You don’t have to explain yourself to people who take every little thing personally :)
I don’t think I’m a difficult person to communicate with nor have I ever intended to make myself that way.
But I do set boundaries and people confuse the two. Having your own lane and actually scaring off people are two very different things. The first one is a necessity considering the challenging human behavior as well as lifestyle while the latter could be seen as means of protecting yourself from unplanned relationships and their consequences but I’ve never seen it end well.
Be cautious of what you choose and how you present yourself :)
But I do set boundaries and people confuse the two. Having your own lane and actually scaring off people are two very different things. The first one is a necessity considering the challenging human behavior as well as lifestyle while the latter could be seen as means of protecting yourself from unplanned relationships and their consequences but I’ve never seen it end well.
Be cautious of what you choose and how you present yourself :)
MY THOUGHTS ON DIVORCE (Part I)
I was raised by a single parent so it’s hard to talk about what a fully functioning family looks like but not about how well I was raised, forever grateful😊
Whenever I see people getting married most of my heart is happy for them because they found that someone capable of giving them the love they deserve but some of it is scared for them.
Are they really ready to tie the knot?
What if they’re not stable enough to make a family?
What if they end up getting a divorce? What happens to their kids?
I know it’s not my place to ask questions that are not my concern but it bothers me that as time passes by the destruction of families is being normalized to the point it’s advocated for.
I was raised by a single parent so it’s hard to talk about what a fully functioning family looks like but not about how well I was raised, forever grateful😊
Whenever I see people getting married most of my heart is happy for them because they found that someone capable of giving them the love they deserve but some of it is scared for them.
Are they really ready to tie the knot?
What if they’re not stable enough to make a family?
What if they end up getting a divorce? What happens to their kids?
I know it’s not my place to ask questions that are not my concern but it bothers me that as time passes by the destruction of families is being normalized to the point it’s advocated for.
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Two years since I’ve been on this journey, it has always been an awesome experience and it’ll keep on being so. Thank you for being part of it and I appreciate y’all💜
Hey :)) smile that beautiful smile of yours with me? I’m the friend that laughs loud and makes you have secondhand embarrassment. Though I get “ሴት ልጅ አይደለሽ ምንድነው እንጥልሽ እስኪበጠስ ማሽካካት" sometimes if not often I never pay attention to them because laughing, wheezing and cackling until there’s no air left to breathe is my freedom. Never silence your happiness show the world how content your heart is🖤
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DAY I