When they move from Europe to Africa, = *Voyages of discovery.*

When we moved from Africa to Europe = *Illegal immigrants.*

A group of Africans in Europe = *Refugees.*

A group of Europeans in Africa = *Tourists.*

A group of Africans in the bush = *Poachers*

A group of Europeans in the bush = *Hunters.*

Black people working in a foreign country = *foreigners*

White people working in a foreign country = *expats*

*Did this world fail Africa or did we fail ourselves? Food for thought!!*

*IN FACT, THE GREATEST STUPIDITY NORMALIZED BY AFRICANS IS:*

When a French citizen does not speak English, Africans respect him.

When a Spaniard doesn't speak English, Africans respect him.

When a Chinese person doesn't speak English, Africans respect him.

When a Russian doesn't speak English, Africans respect him.

When a Portuguese person doesn't speak English, Africans respect him.

But when an African does not speak English, Africans consider him a joke, unintelligent, illiterate, dumb and stupid.

This is the level or extent of the harm we have suffered as a people. We use English as a parameter to measure the intelligence of our people, including children.

In our schools, children are led to believe that they are stupid just because they cannot speak a language foreign to their ancestral trajectory.

Dear Africans, put an end to this mental slavery. Teach your children your mother tongue and allow locals to feel free to speak their native language without any stigma.

Do not help oppressors to prolong their oppression.

If you come across this post, please share it widely to spread this message and enlighten an African. The people around you need to hear this. It's a collective effort. Do not break the chain of mental revolution.
#africaworldnews

You need power only when you want to do harm otherwise LOVE is enough to get everything done.

MY HUSBAND MADE ME CRY ON OUR WEDDING NIGHT

As a Lady we all look forward to our wedding day and particular our wedding night. We know how precious that first night with our husband will be. So I have always looked forward to my wedding night.

Unfortunately my wedding night became the most painful day of my life. When we got into bed I expected us to do what newly married couples will do. That was when my husband said he has a confession to make. He said some years back he had an accident that affected his spine and because of that he could no longer perform as man. I though he was joking until I confirmed and saw it was true.

When we were dating he made me agree that we will not do anything until our wedding night and I agreed, believing my man is a good man. Not knowing he had something he has been hiding. I feel so sad and I haven't stop crying.

I don't know who to even share my pains with, what should I do in this situation?

Just walk out , you have been lied to

How to differentiate between true love and fake love

FAKE LOVE/LUST

1.. The feeling arises from hormones

2.. Only felt as a gentile sensation

3.. Is primal instinct

4.. Only sexual desire and physical attraction

5.. Focuses only on a persons looks and body

6.. You want sex and not conversation

7.. You don't discuss feelings, just fantasy

8.. You say what they want to hear

9.. Silence is uncomfortable

TRUE LOVE

1.. Physical, emotional, spiritual and intellectual attraction

2.. The feeling arises from the heart and soul

3.. Is felt as a deep feeling of peace

4.. Is universal consciousness

5.. Focuses beyond the physical body and looks

6.. You explore deeply into one another

7.. You discuss and express feelings openly

8.. You listen to them intently

9.. Silence is understood
🙏

There are still many beautiful marriages out there. Yours can be one. It begins with a choice

Decide, Discuss and
Determine to do
something exceptionally
*GOOD FOR SOMEONE*
this week and your life
would never be the same.
Good morning

PHYSIOLOGICAL BLOOD GROUP AWARENESS           

Maria got married in the year 2010, from that time till now she has been rocked with 10 heart breaking miscarriages. To her, she blames the terrible experience on the witches in her village, she doesn't know that she and the Nigerian dysfunctional system is the cause of her predicament. I will tell you how, seat back and enjoy this brief lecture.

Have you ever heard of the word Rhesus factor?
Rh factor is a protein that can be present on the surface of the red-blood cell. People that have the Rh factor are Rh positive +, those who do not have the Rh factor are grouped as Rh negative-.

The + and - in front of the blood group is the rhesus factor. So we A+, A-, O+, O-, B+, B-, AB+, AB-. Rhesus factor is genetic, it's gotten from the parents emphatically the man. 
Now that we are clear on what Rh factor is let us move further to why I said Maria  is the cause of her miscarriages .

