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🎧 Active Listening

Active listening was first used in counseling and conflict resolution. These days, business professionals around the world employ the technique.

It makes sense: When it’s done right, active listening β€” fully listening to the speaker and providing verbal and non-verbal feedback β€” can help you to draw people out, avoid misunderstandings, foster collaboration, settle disagreements and gain people’s trust. Most of the best leaders have strong listening skills.

Hoping to become a better active listener and communicator?


Do more listening than talking

" Most of the successful people I've known are the ones who do more listening than talking. β€ž

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Exercise the creative force

β€œListening is a magnetic and strange thing, a creative force. The friends who listen to us are the ones we move toward. When we are listened to, it creates us, makes us unfold and expand.”

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Use your eyes and your ears

β€œIf you make listening and observation your occupation, you will gain much more than you can by talk.”


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Don't try to multitask

β€œYou cannot truly listen to anyone and do anything else at the same time.”

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Learn to bite your tongue

β€œYou have to be willing sometimes to listen to some remarkable bad opinions. Because if you say to someone, β€˜That’s the silliest thing I’ve ever heard; get on out of here!’ β€” then you'll never get anything out of that person again, and you might as well have a puppet on a string or a robot.”

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Listening open and actively

β€œTo learn through listening, practice it naively and actively. Naively means that you listen openly, ready to learn something, as opposed to listening defensively, ready to rebut. Listening actively means you acknowledge what you heard and act accordingly.”


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Learn by listening

β€œI remind myself every morning: Nothing I say this day will teach me anything. So if I’m going to learn, I must do it by listening.”


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Never stop listening

β€œOf all the skills of leadership, listening is the most valuable β€” and one of the least understood. Most captains of industry listen only sometimes, and they remain ordinary leaders. But a few, the great ones, never stop listening. That's how they get word before anyone else of unseen problems and opportunities.”


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Listening is a sign of respect

β€œTo say that a person feels listened to means a lot more than just their ideas get heard. It's a sign of respect. It makes people feel valued.”


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Listen at least as much as you talk

β€œI only wish I could find an institute that teaches people how to listen. Business people need to listen at least as much as they need to talk. Too many people fail to realize that real communication goes in both directions.”


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Rich people stay rich by behaving like they are poor.

Poor people stay poor by behaving like they are rich.
What is the difference between a Hobby and a Habit?

Hobby vs Habit

Hobby:
A hobby is something you do for fun, for pleasure, for amusement. It entertains you and that’s mostly why you do it. It’s light, a distraction, a fancy, a whim.

Some examples of hobbies might be mushroom foraging, puzzles, knitting, fixing cars, refinishing furniture or collecting antiques.

HABIT:
A habit is a pattern (good or bad) that you repeated in order to acquire. It’s an activity done over and over to the point that you don’t think about it. You don’t ask yourself if you want to do it. It sort of gets done.

Some examples of habits might be brushing your teeth, exercising, smoking after a big meal, having dessert, going to bed at a certain time.

It’s important to keep in mind that what to you might seem like a hobby - a light, amusing way to pass the time - to another person might be a central pursuit.

For example, if you claimed writing was my hobby I would probably have an unfavorable reaction. I don't write for a living, but I take writing very seriously.

We don’t ever define hobbies for others. We can only label them as such for ourselves.
Books don't change people; paragraphs do, sometimes even sentences.
β€œ Sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever. β€ž

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Being late doesn't mean failure.

Maybe it means getting ready for a great launch.

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β€œ It is Better to be Unique than be the Best.
The Best makes you number One.
But Unique makes You the Only One. β€ž

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β€œ IT'S NOT ABOUT BEING THE BEST
IT'S ABOUT BEING BETTER THAN YOU WERE YESTERDAY. β€ž


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" If you are not willing to learn No one can help you.
If you are determined to learn No can stop you.
"

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Here are a few famous quotes by world leaders who continue to inspire us day on day:


*β€œCreativity is the key to success in the future, and primary education is where teachers can bring creativity in children at that level.”
- APJ Abdul Kalam



* β€œThe important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing.”
- Albert Einstein

* β€œIntelligence plus character – that is a goal of true education.”
- Martin Luther King Jr.

* β€œLearning is the only thing the mind never exhausts, never fears, and never regrets.”
- Leonardo da Vinci

* β€œEducation is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence.”
- Robert Frost

* β€œYou have to grow from the inside out. None can teach you, none can make you spiritual. There is no other teacher but your own soul.”
- Swami Vivekananda