I'm a feminist and I still want a man to pick up the bill
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I'm a feminist and I still want a man to pick up the bill
And no — that’s not a double standard.
The idea that Men have all the power in society just because most politicians in the world are male is so stupid and disingenuous.
There are plenty of people who argue that men making up the majority of direct elected officials worldwide automatically means that men as an entire gender have all the power, even though in the vast majority of countries around the world (at least in those with systems that could be deemed as having at least some form of democratic elections) women also have the right to vote and in many cases women have voted for more anti-male policies.
Also it's important to mention that plenty of Men care a lot more about women than their own gender. It's honestly so tiring hearing that shallow argument so often.
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There are plenty of people who argue that men making up the majority of direct elected officials worldwide automatically means that men as an entire gender have all the power, even though in the vast majority of countries around the world (at least in those with systems that could be deemed as having at least some form of democratic elections) women also have the right to vote and in many cases women have voted for more anti-male policies.
Also it's important to mention that plenty of Men care a lot more about women than their own gender. It's honestly so tiring hearing that shallow argument so often.
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It is best to share this news here to Inform everyone
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2026/jan/10/circumcision-classed-as-possible-child-abuse-in-draft-cps-document
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Circumcision classed as possible child abuse in draft CPS document
Exclusive: Possible revision of guidance for prosecutors in England and Wales comes amid safety concerns from courts
Male rape is not rare- IT'S HIGHLY UNDER-REPORTED
All Sources of statistics and studies are in bottom of the post
Well i am tired of hearing this statement again and again that male rape is rare.
In majority of cases where people say male rape is rare is based on anecdotal evidence and they dont have knowledge about statistics regarding male rape victims.
While its completely true that number of women victims of rape is more than number of men victims of rape. But "saying male rape is rare" is overstatement which is directly dismissing men victims.
Prevalence of Male Sexual Violence
1. Virginia study found a lifetime prevalence of 12.9% among men, with 94% assaulted for the first time before the age of 18
2. Approximately 1 in 33 men (3%) have experienced an attempted or completed rape in their lifetime
3. About 1 in 71 men (1.4%) have experienced rape at some point in their lives
Under reporting statistics
1. Men account for about 10% of sexual violence victims, but under-reporting is common
2. Some studies show that 80–96% of male SA remain unreported to police
3. Some studies show that 80–96% of male SA remain unreported to police Source in comments
4. Only about 27% of all sexual assaults (men & women combined) are reported to police, indicating huge under-reporting Source in comments
Reason behind under-reporting
1. Men simply fear judgement, shame from friends and family
2. If the perpetrator was male, they worry reporting will reveal or raise questions about their sexuality
MOST IMPORTANT ISSUE LEGAL GAPS
3. In some legal systems rape laws are not gender neutral. Hence, even if they want to, they cant file case
4. Lack of male-specific support services,helpines means many victims dont know how to report case
Psychological impact
1. some studies found that male rape is one of the highest causes of PTSD among men.
2. Men who experienced SA were 2.4 times more likely to commit suicide
3. They were also 3.4 times more likely to be depressed
4. Despite this risk, only ~15% sought counseling
5. About 25% of male victims of sexual assault report having considered suicide following their assault
Statistics sources
1. Viginia study https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19297888/
2. International Journal for Multidisciplinary Research (IJFMR) https://www.ijfmr.com/papers/2025/4/51765.pdf
Under reporting statistics sources
1. https://worldmetrics.org/reported-sexual-assault-statistics/
2. https://zipdo.co/male-vs-female-sexual-assault-statistics/
Reasons behind under-reporting sources
1. [Clinical Social Work Journal\] https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10615-019-00699-y
2. https://www.hopeformen.org/resources/e5cn2uy0\_why-fewer-men-report-sexual-abuse-or-rape
3. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10135558/
4. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-022-09988-0?
LEGAL GAP STUDY - https://www.ijlra.com/uploads/1949266738.pdf
Physcologoical impact
1. https://hopeforthejourney.org/3-reasons-men-arent-reporting-sexual-assault/
2. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36126347/
3. https://wifitalents.com/men-sexual-assault-statistics/
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All Sources of statistics and studies are in bottom of the post
Well i am tired of hearing this statement again and again that male rape is rare.
