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Hey dear members, I have asked one question every day, which you all try to answer so that I feel that I am spending my time at the right place and can learn something from it.๐๐ค๐๐ค
I requested all the members to please be active and give some feedback and share your Thought/ views on cmnt so that I have clarity on your enthusiasm to learn... ๐๐
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1โฃ #Let_ask_Yourself: Q & A ?
โ How do you make your failures disappear?
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โ How do you make your failures disappear?
Share You're thoughts ๐
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How many people want to change their lives and are going to take actions for it
Anonymous Poll
93%
Yes
7%
No
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Answering the five big questions of life soundly settles your life like a foundation sets a building.
โ Origin โ Where did I come from?
โก Identity โ Who am I?
โ Purpose โ Why am I here?
โก Morality โ How should we live?
โ Destiny โ Where are we going?
โ Origin โ Where did I come from?
โก Identity โ Who am I?
โ Purpose โ Why am I here?
โก Morality โ How should we live?
โ Destiny โ Where are we going?
Please trying to Give Answer ๐๐ฅ3
Some important life lessons~
โข Stay kind & non-judgemental till u can be.
โข If ur presence badly annoys someone, leave with an apology(if u really did a mistake) or else simply leave forever.
โข Old bonds have to break when new ones are formed (Chemistry speaking).
โข Stay silent if it's not ur fault.
โข Respect promises.
โข Trust once broken never can be regained even if u try.
โข Hold a good control over your feelings & emotions, let them flow away with the tears till they dry off completely.
โข Expectations kills.
โข Prefer Quality over Quantity in all spheres of life.
โข Don't chase something that is out of
your reach & not meant for you.
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โข Stay kind & non-judgemental till u can be.
โข If ur presence badly annoys someone, leave with an apology(if u really did a mistake) or else simply leave forever.
โข Old bonds have to break when new ones are formed (Chemistry speaking).
โข Stay silent if it's not ur fault.
โข Respect promises.
โข Trust once broken never can be regained even if u try.
โข Hold a good control over your feelings & emotions, let them flow away with the tears till they dry off completely.
โข Expectations kills.
โข Prefer Quality over Quantity in all spheres of life.
โข Don't chase something that is out of
your reach & not meant for you.
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Quora
Ipersonal Growth
๐๐Be the Better version of yourself ๐ฟ
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Hello everyone! Well done for completing this week. Iโve updated the notice with 10x simple rules. Please make sure you follow them :)
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2๏ธโฃ #Let_ask_Yourself: Q & A ?
โ How do you stop making life hard for yourself?
Share You're thoughts ๐
โ How do you stop making life hard for yourself?
Share You're thoughts ๐
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Donโt let yourself be distracted by pleasure.
Stay true to your path!
The apple is always tempting, but never worth it.
Master yourself
by mastering the following 3 โthingsโ
- MIND
- BODY
- SPIRIT
Perspective is everything. I am here to remind you of the perspective needed to conquer LIFE
Stronger together!
Stay true to your path!
The apple is always tempting, but never worth it.
Master yourself
by mastering the following 3 โthingsโ
- MIND
- BODY
- SPIRIT
Perspective is everything. I am here to remind you of the perspective needed to conquer LIFE
Stronger together!
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Trusting the process. It's a very competitive world where we're just trying to get there as soon as possible. But the fact is,the happiness is not entirely at the end of the game,it is IN THE GAME.
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Have a dream, a vision that wakes you up in early mornings and keeps you awake way into the night.
Have goals that inspire you to give you 100% every day!
Envision a GOAL, build a PLAN around it, and TAKE ACTION to make it happen. A simple, doable formula for success!
Take a deep breath, trust in yourself, and keep going. Let every step you take move you FORWARD, never back! FOCUS
Every step forward counts. :)
Have a fantastic week ahead! โน๐ผโโ๐คพ๐ผโโ๐๐ปโโ๐ดโโ๐๐ผ๐๐ปโโ๐ช๐๐ค ๐ฏ๐
Have goals that inspire you to give you 100% every day!
