what kind of autistic makes chocolates for valetine's day without even having a girlfriend?

...Okochat members surprise me every day

... making chocolates? how can you allure women with such things? she is not a kid you know

... you know?

Ok, listen up, hikkis. Regarding how to get a girlfriend: In my limited experience (which is really little), I find it nearly impossible to actively "get" a girlfriend by trying to win her over. Every time a girl was interested in me, it was always her initiative rather than mine—they usually come to you, not the other way around.

If a girl approaches you, there's a good chance something could happen between you. But if you're constantly chasing after her, I believe it’s unlikely you’ll get anywhere. Of course, this is all based on my limited, mundane experience…

The biggest lie Hollywood movies taught us is that you can "conquer" someone by proving you’re worth it. That’s not even remotely true. If someone likes you, you don’t need to prove anything—they’ll be attracted to you, even to your flaws.

I’m a 23yo, unemployed, and completely broke—yet, for some reason, some girls have still been interested in me (God knows why). The same can happen to you as well!

Fuck Valentine’s Day, tbh—it’s not worth it. Sometimes I catch myself wondering, why did Adam ask for Eve? He was in literal paradise, yet he still asked for her… Even when we are perfectly fine alone, we still seek someone to bring us problems. Why? I really don’t understand.

But if you ask me whether dating is worth it, I’d say no… not now. Maybe in the future? I don’t know. You’re too young. I’m also young. There are other things we need to do first, don’t you think? I like to believe that suffering for others is not a privilege we have—especially when we are already suffering on our own.