people say that when men call women "ma’am", it's sexy or respectful or something like that. like, "yes ma’am, how are you ma’am" apparently that’s supposed to do something for us. but i honestly don’t find it sexy or cool or even polite. it feels off and too performative maybe. what i do find sexy is when someone just says my name, just my actual name. that feels respectful.
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