▪️ Become her loyal fan and listener

Don't know how to get closer to a girl? Learn to listen to her and delve into her stories!

The girl will like it when you almost with an open mouth listen to everything that she says to you (and it is desirable to remember at least 60% at the same time)

Try to talk less yourself (but do not get carried away with this, otherwise the girl will think that you are stupid).

Give her the opportunity to express yourself by genuinely showing your interest. And it would also be nice to insert words like "really?", "Well, wow!", "Very interesting!"

▪️ Think about the future

Now is the time to close your eyes and introduce you from that very year in 5-10 years. And then there is that very important point that you must find out for yourself in a relationship - your girlfriend's love for money. I do not argue that money is good, everyone loves it. But when she needs ONLY finances from you, this is already a reason to think.

As the relationship grows and develops, the girl begins to make some kind of contribution to the joint future. This is the norm and it may or should be so. But if such reciprocity has not appeared, then you clearly have to think about its real values.

▪️ Understand right now if she needs you or not

Sounds like a dumb start from an online fortune teller, right? But without shit I want to share with you an important sign by which you will understand whether she is interested in you or not.

When you like her, you’re ready for anything for her, right? It is logical that you expect reciprocity from her. But if it is not there, then your strength and energy simply go away.

So: she never writes or calls first. A girl who DOESN'T like you will not be interested in you. And it's not that she's all so proud and not jittery, she just doesn't give a shit.

▪️ Monitor your posture

Agree that a hunchbacked back hurts your eyes. Girls notice this first. Your posture and gait are important, so always keep an eye on them.

An energetic and purposeful gait is always attractive. This quality gives out in you a self-confident and successful person who feels like the master of the situation.

▪️ Female breast

DO NOT CARRY PORN CHIPS IN YOUR BED

Because porn is FILMS, not real life.

For example, a woman's breasts: if you suck, bite the nipples with the tip of your tongue, she will remain silent, but it will IRRITATE her.

SENSITIVITY IS DIFFERENT

Someone is high. Someone does not feel anything at all, except your saliva. Therefore, such moments ALWAYS DISCUSS WITH A PARTNER.

And never be guided by porn in any way, otherwise you will feel flawed.

▪️ I bought dogs to seduce girls 😉

Of course not, for some reason the girls are being led on THIS.

My dogs are named Sam and Gina, they are 7 years old. So, when a girl comes to my house, she sees how carefully I treat my favorites and subconsciously projects this onto how I will take care of the child.

If you are sure that you can take care of your pet, then try this method.

▪️ She will love to watch you cook

I recently chatted with my sister and she shared with me that she loves watching her boyfriend cook.

"I love to watch him make a trite sandwich. Really, I can stand and watch it forever. He tries, cuts cheese and sausage, fries eggs, so confident."

I don't know how or why, but it really works. The man at the stove looks very attractive to women.

▪️ Don't let her stop appreciating your concern

I remembered a case from my brother's life. He has been dating a girl for more than 5 years and sometimes "complains" to me that she sometimes devalues ​​his actions, and of him in general. That thrill, admiration and feeling of gratitude were gone. It is clear that they live in everyday life, the routine is annoying, everything is in a circle.

And I tell him: "Use your energy wisely in a relationship, make an equal contribution to them. Do not do what she does not appreciate."

He advised him to do so that his every action was met with gratitude. For example, making coffee in the morning, warming up the car on a winter day - these are everyday pleasant things.

▪️ Confidence

Soooo, who's so downtrodden and insecure? I'm not talking about you personally, I just remembered one moment with my acquaintance, who kept his girlfriend stupidly on a leash. Not good, okay?

On the one hand, they were in a relationship. And so it is arranged that it almost always obliged to be together.

On the other hand, they are also individuals. Everyone has the right to their privacy. Their relationship would not have suffered from the fact that she would walk with her friends once a month. Moreover, I know this girl, she is on friendly terms with her head and would not get into any "troubles".

And he could quite calmly send her out for a walk, and he himself could take friends and arrange a wonderful evening for himself.

This is how it is done. Without tension, quarrels and other children's tricks.

▪️ Don't burden her with your past

Most of all, it annoys me when a girl remembers her past 100 times per conversation, regrets something or nostalgic about past relationships (I generally hate this 🙈).

I'm sure girls don't like this behavior from men either.

I do not argue if you just tell her about your life or remember funny stories - this is normal.

But you cannot endlessly think about the past. The past is in the past. It doesn't matter what you were "before." What matters is who you are now.