Envision a GOAL, build a PLAN around it, and TAKE ACTION to make it happen. A simple, doable formula for success!
Take a deep breath, trust in yourself, and keep going. Let every step you take move you FORWARD, never back! FOCUS
Every step forward counts. :)
Have a fantastic week ahead! โน๐ผโโ๐คพ๐ผโโ๐๐ปโโ๐ดโโ๐๐ผ๐๐ปโโ๐ช๐๐ค ๐ฏ๐
Finally reached 300 members
Thank you so much for all your wonderful support ๐๐
#300Members #ipersonalgrowths
#selfimprovement #Mentorship
PS : Once Again Thanks all dear Amazing people ๐ป๐ฟ Let's go ahead ๐ fulfill You're Dream and Ambitious
Stay Connect ๐ผ ๐ซ Keep Supporting ๐
Thank you so much for all your wonderful support ๐๐
#300Members #ipersonalgrowths
#selfimprovement #Mentorship
PS : Once Again Thanks all dear Amazing people ๐ป๐ฟ Let's go ahead ๐ fulfill You're Dream and Ambitious
Stay Connect ๐ผ ๐ซ Keep Supporting ๐
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๐คณ Social Media Dopamine LoopโโโIntroduction
โ๏ธDisclaimer: I am not gonna dive deep into the biological origin and purposes of dopamine as a hormone. Writing this post I just wanna emphasize how dangerous it is to follow and crave dopamine without control.
Whatโs the dopamine loop after all? This article sums it up pretty well. In a nutshell, it is a constant seeking of small and fast dopamine portions (or hits) that bring us short-term pleasure. It can be sugary food or drinks, it can be sex, binge-watching Netflix, playing video games, or even simple human interactions.
๐คฏ Fun Fact: some scientists and writers were deliberately limiting their interactions with other people in the first part of the day in order to stay focused and not be distracted by peoplesโ faces. Such an extreme approach comes from the fact that humans are extremely susceptible to faces. It takes a lot of our โRAMโ to analyze and understand other human beings based on their facial expressions. So in order to perform at the highest, they made such sacrifices.
Coming back to dopamine. The main problem with such dopamine hits is that they can be achieved pretty effortlessly, without working hard to attain them (and I am not saying that in order to enjoy something you should โdeserveโ it only by working hard). โน๏ธ
Letโs have a step back for a while and imagine how it all looked like thousands of years ago. Obviously, we wonโt compare the lifestyle of people living then and now. The basic brain functions and frameworks, however, havenโt changed much since then. ๐ง
What we need as humans basically are 2 things: calories and bits of information. The first ones feed our body and brain in order to function, and the second ones are crucial for our brain and therefore for our survival. How? Our brain is an extremely energy-consuming organ since it constantly gathers data around us, analyses it, and makes decisions that, at that time, were crucial for our survival.
๐น From that standpoint, in order to get enough calories, you had to hunt. Hunts can be extremely long and unsuccessful. Once you get it you should start thinking about getting more later. Total pain in the a**, to be honest. Same with bits of informationโโโwe are especially receptive to visual clues, movements, and changes in the landscape in order to detect potential predators, food, etc. We are simply wired that way which enabled us to survive till that day. All this brainwork performed by us is exhausting. The same behavioral and neural patterns apply today.
What does it mean nowadays? Neither of these 2 resources is scarce now. Foodโโโalmost unlimited access. Itโs nothing compared to thousands of years ago. Informationโโโall around us. Itโs actually overwhelming. No wonder obesity is taking over in developed countries and people are suffering more and more from depression, anxiety, and lack of energy. Like it or not, we (humanity) unconsciously broke the pattern that provided us with a healthy existence.
๐ Funny enough, we actually can stop eatingโโโthatโs good news because otherwise we die or become less attractive mate partners. This mechanism works pretty well (on the other hand, given the amount of free porn and 0 effort to get sexual arousal I am not sure about that). However, when it comes to information there was no need for evolution to develop a mechanism that would stop us from getting more information. I mean, why would you want that, right? More information means more chances of survival. Noone however expected that information will become available on THAT scale. Which has led, ironically, to disrupting our existence instead of improving it (apart from the overall civilizational progress, I mean).