In majority of cases where people say male rape is rare is based on anecdotal evidence and they dont have knowledge about statistics regarding male rape victims.
While its completely true that number of women victims of rape is more than number of men victims of rape. But "saying male rape is rare" is overstatement which is directly dismissing men victims.
Prevalence of Male Sexual Violence
1. Virginia study found a lifetime prevalence of 12.9% among men, with 94% assaulted for the first time before the age of 18
2. Approximately 1 in 33 men (3%) have experienced an attempted or completed rape in their lifetime
3. About 1 in 71 men (1.4%) have experienced rape at some point in their lives
Under reporting statistics
1. Men account for about 10% of sexual violence victims, but under-reporting is common
2. Some studies show that 80–96% of male SA remain unreported to police
3. Some studies show that 80–96% of male SA remain unreported to police Source in comments
4. Only about 27% of all sexual assaults (men & women combined) are reported to police, indicating huge under-reporting Source in comments
Reason behind under-reporting
1. Men simply fear judgement, shame from friends and family
2. If the perpetrator was male, they worry reporting will reveal or raise questions about their sexuality
MOST IMPORTANT ISSUE LEGAL GAPS
3. In some legal systems rape laws are not gender neutral. Hence, even if they want to, they cant file case
4. Lack of male-specific support services,helpines means many victims dont know how to report case
Psychological impact
1. some studies found that male rape is one of the highest causes of PTSD among men.
2. Men who experienced SA were 2.4 times more likely to commit suicide
3. They were also 3.4 times more likely to be depressed
4. Despite this risk, only ~15% sought counseling
5. About 25% of male victims of sexual assault report having considered suicide following their assault
Statistics sources
1. Viginia study https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19297888/
2. International Journal for Multidisciplinary Research (IJFMR) https://www.ijfmr.com/papers/2025/4/51765.pdf
Under reporting statistics sources
1. https://worldmetrics.org/reported-sexual-assault-statistics/
2. https://zipdo.co/male-vs-female-sexual-assault-statistics/
Reasons behind under-reporting sources
1. [Clinical Social Work Journal\] https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10615-019-00699-y
2. https://www.hopeformen.org/resources/e5cn2uy0\_why-fewer-men-report-sexual-abuse-or-rape
3. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10135558/
4. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-022-09988-0?
LEGAL GAP STUDY - https://www.ijlra.com/uploads/1949266738.pdf
Physcologoical impact
1. https://hopeforthejourney.org/3-reasons-men-arent-reporting-sexual-assault/
2. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36126347/
3. https://wifitalents.com/men-sexual-assault-statistics/
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PubMed
Sexual assault in men: a population-based study of Virginia - PubMed
Male sexual assault is a serious public health issue that is mostly underreported and unrecognized. A population-based study was conducted on 705 adult men in Virginia. The study found a lifetime prevalence of 12.9% among men, with 94% assaulted for the first…
Clinton Township woman who attacked sleeping boyfriend with knife sentenced to prison
https://www.fox2detroit.com/news/clinton-township-woman-who-attacked-sleeping-boyfriend-knife-sentenced-prison
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FOX 2 Detroit
Clinton Township woman who attacked sleeping boyfriend with knife sentenced to prison
A Clinton Township woman who authorities say stabbed her boyfriend multiple times in an attack that started while he was sleeping learned her prison sentence this week.
Man’s rights and DEI
I am really at a loss when I see men particularly white men supporting the Democratic Party that has promoted DEI in the past. The biggest benefactor of DEI is white women. They are the ones who have been helped by DEI and white men have been the ones who have been hurt the most. One of the best descriptions of DEI I have read described DEI as feminism repackaged. And that’s really what it is.
There was a recent survey where they surveyed over 1000 businesses and over one in six had said they were told not to hire white men. Furthermore, 52% of their company practiced reverse discrimination.
