I will disappoint you a little: no one gets attracted to you because of your special traits or particularities. 90% of the time, people are drawn to you because of a generic facade—either being a "chill" person or just a "nice" person. Sometimes, it’s disappointing when you’re really hooked on someone excessively awesome. You try to show that you’re not just like the others, but they end up being attracted to what everyone else has to offer—surface level compliments and small talk. This idea of having something deep does happen, of course, but never at first impression. For a first impression, you just have to fake it—fake being nice.
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