Success is painful

If you truly want to succeed, you must stop listening to your feelings and push through the painful times. At first, everyone has a lot of motivation and does a lot, but then, halfway through, most people give up because they no longer feel like it. Don't be one of those who act according to their desires; be one of those who do things even when they don't feel like it. This way, you will achieve real success.


If you only pay attention to your mood and feelings, you will start a hundred things but finish none. However, if you persevere with one thing even on tough days, you will have something perfect. And that's how success is achieved, with a vision, a bit of motivation, but fundamentally, it consists of discipline and perseverance.

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Someone graduated at 21, but
waited 6 years to get a good job.

Someone had no education, but
was a millionaire at 21.

Someone got married at 20, but
divorced 5 years later.

Someone got married at 30, but
found overlasting love.

You're not too late.

You're not too early.

You're on time.

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THE FOUR STAGES OF RELATIONSHIPS

1. The Honeymoon Stage
In the honeymoon stage, everything happens effortlessly. You don’t have to force anything—it’s simply beautiful. You may feel like you’ve won or found your ideal soulmate. Everything feels perfect and exciting.

You just want to spend more time together and often start fantasizing about a future together. It feels magical because you’ve found each other.

2. The Testing Stage
The second stage is the testing stage, also known as the reality stage. Love is no longer new, and the passion may no longer feel as desirable or exciting. The initial feelings begin to fade.

The acting is over, and reality sets in. You may find yourself tolerating, accepting, or questioning whether the relationship can continue. You start noticing flaws in your partner. This doesn’t mean you no longer love them—it’s just that you now see them from a more realistic perspective. Doubts and conflicts arise, and you may start questioning whether you’re truly in love.

3. The Give-In or Give-Up Stage
This is the most challenging stage of a relationship, often referred to as the building stage. Conflicts intensify, and you may find yourself getting angry over small things. Insecurity grows as you no longer see eye to eye on many issues.

This is the critical stage where breakups are highly possible. Intimacy may diminish, and love may feel distant or cold.

If both partners are not mature enough, the relationship may end here. One partner might even cheat in search of the excitement of new love.

4. The Winning Stage
In this stage, you both accept that you are two different individuals, each with imperfections. You acknowledge each other’s unique qualities and flaws, but you still choose to stay together and commit to the relationship.

You prioritize the relationship over fleeting feelings or emotions.

Many divorces occur because people marry during the honeymoon stage. They marry strangers, and when reality sets in, they believe their partner has changed.

The weak crave escape; the strong crave achievement.

Every hour spent on distractions is an hour stolen from greatness.

Stay locked in, stay disciplined, and let the unfocused fall behind.

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🗣 How not to give up just after starting

If you take on some task without enthusiasm, or if in the process of doing it you do not develop enthusiasm and sincere desire, then there will be no work.

What I mean is that when you want to start something. For example, from January 1st to change your life, and you really start making efforts for this, then in parallel with this you also need to work on your thinking and mood. So that by the evening of January 1st you don't send everything to hell

You won't get far with just an emotional burst of motivation; you need discipline and some desire. And in order for that to happen, you need to work on your thinking and morale.

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They're only two tragedies of life

📣 You need to understand this in order to become rich and successful

✅ One minute of delay can destroy a month of hard work and discipline.

✅ Rich people don't use their money for show. They use their money to make more money.

✅ Strive to earn money passively - this is aerobatics.

✅ Friends are like-minded people who push you to the best results - that's what really changes the game.

✅ Never brag - not everyone wants to see you win.

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The woman who bears your child, is equally as critical as the child.

If you two never got married, it may appear that all that matters is your child, you care less about her mother.

But that's only a very stupid thought, especially if your child is still living with her mother.

She has 24/7 opportunity to "program" your child with every ideology and philosophy she may hold, right from the beginning.

So, if you're not willing to father a child, wear a condom. It's best to have no child as a man than have a child with the wrong woman, unless she was a surrogate mother.

Else, understand that she will be part of the child's life so long as the child lives. If you don't want to see her around somewhere in your future, have no child with her. Period.

I wanna write "I miss you" on a rock
and throw it at your face so you know
how much it hurts to miss you

The main miracle is life with its unpredictability. The human soul becomes stronger from suffering, more tender from happiness, more fragile from hope and faith, and love makes it immortal.

🥀°•Forget who forgets you, then enjoy your life.°

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Rules for men

1. Use a good cologne.
2. Stay away from losers.
3. Be a man of your word.
4. Make your mission a priority.
5. Learn to speak with confidence. Don't talk too fast.
6. Always make and maintain strong eye contact.
7. Never talk down your brothers to impress a girl.
8. Never allow your emotions to overrule your logic.
9. Don't lose your mind trying to save someone else's.
10. If you're eating with somebody, keep your phone in your pocket.

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