In this anti-male anti-white climate why would anyone who supports men’s rights support a political party that’s pushed DEI in the past like the Democratic Party has?
https://www.resumebuilder.com/1-in-6-hiring-managers-have-been-told-to-stop-hiring-white-men/
https://www.wsaz.com/2022/11/08/1-6-hiring-managers-have-been-told-stop-hiring-white-men-survey-finds/?outputType=amp
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I am really at a loss when I see men particularly white men supporting the Democratic Party that has promoted DEI in the past. The biggest benefactor of DEI is white women. They are the ones who have been helped by DEI and white men have been the ones who have been hurt the most. One of the best descriptions of DEI I have read described DEI as feminism repackaged. And that’s really what it is.
There was a recent survey where they surveyed over 1000 businesses and over one in six had said they were told not to hire white men. Furthermore, 52% of their company practiced reverse discrimination.
In this anti-male anti-white climate why would anyone who supports men’s rights support a political party that’s pushed DEI in the past like the Democratic Party has?
https://www.resumebuilder.com/1-in-6-hiring-managers-have-been-told-to-stop-hiring-white-men/
https://www.wsaz.com/2022/11/08/1-6-hiring-managers-have-been-told-stop-hiring-white-men-survey-finds/?outputType=amp
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1 in 6 Hiring Managers Have Been Told to Stop Hiring White Men - ResumeBuilder.com
More than half of hiring managers whose companies have DEI initiatives in place believe their company practices “reverse discrimination”.
Looking for Lois Waisbrooker quotes
I'm gathering misandrist quotes from influential feminists, and I'm looking for the infamous quotes where Waisbrooker advocates for genocide of men and keeping the fittest and most attractive 10% alive to use as labor slaves and breeding stock. I remember reading it a few years ago, but I can't find it anywhere; it seems to have been scrubbed from the internet. Can anyone help me?
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I'm gathering misandrist quotes from influential feminists, and I'm looking for the infamous quotes where Waisbrooker advocates for genocide of men and keeping the fittest and most attractive 10% alive to use as labor slaves and breeding stock. I remember reading it a few years ago, but I can't find it anywhere; it seems to have been scrubbed from the internet. Can anyone help me?
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Opinion: The gender war has gone nuclear
https://mndaily.com/opinion/opinion-the-gender-war-has-gone-nuclear/09/09/2025/
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The Minnesota Daily
Opinion: The gender war has gone nuclear
It’s heartbreaking to see the way social division is manufactured at the expense of our generation, sowing isolation and hostility into nearly every aspect of our relations with other people.
Today It's White Men Who Face Systemic Discrimination & It Seems Very Few People Will Admit It or Discuss it
https://www.compactmag.com/article/the-lost-generation/?ref=compact-newsletter
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The Lost Generation
For fifteen years I’ve scalped tickets to pay the bills. But in January 2016 I almost managed a real career.
Why you should never, ever delete photos, videos, texts, or emails from a previous relationship
https://titleixforall.com/students-do-not-delete-evidence-of-former-relationships/
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Title IX for All
Students: Do Not Delete Evidence of Former Relationships!
Do not delete photos, videos, texts, or emails from a previous relationship. If accused of sexual misconduct, you will be at a disadvantage.
I am tired of the "smart, kind, loving and empathetic" people normalizing shaming men publicly as a way to protect women but the opposite is considered a hate crime against women. "Women don't use religion against men"
https://preview.redd.it/gyoo8m2nl1dg1.jpg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f7e44b00482726cadad9afaa8f36521dfff8adca
https://preview.redd.it/rdc04hlml1dg1.png?width=538&format=png&auto=webp&s=023d611d1c626312119e4d34793332b3256d5f33
Note: Haram means forbidden, and Non-Mehram means people you are allowed to marry
This is not just common in religious communities, it's extremely common for men to get shamed for even sending a DM or even approaching women. What I personally do not get is how it's often the same women who yap about misogyny, double standards and empathy have this view where they can shame men freely and get away with and call it "protecting" even when it's false accusations, yet jump to protect the most heinous types of women.