If you are Rh positive eg (a+, b+, o+, ab+) you are safe, but if you are negative eg (a-, B-, AB-, O-)  you are not. If are a male Rh - you are safe, if you are a female you aren't safe. If you  a rh- woman and you get pregnant for a man who is rh- you are safe but if you get pregnant for a man who is Rh+ you aren't safe.
Most people are Rh positive only very few are negative, the possibility for a rh- woman to find a rh- man is slim, that's where the problem lies.

Let us assume Maria is rh- and during her school days she aborted a pregnancy, the man who got her pregnant then was rh+, obviously her baby was rh+.
During abortion, the rh+ blood came in contact with her rh- blood. That was the beginning of her problem.

Once rh- comes in contact with an rh+, a certain antibodies are activated. This antibodies are activated to stop anything they think is a threat from coming into the body. E.g a baby.  A rh- woman with an activated antibodies would keep having miscarriages, the antibodies would keep fighting and taking off any foetus. The woman might end up childless and if not properly informed might think she is under a demonic oppression, she will be spending nights in Churches out of ignorance. She may even think that God has forsaken Her.
Women with activated antibodies are RH sensitized and once this antibodies are activated it can never be deactivated until the woman dies.

Antibodies are activated in a rh- woman by abortion, ectopic pregnancy, miscarriage and child birth.
During child birth of a rh- woman who got pregnant by a rh+ man, children inherit their rhesus factor from the man so once the baby's  rh+ comes in contact with the woman rh- during delivery the antibodies are immediately activated so after that particular child birth the woman would keep having miscarriages because the activated antibodies would as usual fight off any foreign body.

The antibodies can be stopped from being activated by administering an injection known as Rh Immunoglobulin to a negative woman .
The injection is administered 28wks into pregnancy, 72 hrs after delivery, after ectopic pregnancy, miscarriage or abortion. If it's not administered and the antibodies are activated, it would never be deactivated.

Because our dysfunctional health system doesn't promote proper rhesus factor sensitization, Maria is left helpless after one mistake.
Mothers,  tell your girls and sisters, a rh- girl must be extremely careful. Because of the very small number of rh- people, it's extremely rare to find a rh- man. The possibility to get pregnant for a rh+ man is high. Once  she gets pregnant for a positive man and rushes to have a quick abortion, she might have as well jeopardized her future for life.

Apart from this, a woman with a negative rhesus factor has no problem. it can however be controlled with rh Immunoglobulin injection.
A rh- man or woman cannot receive blood donation from a rh+. it would lead to death as the blood would immediately clog and cake.
Operation know your rhesus factor today. Check into any near by hospital and test your blood group.

THE INSPIRING STORY OF DHL

In 1969, 3 young men decided to start their delivery business with the few resources they had.
1. ADRIAN DALSEY
2. LARRY HILLBLOM
3. ROBERT LYNN ....whose surnames initials formed DHL will revolutionize this industry.

55 years later today DHL owns
♤250 planes.
♤ 32,000 vehicles.
♤ 550,000 employees and today DHL is present almost everywhere in the world.

Revenues are estimated at hundreds of billions of dollars.

In life, surround yourself with people who talk about projects, business, success, dreams, goals.....not negative, fearful, lazy people.

If your friend refuses to join you in starting a business, it's not a friend.

If your brother refuses to support you to progress in your business... he's not a brother.

If you got into business... hold on strong... it took 55 years for DHL to be DHL.

Success takes time, effort, intelligence and focus.

Be inspired to do more today🌹🌹🌹

Yes, do something different today.

As the CEO of your life, are you running the company well?

Good morning.

Let's be encouraged to embrace difficulties as a natural part of life.
Difficulties are not exceptions but an integral part of our growth journey.
Challenging times are opportunities to discover our strength and resilience.
Let's create a culture where vulnerability is a sign of courage, not weakness.
We're all in this together – no one is alone in their struggles.
By normalizing difficulties, we can break down stigmas and build a supportive community.

*Most importantly, may we not be the reason someone is going through unwarranted difficulties*

Today, let's spread cheer and reach out to hold others up while they navigate challenging times.

Happy new week.
Br: Ms. Sark LifeCoach

IS IT ADVISABLE TO LIVE WITH A MAN YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO?

Recently, a man broke up with his girlfriend who had been living with him for almost six years. He sent her away with their two children and married another woman only a month later.