You are building a relationship now, at the present time. What difference does it make how you were 5 years ago?

▪️ How to understand that she likes you?

I can't wait to talk to you about how not to screw up in a conversation with a girl. It is very important to develop the ability to distinguish between flirting and companionship, so as not to get into awkward situations.

A girl who really likes you will ask you more personal questions, because she is interested in your life and hobbies.
The questions will mainly concern you only.

But the lady, for whom you are nothing more than a friend, will ask about all sorts of nonsense

▪️ Touch her

Girls are easy to touch, gentle and confident at the same time.

Do not behave like a maniac, "touching" the unfortunate woman wherever possible. All touches should happen as if by chance, completely by accident.

Bodily contact is light, unconstrained, it remains in the girl's memory, does not cause rejection, only attracts the desire to see again.

▪️ Say what she wants to hear

And I'm not just talking about compliments and other favors now. If you know roughly and predict her thoughts, then go for it!

Feel free to say: "Yes, how great it would be if the extended eyelashes lasted longer", or or "If all the dogs in the world found a home" or "I know how to start making money in Insta".

It depends on what the girl dreams of 😏

▪️ She is not your mother, who will wipe up snot

Well, take pity on the girl, in the end and end. Become a man!

There is no need to make excuses and ask how you should act in a given situation. Girls need someone who can solve problems, not run to her for advice.

Yes, okay, the girl will be pleased, and she will always be ready to help you in a difficult situation, and she will appreciate that you trust her. This is all good and understandable, BUT this does not mean that you need to ask advice on any little things.

▪️ Don't just use compliments to sleep with her ...

Even if this is your main goal, the girl should not guess about it.

I will say more: if you persistently and diligently shower a girl with compliments, she will think that "she is your last hope." You will just be pathetic in her eyes.

But from this do not conclude that it is not worth giving compliments at all (as the self-confident and "knowledgeable" guys think).

Show your powers of observation in the end. Consider something subtle in a girl (that is, not a neckline, but a hairstyle or character).

▪️ "I beg your pardon, excuse me, but can I find out what your name is?"

"No, damn it, you can’t!"

When you immediately begin to apologize from the first phrases, you automatically put yourself in the position of the one who is being evaluated (and it is over you?).

Apologies just like that, NOT FOR WHAT - this is the position of an insecure little man.

You exclude any apology from your speech - you get self-confident + the girl's burning gaze 😉

▪️ Watch your scent

Yes, you read everything correctly. Smell is an important detail of how to please a lady (no matter what age😉).

Yesterday I was in the store and saw this picture: a guy and a girl were choosing wine and then he leans too close to her, and she, poor, recoiled from boiling water and made such an expression as if she ate something sour.

But a woman's nose is much more sensitive than ours, so girls feel smells much more sharply.

Do you use perfume?

▪️ Share something with her

Before it's bed, start over from the beginning - find some neutral activity that will interest both of you.

Do you both love Terminator? Order pizza, grab some wines and set up a cozy home theater.

Do you like sushi? Try to cook them together. So you will not only have an unusual and pleasant time, but you will surely become even closer together

▪️ Intellect is the most powerful weapon in your arsenal

Let the girls correct me if I'm wrong by saying that they are attracted to erudite men 😏

At the beginning of my thorny path, I tried to learn something new every day, deepened my knowledge in various fields. From what polish color is currently in vogue to the Krebs cycle (I had a few hot nights with a M.D.).

Yes, yes, there were girls who were led on the outside or a fat wallet, but you yourself understand that you will not go far with this.

▪️ Do not try to interrupt her if she shares something intimate with you.

Usually in such conversations you can find out about her whole life, as well as values ​​and dreams. Very often, girls told me about how they see an ideal relationship, and so I could learn a lot of new things for myself.

It is also very important to support her when she is not in the mood. It happens that a girl asks for help to resolve a difficult situation in life, and if you have sufficient life experience and erudition, then try to give advice. She will appreciate it.

▪️ Have a romantic date

You can follow the standard path: flowers, a restaurant, gifts. But this is a "hackneyed" way and you will be like everyone else. And you need to be original.

Therefore, invite her to some unusual place - it does not matter whether it is a museum of modern art or a pond - the main thing is that both of you are interested there.

To get to the point, it is better to find out the interests and fears of the girl.

In general, at every meeting with her, I study such a topic as "kryshesnos" and store them in my arsenal, so that every time I do not think, but how to evoke unreal emotions in her.

The main thing is not to go too far in this matter: your task is to surprise, not shock.
And yes, don't give only positive emotions 😈