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https://preview.redd.it/gyoo8m2nl1dg1.jpg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f7e44b00482726cadad9afaa8f36521dfff8adca
https://preview.redd.it/rdc04hlml1dg1.png?width=538&format=png&auto=webp&s=023d611d1c626312119e4d34793332b3256d5f33
Note: Haram means forbidden, and Non-Mehram means people you are allowed to marry
This is not just common in religious communities, it's extremely common for men to get shamed for even sending a DM or even approaching women. What I personally do not get is how it's often the same women who yap about misogyny, double standards and empathy have this view where they can shame men freely and get away with and call it "protecting" even when it's false accusations, yet jump to protect the most heinous types of women.
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Let men be men again.
Let boys be boys again. Let men be men again. It's no use trying to act like men don't have special needs compared to women.
Men are creative and have a high energy drive. As a society, we should respect that. We should not raise our boys to suppress their energy.
Now, every feminist only reads "Let them r*pe us", but I'm not trying to say that. I believe if men are given their space, they are able to transform their energy into something good.
I honestly don't know what the answer to the dilemma with male violence is. But I definitely know, the answer is not to just close our eyes and pretend that men can just sit at home all the time, speak only politically correct words and behave in an all-incluive manner.
First and foremost, I think we should take away certain negative influences. Especially pornography deserves more attention, as it can ruin lives of innocent men who came in contact with it when they were young boys and had no chance to realize what's happening. Then, we need to cultivate male groups again. We, as a society, need to make sure boys go outside and don't grow up as digital slaves, because men suffer a lot more from this digital world.
When such changes are made, I think a lot of men could find their passion again and stop feeling like they're trapped in a cage all the time. The world would definitely be a better place.
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Let boys be boys again. Let men be men again. It's no use trying to act like men don't have special needs compared to women.
Men are creative and have a high energy drive. As a society, we should respect that. We should not raise our boys to suppress their energy.
Now, every feminist only reads "Let them r*pe us", but I'm not trying to say that. I believe if men are given their space, they are able to transform their energy into something good.
I honestly don't know what the answer to the dilemma with male violence is. But I definitely know, the answer is not to just close our eyes and pretend that men can just sit at home all the time, speak only politically correct words and behave in an all-incluive manner.
First and foremost, I think we should take away certain negative influences. Especially pornography deserves more attention, as it can ruin lives of innocent men who came in contact with it when they were young boys and had no chance to realize what's happening. Then, we need to cultivate male groups again. We, as a society, need to make sure boys go outside and don't grow up as digital slaves, because men suffer a lot more from this digital world.
When such changes are made, I think a lot of men could find their passion again and stop feeling like they're trapped in a cage all the time. The world would definitely be a better place.
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Men need safe spaces
There is a feminist trope that I am seeing more frequently, that feminism is a safe space for both sexes. I disagree with this strongly, and let's take a common issue amongst young men and the "loneliness epidemic" that is now seen as a sort of joke even though it's totally real, gen Z feel a lack of purpose, meaningless existence, from being constantly socially beaten down by the job market, by wars, and by a rise of political correctness that shuts down any option for debate.
Gender dynamics and dating are very discussed topics online, and I think it's interesting because it affects nearly everyone, as in our Pyramid of Priorities, in the western world, we usually have the food and shelter aspect covered, we then crave being social.
However here's where feminism goes wrong ; it is IMPOSSIBLE for men to debate about their romantic scarcity in a mixed environment. If I open up about it online, which I've done many times, that I've never had a relationship and the kindness I want to give to a partner is a race against time until it transforms into bitterness, it isn't met with sympathy. It's met with Just World fallacies, "the trash takes itself out" ; "have you considered looking inward" ; "maybe don't be misogynistic". In the real world, you have to lie about your relationship history or you'd be met with disgust and being 'icky'.
And if most surface-level topics already close any conversation, in a time where there are feminist books "How to win every argument" it's clear to me that it's more important for them to have a debate to win it, rather than to debate. I've managed to have my post history open for nine years, but now I've closed it, since you can't say anything without getting stalked anymore. Subreddits are getting closed down and the echo-chambers are growing on other websites.
Men need places to vent, places to share raw opinions about their feelings, and build nuance by relating to other men. Feminists are not your friends. Keep your free-thinking and trust your gut.
