So people regret walking this path –
for how deeply it cut
and how quietly it changed them.

But still, they walk toward it again.
Not out of foolishness,
but because some experiences,
even when they wound,
are the only ones that make the heart feel real.

And everyone knows,
even if they don’t say it aloud,
exactly which journey this is.

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wrong chat, sorry

Charles Leclerc: LANDO We can be Word Champion I said. Please Lando. Lando, Landooo ~

Eventually, he made it.
Lando Norris is the 2025 Formula 1 World Champion 🧡 🎉

2026.

With gratitude for what stayed, respect for what taught, faith in what is written for us, and hope for what’s ahead.
May the year ahead bring clarity to our thoughts, peace to our hearts, and purpose to our steps.

Wishing everyone a gentle, meaningful start to the year ✨

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Correlation does NOT equal Causation

Ingliz tilida shunday cognitive tushuncha bor.

Ko‘pincha hayotda ikki narsa yonma-yon kelib qolsa, biz ulardan biri ikkinchisining sababi deb o‘ylab qolamiz. Aslida esa bu shunchaki bir paytda sodir bo‘layotgan holatlar bo‘lishi mumkinku. Odamni bir joyda ushlab qoladigan narsa ham buni tushunmaslik aslida.

Masalan, kimdir ijobiy o‘ylaydi va vaqt o‘tib vaziyat yaxshilanadi. Shundan so‘ng xulosa qilishadiki, demak faqatgina yaxshi niyat qilsam hammasi yaxshi bo'ladi. Yoki inson ko‘p kutadi, sabr qiladi va nimadir o‘zgaradi. Bu o‘zgarish sabrning natijasidek qabul qilinadi. Holbuki, ko‘pincha o‘sha jarayonda boshqa omillar tasiri yo'qdek : vaqt, muhit, tanlov, yoki qabul qilingan qarorlarimiz.

Fikr bu bizga shunchaki yo‘nalish beradi. Ammo u sabab bo‘lishi shart emas. Va agar bu yo‘nalishni harakat bilan davom ettirmasak, fikrning sababiy kuchi shunchaki 0 ga teng bo'lmaydimi?!

Eng qiziq joyi - positiv fikrni ko‘pincha noto‘g‘ri ishlatamiz.
Ba’zilar uni:
harakat qilmaslik uchun,
muammoni tan olmaslik uchun,
yordam so‘ramaslik uchun,
hatto javobgarlikdan qochish uchun ishlatadi.

“Hammasi yaxshi bo‘ladi”, deyish oson.
Lekin qanday qilib yaxshi bo‘lishini aytish qiyin.
Chunki o‘sha joyda reallik boshlanadi.

O'ylaymanki, ha, optimism kerak.
Fikrlashimiz kerak. Kutishni bilishimiz kerak. Lekin ACTION siz o'ylab qo'yilgan narsa bizga biror bir resultat bermaydi. Va mezonsiz kutishimiz ham kechiktirishdan boshqa narsa emas.

Xulosa shuki, correlation mavjud bo‘lishi mumkin, lekin causation ko‘pincha boshqa joyda yotadi - bu bizning qarorlarimizda, tanlovlarimizda va qilgan yoki qilmagan harakatlarimizda. Va biz biror narsa qilmaguncha, muammolarimiz yo'q bo'lib ketmaydi.

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The last bite of your ice cream is less enjoyable than your first.

And that's the saturation of nature.

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Narcissism as a way of life

Inspired by words shared by one of our drivers at the company.
All credits to him.

©️ A.B

Narcissism as a way of life in the spectrum of living and everyone can be subject to it to some extent. Mentally healthy people oriented towards growth and self-realization seek complete insight and wisdom, through which they can prevent or contain their narcissistic tendencies. Unhealthy people persist in their unproductive tendencies and are unable to gain insight or adapt. Such people become full-fledged narcissists because their problematic life model takes over their identity. 

Traits that usually indicate that a person is a narcissist:

They are absorbed in themselves, in love with themselves.

A strong need for control.

They show a low level of empathy (compassion for others) 

Behavior and calling for legal processes

Chronic mismanaged anger.

Manipulative or exploitative behavior.

A sense of superiority over others.

Living in an alternate reality.

They are pathologically defensive.

Certain behaviors of the narcissist are universal and can help us recognize this pathological illness in a person. This lifestyle manifests itself daily and can help us adjust our own empathy in the right direction, especially if we live with a narcissist, have a narcissist friend or in our case if the narcissist abuses general empathy to adapt and understand that he needs to be obedient.

1. Their public and private selves are not the same. The narcissist is usually charming in public, but behind the scenes there are many traits that make them the opposite. The public image of themselves is unusually important to the narcissist and they often present a false and misleading image of themselves to the people they want to impress. What people see from the outside is often different from what can be seen in their private life.

2. Loyalty to others is, at best, superficial. Because they are in love with themselves, narcissists insist that you show them loyalty. You cannot expect the same in return. You exist to bolster their ego, and your job is to illustrate how grateful you are to have them as an ally. If and only if you are helpful, satisfying their demands, they might show a form of loyalty to you.

3. They are completely unable to admit their mistakes. They have a need to be “better than” that they cannot acknowledge their humanity. They will blame and make excuses or offer an alternative set of facts. But they have great difficulty simply saying: “Yes, I was wrong” (but with the narcissist those words play the role of a tool, because the self-deception goes to the point where they think that they do not make mistakes, and the use of “yes I was wrong” is used solely for public display, as part of the decoration of their own personality (which should not be using those words).

4. A lot of unsolicited advice. Because they are complacent and overconfident, narcissists are not ashamed to “suggest” to you how to act, think, prioritize, and manage your life. They may hide their motives by saying that they are only trying to help, but their impatience and intolerance indicate the opposite. Narcissists may be overly eager to help, but when the recipient of their efforts hesitates, they predictably accuse that person of ingratitude.

5. Introspective thinking is virtually nonexistent. Because narcissists are so image-conscious, they place far more emphasis on looking right than on being right. Narcissists assume that the mere appearance of success or self-confidence is enough. They rarely examine the deeper “whys” that drive their decisions and don’t want to be challenged to examine their rationale for living. They do what they do so they can gain an advantage over others.

And you might definitely have a question about how to deal with narcissistic people. And here's my

Bottom line:
You can’t change them, but you can choose how close they get. Keep your boundaries, do not waste your energy to them, and choose carefully who you let into your life.

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Not everyone who hurts you is a bad person.
But not everyone deserves access to your inner world, either.

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wtf ??

Google really said "let me scare you for a while" 😂

My sophomore year has come to an end.
Two years still ahead, and plenty of room for improvement.

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“No person has the power to have everything they want, but it is in their power not to want what they don’t have, and to cheerfully put to good use what they do have.”

—SENECA, MORAL LETTERS, 123.3

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