Ladies, you are too special to be used and dumped by any irresponsible man. Please place value on yourself and don’t settle for less. Never cohabitate.  

Cohabitation is a dangerous game. It is a sin against God. It is ungodly for a man to live under the same roof with someone he is not yet married to. No matter how genuine the intention is, it is a dangerous exposure to an avoidable temptation. It is unholy! It is best to wait and live together only under the sanctity of a marriage covenant blessed by God.

If you must live together, then get married. Even if you become pregnant for your intending spouse, that is not a reasonable reason to move into his house automatically. He must come to your parents to do the right thing.

There are so many men living with women they are not married to. Some of them even have three to four children while living together. That’s not marriage. It is fornication no matter how many children you have together and no matter how long you have been together. There are some men who dump the mothers of their children after two to three children and get married to another lady.

As a man, be responsible. It is wrong to live with a woman you are not legally married to. Many people might be doing it, but that does not make it right [Romans 12:1-2]. God cannot change His Word to suit your lust, sinful desires, beliefs, or culture. Don’t ask a woman to pack into your house without a marriage contract. Pay the price and start a home.

Never agree with a man who is not ready to pay your bride price but wants you to move to his house so that both of you can live as husband and wife until he has money to pay the bride price and do the wedding. Let him do the right thing first before you move in with him. Don’t settle for less than you deserve.

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May you not make marital error in Jesus name

WHAT IS SEX AND FEELINGS ?

A man can have sex with a lady and still don't have any feelings for her, men only need space to have sex but women need reason to have sex.

A woman cannot have sex without feelings except sex workers. A man can travel for eight hours 'just to have sex with a female friend and yet, not love her.

Sex makes men act as if they are in love while they are not. The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for sex and nothing more.

The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is the art of true love.

Sex is not an act of commitment. Men still leave the women they sleep with on bed and start thinking of the next woman to sleep with.

The satisfaction that comes from sex dies in minutes. It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford the expenses of flying from the UK to Ghana for sex would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex.

Sex drives men to do what seems like the impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird. Sex and love are not on the same page even in the dictionary. People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for sex.

Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their life.
You may think they are working hard to live well in the future, but they are just living for fun and that is all.

Students are now living together like husbands and wives, and our society calls it love. What kind of people do these students become when they leave school?
This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nations building graduates.

Today, a 16-year-old girl is already into sex. She wants to wear everything on trend. She is already a prostitute in the sense that any man that comes her way for relationship must show some signs of money and she would respond to him.

The funny thing is this, almost all those girls that have become sex symbols end up in a deep mess. How many of them today is changing the world they are into? What kind of spirit would they do well within life? They have sold their souls out to sex.

They pride on what they wear and hotels they go to. That is their biggest achievement. The girls they called cowards are setting up economic empires. Their future is already exhausted when they come to their true senses?

Advice to my beloved brothers and sisters:
For men; never allow your erection today to destroy your future directions, stay positive.
My sisters, all that glitters is not gold, make your future bright and its start now.

𝐓𝐄𝐋𝐋 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐓𝐑𝐔𝐓𝐇 𝐈𝐍 𝐂𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐓𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐏
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(𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒔𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝒓𝒆𝒈𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆.)

During their courtship, the wife didn't tell the husband that she was married before with a kid. So, the courtship was done and dusted and they got married. 

Now married, there was this particular boy that occasionally visits them. The wife introduced him to her husband as her nephew while he was actually her son from her previous marriage. 

After 18 years, something happened. Probably, the young man got tired of the hide and seek game. So, he came to the house one day and asked her mum's husband, "When will you finally release my mother so that he can return to my father?"

Understandably, the man was both surprised and confused. What is this boy talking about? Which woman is your mother, my wife? How come? You meant to tell me that this woman I have been living with for over 18 years now was married with a kid, even? 

Consequently, he called his wife to explain. She was dumbfounded and speechless. All she could do was to apologize. Her sin has found her out. 

That was how trust was lost and the marriage was plunged into problems. What could have been prevented from the start but she hid and lied about it. I'm certain the husband must have asked her about it but she lied.

Another case was that of a woman. During the time she was dating her husband, she did not tell the guy that she doesn't have a vigina. It is a rare birth defect known as virginal agenesis.

It was as they were trying to consummate their marriage, that the man discovered that the woman he married did not have a vigina. 