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There is a feminist trope that I am seeing more frequently, that feminism is a safe space for both sexes. I disagree with this strongly, and let's take a common issue amongst young men and the "loneliness epidemic" that is now seen as a sort of joke even though it's totally real, gen Z feel a lack of purpose, meaningless existence, from being constantly socially beaten down by the job market, by wars, and by a rise of political correctness that shuts down any option for debate.
Gender dynamics and dating are very discussed topics online, and I think it's interesting because it affects nearly everyone, as in our Pyramid of Priorities, in the western world, we usually have the food and shelter aspect covered, we then crave being social.
However here's where feminism goes wrong ; it is IMPOSSIBLE for men to debate about their romantic scarcity in a mixed environment. If I open up about it online, which I've done many times, that I've never had a relationship and the kindness I want to give to a partner is a race against time until it transforms into bitterness, it isn't met with sympathy. It's met with Just World fallacies, "the trash takes itself out" ; "have you considered looking inward" ; "maybe don't be misogynistic". In the real world, you have to lie about your relationship history or you'd be met with disgust and being 'icky'.
And if most surface-level topics already close any conversation, in a time where there are feminist books "How to win every argument" it's clear to me that it's more important for them to have a debate to win it, rather than to debate. I've managed to have my post history open for nine years, but now I've closed it, since you can't say anything without getting stalked anymore. Subreddits are getting closed down and the echo-chambers are growing on other websites.
Men need places to vent, places to share raw opinions about their feelings, and build nuance by relating to other men. Feminists are not your friends. Keep your free-thinking and trust your gut.
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Betraying the sisterhood?
https://www.thewealthadvisor.com/article/90-million-rich-halle-berry-has-1-problem-paying-child-support-ex-after-divorce#:~:text=Eventually%2C%20it%20came%20to%20the,Halle%20was%20shaken%20and%20sobbing.%E2%80%9D
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$90 Million Rich Halle Berry Has 1 Problem Paying Child Support To Ex After Divorce
Halle Berry labeled her child support battle “extortion,” claiming that her ex once used a racist slur that left a lasting scar on their split.
Leaked Emails: How Swinburne Protects the Aimee Stanton Brand's admission of SA
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Leaked: How Swinburne is Protecting Aimee Stanton
In a previous video, we saw that in 2017, Australian celebrity (?) Aimee Stanton admitted on national television that she groped TV presenter Tommy Little after a comedy show without his consent—in her words, by touching his “downstairs region.” This resulted…
Just need to vent
I try to avoid discussing gender issues with my wife because I’m always wrong. So not really worth getting into an argument.
This morning we were having a “discussion” about how bad patriarchy is and how good feminism is. Except patriarchy doesn’t mean men. And feminism isn’t about women’s rights. Words mean whatever you want them to now.
Edit: not sure why this is confusing. I am just venting about a frustrating situation I had. The second paragraph is what the conversation basically amounted to. I (I thought) obviously don’t believe these things. I didn’t feel the need to explain why those ideas are wrong.
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I try to avoid discussing gender issues with my wife because I’m always wrong. So not really worth getting into an argument.
This morning we were having a “discussion” about how bad patriarchy is and how good feminism is. Except patriarchy doesn’t mean men. And feminism isn’t about women’s rights. Words mean whatever you want them to now.
Edit: not sure why this is confusing. I am just venting about a frustrating situation I had. The second paragraph is what the conversation basically amounted to. I (I thought) obviously don’t believe these things. I didn’t feel the need to explain why those ideas are wrong.
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Mother charged after Blount County 2-year-old dies from gunshot
https://abc3340.com/news/local/mother-charged-after-blount-county-2-year-old-dies-from-gunshot
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Bryce Mitchell: Women don't need to be in positions of power, it always leads to destruction
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Bryce Mitchell: Women don't need to be in positions of power, it always leads to destruction
UFC star Bryce Mitchell delivered unfiltered views on women in positions of authority during a recent appearance on the SNEAKO podcast, stating categorically that female leadership inevitably results in societal…
Why does most violence against men is portrayed as funny and comedic
Violence against men is usually portrayed as funny in social media, movies and television. Let me say few examples:
1. A reality show has a game in which women wearing high heels pop a Ballon that is placed on top of a man's groin. It is seen as funny and people are fucking laughing their ass off.
