Protect your reputation

Don't let others intimidate you.

Why do you think some people charge such amounts for their work?

This is where the reputation card comes in.

Work on your reputation, do everything it takes to create the image you want of yourself.

Confidence is the degree to which you can trust yourself.

January 1st could be day 1 or the start of week 5.

Go get after it.

HOW TO FIND PEOPLE WHO SHARE YOUR VALUES-

Everyone wants to keep people around who shares their values.

BUT HOW MANY OF YOU ACTUALLY KNOW YOHR VALUES?

Like, word for word? How many of you have actually written them down somewhere.

Take a piece of paper and write down your 3 core values, RIGHT NOW.

That’s step 1.

Step 2 is actually putting them out into the environment and staying them often.

95% of guys don’t do this.

They don’t let their friends know, their business connections, their women know their values.

You don’t do this by actually putting them word for word, BUT YOU CONVEY THEM THROUGH STORIES.

You talk about an ex friend of yours who did something you didn’t like and now he/she’s out of your life because he/she broke your fundamental values (and then you state them)

WATCH AS THEY BEND TO YOUR VALUES.

WATCH AS THEY ADOPT YOUR VALUES.

Use this, it’s extremely POWERFUL.

Sometimes hitting rock bottom brings out the fucking warrior inside you.

Things People Learn Too Late:

- Others treat you the way you treat yourself

- The biggest risk is not taking any risk

- Family matters more than friends

- Beneath anger there is always fear

- A lifetime isn't so long as you think

- Happiness is a choice

You can’t see your blind spots.

Ask other people about your weaknesses and strengths.

Don’t protect your ego, be rational with the feedback you get.

Your life will never be the same if you make the scary yet right choices.

Get comfortable being uncomfortable.

You get what you put up with in life.

Turn your wants into standards.

You're not an "introvert".

You're shy, insecure and lack social skills.

Don't lend money to friends you want to keep.

What topics do you guys want me to talk about more here?

- Grapes must be crushed to make wine.

- Diamonds form under pressure.

- Olives are pressed to release oil.

- Seeds grow in darkness.

Whenever you feel crushed, under pressure, pressed, or in darkness, you're in a powerful place of transformation.

Trust the process.

What is a common habit found in unsuccessful people?

The key to having high-value friends is to have a high-value mindset.

Having the right mindset is a must because it will give you the ability to attract people who think, act, talk and walk like you.

Your average friend wants you to succeed, but not more than them. This is why most of your "friends" need to go if you want to be successful.

The more you listen to people around you, the more you realize maturity is not about age.

Inaction breeds doubt and fear.

Action breeds confidence and courage.

If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it.

Go out and get busy

Anyone interested in mind reading and mentalism, try this at home.

1. Give a dice to someone and ask them to pick a number while you look away

2. Tell them to put the dice on the table with the number they pick at the top

3. Tell them to hide the dice with their hands

4. Now turn around, look at them dead in the eye

5. Tell them to count from 1 to 6

6. Look at their eyes' pupils while they count

7. Notice when their pupil dilates (It's a big change, you'll notice it)

Whenever they will mention the number they picked, their pupils will broaden and get bigger.

I honestly thought it was hard at first.

It's really not.

If you can't tell, make them repeat the count until you do.

Once you do it three or four times, you'll master it.

If you had all the time and money in the world; what would you do?

Don’t try to answer immediately. Sit with it and see what comes up.