Now, this is 2 years of marriage and they're yet to consummate their marriage. The man is in court seeking a divorce.

The courtship period is a very important period. It's a period you lay the foundation for your marital journey. It's also a period to have honest and truthful conversations.

Are you in a serious relationship that's heading towards marriage? Are you in courtship and there are things that will threaten the existence of the marriage if eventually discovered do not hide it, the earlier you tell the whole truth, the better.

✅ Have you married before? Tell.

✅ Do you have a child(ren) from your previous marriage or out of wedlock? Tell. 

✅ You can't conceive because you don't have a womb, you don't a vigina or as a result of a medical condition? Tell. 

✅ You can't impregnate a woman because you are impotent, suffering from erectile dysfunction, low sperm count, weak erection? Tell. 

✅ You have a life threatening infectious disease or sickness like cancer, HIV/AIDS, STDs, etc? Tell.

✅ Do you have a weakness that your struggling with, weaknesses like alcohol, smoking, womanizing, manizing, etc? Tell. 

✅ You know yourself better. Any secret that you know will bring problems if discovered, for your own good, tell the truth. 

Tell your partner the whole truth so the person will be making an informed decision, so that the person will know from onset what he's venturing into and no one will accuse you of deception like in the 2 cases above. 

Tell the truth. Hide nothing...

✅ Tell truth will set you free. The truth liberates. 

✅ You will be free from the wahalas that come with hiding a secret. It takes more effort to hide a lie than it takes to tell the truth. It take more lies to hide a lie. You will just be stressing yourself by hiding a lie.

I'm you don't want your mom or dad to call you her or his nephew or cousin. 

✅ Your heart will not cut every now and then. You can imagine the emotional trauma that woman will be going through anything the son visits. Her heart will just be cutting anyhow. 

✅You will enjoy peace of mind. When you tell the truth, your heart will give you peace. A heart at peace is like a medicine to the body. 

✅ When you tell the truth, your partner is likely to love and trust you the more for being honest. 

✅ Tell the truth because it's the right thing to do. Your partner deserves to know the truth. Don't wait for your partner to discover the truth himself or herself.

You will lose their trust forever, your marriage may end, they will feel traumatized and betrayed by you. Tell the whole truth. 

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐒𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐓𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡❓

Don't go about sharing your stories with anyone that cares to listen. The only time to share your story is when the relationship is heading towards marriage and the person is serious about you. Then, the person deserves to know the truth.

When marriage is in view, when the person is serious with you that's when to share your past experiences. 

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐓𝐨 𝐓𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡...

Tell the person that there is something important you will like to tell them, that you feel he or she deserves to know the truth. 

Make sure you meet in person and discuss it so you will notice their body language and expressions.

When you tell the truth, the person may leave you as a result and this is why most people hide the truth. If the person leaves you, then you should know that you did the right thing. 

The person may also appreciate the fact that you are honest with him or her and they will love and trust you the most. They will support you to tackle whatever challenge you may have. 

In conclusion, don't enter your marriage with lies and deceptions. That's a wrong foundation to build your marriage, it will crash. Lies kill trust and break marriage. 

❞𝘽𝙚 𝙝𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙩. 𝘽𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙩𝙝𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙗𝙚 𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙘𝙚𝙧𝙚. 𝙎𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙖𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙥𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪, 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙖𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙥𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪. 𝘼𝙣𝙮𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙘𝙖𝙣𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙡𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙥𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙢𝙚𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙮𝙤𝙪.❞

Thanks for reading

Some people are being depressed😥, frustrated😓, and confused😢 with what their lives is, how it going, where it going, what it is really going on with them😰

Some are even tired of life😥, some of them are even tired of their relationship, marriage and family😭

Some aren't feeling well😓, but just manage to cope with life, some can't bear the pains💔they are going through😭

Many of their hearts is being broken💔 most of them are even looking for a way to terminate their lives😭😭

Some of them are asking God why they even come to this world😥? Why did God send them to this world to suffer, why is only them going through such problem, when will it end?😭😭

Dear listen,

I know the pain is too much😥, I know what you are passing through😪

I can feel it, and I know how hurt it is.