2. Women in movies when they kick a man in the balls is seen as funny. Testicles are like the most important thing for a man, you can't just casually hit it with your knee and portray it as comedy just by adding some laughing tracks all over it.
3. Even in day to day lives a women slapping a man is always fine and okay. Meanwhile when a man slaps a women it is seen as physical violence and what not.
Lets imagine the same thing happens in a opposite way. Is kicking a women in her vagina funny. No not at all. Then why the fuck is hurting a man funny to all.
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Violence against men is usually portrayed as funny in social media, movies and television. Let me say few examples:
1. A reality show has a game in which women wearing high heels pop a Ballon that is placed on top of a man's groin. It is seen as funny and people are fucking laughing their ass off.
2. Women in movies when they kick a man in the balls is seen as funny. Testicles are like the most important thing for a man, you can't just casually hit it with your knee and portray it as comedy just by adding some laughing tracks all over it.
3. Even in day to day lives a women slapping a man is always fine and okay. Meanwhile when a man slaps a women it is seen as physical violence and what not.
Lets imagine the same thing happens in a opposite way. Is kicking a women in her vagina funny. No not at all. Then why the fuck is hurting a man funny to all.
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The unspoken part of growing up as a boy
There’s a phase many boys enter that nobody prepares them for.
One day you’re seen as harmless, playful, even considered somewhat “cute.” as a kid . then once you hit the puberty and start reaching adulthood , your'e suddenly seen as a predator ,your presence is a threat ,suddenly half the population has their guard up in your presence and treats you with coldness
without doing anything wrong, you’re suddenly treated with distance, suspicion, or silence. You’re not fully a man yet, but you’re no longer a child and that in-between space is incredibly lonely.
From a young age, boys are monitored, warned about. We’re taught often subtly(or sometimes directly) that our presence is something to be controlled. Talking too freely is punished. Showing curiosity is suspicious. Emotional expression is mocked and ignored.
As we grow older, the rules tighten.
You’re expected to be confident but not needy.
Strong but not vulnerable.
Independent but not isolated ,somehow.
And yet, when boys start feeling lonely, there’s very little support waiting for them.
When men talk about fear, sadness, or being treated like a potential threat, the response is often deflection:
“Don’t make this men vs women.”
“Others have it worse.”
“Be grateful for your privilege”
This is one of the reason male loneliness is so widespread and so deadly. and there is also blatant misandry everywhere on social media to real settings its just so exhausting .
i cant put everything into words it just feels very unfair that this is considered the norm and nobody ever dares to speak up against it , even if they do they are called incel or just blame patriarchy or toxic masculinity instead
https://redd.it/1qbx3u1
@manpill
There’s a phase many boys enter that nobody prepares them for.
One day you’re seen as harmless, playful, even considered somewhat “cute.” as a kid . then once you hit the puberty and start reaching adulthood , your'e suddenly seen as a predator ,your presence is a threat ,suddenly half the population has their guard up in your presence and treats you with coldness
without doing anything wrong, you’re suddenly treated with distance, suspicion, or silence. You’re not fully a man yet, but you’re no longer a child and that in-between space is incredibly lonely.
From a young age, boys are monitored, warned about. We’re taught often subtly(or sometimes directly) that our presence is something to be controlled. Talking too freely is punished. Showing curiosity is suspicious. Emotional expression is mocked and ignored.
As we grow older, the rules tighten.
You’re expected to be confident but not needy.
Strong but not vulnerable.
Independent but not isolated ,somehow.
And yet, when boys start feeling lonely, there’s very little support waiting for them.
When men talk about fear, sadness, or being treated like a potential threat, the response is often deflection:
“Don’t make this men vs women.”
“Others have it worse.”
“Be grateful for your privilege”
This is one of the reason male loneliness is so widespread and so deadly. and there is also blatant misandry everywhere on social media to real settings its just so exhausting .
i cant put everything into words it just feels very unfair that this is considered the norm and nobody ever dares to speak up against it , even if they do they are called incel or just blame patriarchy or toxic masculinity instead
https://redd.it/1qbx3u1
@manpill
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