๐ฑSo now, why canโt I stop scrolling on my app feeds? This question is connected to another one: why am I constantly in a bad mood, having depression or anxiety?
I am gonna cover some tips in the next post since itโs gotten pretty big already. Letโs collect 20 โ๐ฅโ, so I will see if you liked the post.
To be continued ๐
#TooDeep
#OffTopic
โ๏ธDisclaimer: I am not gonna dive deep into the biological origin and purposes of dopamine as a hormone. Writing this post I just wanna emphasize how dangerous it is to follow and crave dopamine without control.
Whatโs the dopamine loop after all? This article sums it up pretty well. In a nutshell, it is a constant seeking of small and fast dopamine portions (or hits) that bring us short-term pleasure. It can be sugary food or drinks, it can be sex, binge-watching Netflix, playing video games, or even simple human interactions.
๐คฏ Fun Fact: some scientists and writers were deliberately limiting their interactions with other people in the first part of the day in order to stay focused and not be distracted by peoplesโ faces. Such an extreme approach comes from the fact that humans are extremely susceptible to faces. It takes a lot of our โRAMโ to analyze and understand other human beings based on their facial expressions. So in order to perform at the highest, they made such sacrifices.
Coming back to dopamine. The main problem with such dopamine hits is that they can be achieved pretty effortlessly, without working hard to attain them (and I am not saying that in order to enjoy something you should โdeserveโ it only by working hard). โน๏ธ
Letโs have a step back for a while and imagine how it all looked like thousands of years ago. Obviously, we wonโt compare the lifestyle of people living then and now. The basic brain functions and frameworks, however, havenโt changed much since then. ๐ง
What we need as humans basically are 2 things: calories and bits of information. The first ones feed our body and brain in order to function, and the second ones are crucial for our brain and therefore for our survival. How? Our brain is an extremely energy-consuming organ since it constantly gathers data around us, analyses it, and makes decisions that, at that time, were crucial for our survival.
๐น From that standpoint, in order to get enough calories, you had to hunt. Hunts can be extremely long and unsuccessful. Once you get it you should start thinking about getting more later. Total pain in the a**, to be honest. Same with bits of informationโโโwe are especially receptive to visual clues, movements, and changes in the landscape in order to detect potential predators, food, etc. We are simply wired that way which enabled us to survive till that day. All this brainwork performed by us is exhausting. The same behavioral and neural patterns apply today.
What does it mean nowadays? Neither of these 2 resources is scarce now. Foodโโโalmost unlimited access. Itโs nothing compared to thousands of years ago. Informationโโโall around us. Itโs actually overwhelming. No wonder obesity is taking over in developed countries and people are suffering more and more from depression, anxiety, and lack of energy. Like it or not, we (humanity) unconsciously broke the pattern that provided us with a healthy existence.
๐ Funny enough, we actually can stop eatingโโโthatโs good news because otherwise we die or become less attractive mate partners. This mechanism works pretty well (on the other hand, given the amount of free porn and 0 effort to get sexual arousal I am not sure about that). However, when it comes to information there was no need for evolution to develop a mechanism that would stop us from getting more information. I mean, why would you want that, right? More information means more chances of survival. Noone however expected that information will become available on THAT scale. Which has led, ironically, to disrupting our existence instead of improving it (apart from the overall civilizational progress, I mean).
๐ฑSo now, why canโt I stop scrolling on my app feeds? This question is connected to another one: why am I constantly in a bad mood, having depression or anxiety?
I am gonna cover some tips in the next post since itโs gotten pretty big already. Letโs collect 20 โ๐ฅโ, so I will see if you liked the post.
To be continued ๐
#TooDeep
#OffTopic
Psychology Today
The Dopamine Seeking-Reward Loop
Why is it so hard to stop scrolling on my smartphone social media feeds?
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