You shouldn't end your life over such problem, you shouldn't kill yourself because of a stressful and sorrowful relationship

Well.. it is better you end that relationship and save your life dear

Hear me, once you end your life over that relationship or marriage, he will look for someone else and continue life with her

While you will be at the grave, without any remembrance, forgotten for life, while someone else will be replaced by you

So why must you terminate your life? You are not the owner of your life, God owns it and He know what you are going through

Just trust Him dear, He is working on you and He will soon settle your case.

Dear, don't terminate your life, you are loved. Just take a look at yourself in the mirror

You are beautiful and being loved by many, just in case you don't know, God love you and I do love you too 🥰

You see because you have feelings of love for someone doesn't mean you must date them. Be intentional about going into a relationship, don't just be emotional.

If you're all an emotional person, you'll never be sensible. It's just like buying things on impulse.

It's so wrong to get into a relationship because of just feelings which is why many young people fail in relationships today.

▪ They don't understand that sometimes you'll catch feelings for people you can't be together with.

▪ Sometimes you'll catch feelings for people that negate your values.

▪The feelings do not also validate being in a relationship with them.

Feelings never made a relationship work so never make it your motivation and know that not all feelings are meant to be fostered.

BE IN CHARGE OF YOUR FEELINGS.

✍️ Love is a voluntary feeling and decision.

You might carelessly get emotional with someone you shouldn't be with but you've got to slap yourself to order.

Anything can spark feelings; even things such as voice, looks, and superficial gestures.
Anything can make you have feelings.
But whatever you feel, remember feelings are not COMPATIBILITY.

No matter how much you feel for the wrong person, it cannot transform them into the right person.

Logic is also needed in love.

If you leave it all to feelings, you'll mess your life up because sometimes you'll find yourself feeling for someone you shouldn't even be together with.

Be Guided Today!

🍂🍂🍂

ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN?

It's possible to meet the man of your dreams, the problem is, he is a full fledged married man. You know you shouldn't be feeling the way you do but you seem completely helpless.

Each time you see him or think about him, you wish you are in his arms, completely secured in his love. You are so madly in love with him, you can't imagine how life will be without him. Alright sis., I perfectly understand what you are going through but you need to put your brain in check. You are losing control of your emotions and you should regain your sanity before you do something completely insane!

Dating a married man is not as sweet as Hollywood makes it looks. It's full of pain, regret, betrayal, emotional roller coaster, depression, oppression and you may one day commit suicide that is if you were not murdered!

What are the things you need to do to call your senses back if you seem helplessly in love with a married man? Know this:

1. HE IS A MARRIED MAN: He has a first love -his wife. He has taken her to the altar, everybody knows that. He has pledged before God and man to stay faithful to her forever. Coming in at this point makes you an intruder, a thief, a husband snatcher and a home wrecker! You are not all that? Then loose him and let him go!!!

2. HIS WIFE IS JEALOUS: Which is normal. Some have abnormal jealousy that is murderous and full of rage. There are stories of wives killing their husbands' mistresses. Some sent hired assasins to do the dirty job while some turned them to pitiable human beings. You have heard stories of "innocent" ladies being beaten, battered, maimed, burnt, poured acid on or killed by unknown men. That is the power of jealousy! Some don't do all these. They take her name to a juju man who invoke terrible curses on her! You are too young to have your life altered by a jealous wife, stay a million miles away from her husband!

3. IT ATTRACTS CURSES: Someone else will do it to your husband. Some married women who weep, lament and complain that mistresses are sleeping around with their husbands are simply reaping what they have sown. If you make a woman sad in her marriage, a thousand women are waiting to break your own home too!

4. YOU WILL NEVER HAVE A GOOD MARRIAGE: No natter how faithful your husband is, you will never trust him and eventually push him out! You will always watch your back, imagining things that are not there. You will think every lady on the street is sleeping with him thesame way you were sleeping with married men when you were single. You will never have peace each time you see him with his colleague, client, student, or your sisters! You will grow terribly jealous, paranoid, neurotic, psychotic, manic deppressive and eventually insane!

5. YOU WILL NOT HAVE PEACE: Your past will keep haunting you.

6. YOU WILL SPEND ETERNITY IN HELL: God frowns at adultery. The Bible says, "...fornicators and adulterers God will judge...." adultery is a terrible thing.

So sister, before you agree to date that man, think about all these. They are real and they happen to real people. Be careful what you sow, for whatever you sow you shall reap! Remain blessed.