Forwarded from Solief β Revival π«
Everybody, but for couples, is so overwhelmed with the wedding.
Life after that oh-you-will-never-have-this-day-in-your-life-anymore-and-its-only-one-day-come-on ceremony is interesting for nobody. OK, for very few people.
Most of those asking you when youβll marry are not necessarily interested in you reaching fulfillment with your significant other through marriage, but mostly in the wedding party youβll throw so that they can entertain themselves a bit because their own lives suck.
As someone expected to have a wedding soon, I have realized that weddings are not for couples.
They are social events, disguised as the announcement of the start of the marriage of the two, but hidden beneath is the party for the already-fed.
I get it. I am a part of this collective society. I am obliged to follow the culture. Wait, really? Am I?
The hardest part is the fact that I have to follow the customs, knowing that the tradition they call does not make sense. At all. Except the meanings they thought up because they like telling fairytales to each other.
Starting a marriage should be simple and easy enough for couples, but not in Uzbekistan.
Isnβt tying the knot legally and Islamically enough?
Those two marrying to each other think they match each other. Why do we complicate the process?
When is the wedding? Why are you asking? Since when has my singlehood become your problem?
Pardon my satirical pen. I'm just fed up with the "wisdom" of NPCs.
@temursolief
Life after that oh-you-will-never-have-this-day-in-your-life-anymore-and-its-only-one-day-come-on ceremony is interesting for nobody. OK, for very few people.
Most of those asking you when youβll marry are not necessarily interested in you reaching fulfillment with your significant other through marriage, but mostly in the wedding party youβll throw so that they can entertain themselves a bit because their own lives suck.
As someone expected to have a wedding soon, I have realized that weddings are not for couples.
They are social events, disguised as the announcement of the start of the marriage of the two, but hidden beneath is the party for the already-fed.
I get it. I am a part of this collective society. I am obliged to follow the culture. Wait, really? Am I?
The hardest part is the fact that I have to follow the customs, knowing that the tradition they call does not make sense. At all. Except the meanings they thought up because they like telling fairytales to each other.
Starting a marriage should be simple and easy enough for couples, but not in Uzbekistan.
Isnβt tying the knot legally and Islamically enough?
Those two marrying to each other think they match each other. Why do we complicate the process?
When is the wedding? Why are you asking? Since when has my singlehood become your problem?
Pardon my satirical pen. I'm just fed up with the "wisdom" of NPCs.
@temursolief
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