try to at least tidy yourself up first 😉

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▪️ How many dates have to go before time "X"?

I am often asked this question. Maybe I will upset someone, but there is no specific number on which a date is already possible.

Earlier I myself built communication with girls on the principle "the faster the better!" I even have my own records, although now I'm not particularly proud of it ...

Think for yourself, a normal girl will not count exactly 8 meetings in order to surrender to you and "invest" in time.

If you are only interested in sex, you can try to get yours at first (many ladies do not mind having sex in the first half hour of dating).

But if your goal is to meet a decent girl for a normal relationship, just give her and yourself time to get to know better and get used to each other emotionally.

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