Either you settle for the women you get or you invest in yourself to get the best systems in the world and position yourself as a top-tier man in the dating market.

Hard choices now = Easy life later

Easy choices now = Hard life later

This is why only the top 1% of men who actually invest in themselves will get long-term consistent success with women.

Looksmaxxing is literally GAY in Russia.

Nothing is as simultaneously fear inspiring and arousing for women as a Man she suspects is self-aware of his own value.

A woman has one primary life purpose: to please a man she respects & build a family with him.

It's both evolutionary and biological.

She can get a degree, get rich, climb the corporate ladder, etc.

But the world is completely uninterested in her female "achievements", and she knows it.

Her nature will always be in conflict internally unless she fulfils that primary purpose.

Therefore, she will never be truly happy without a man and a family.

This is the most important dating video you'll watch in 2026

https://youtu.be/RA-NLy4s0bE?si=4zVZsXBysm2GCJx5

Dating apps introduced distribution at scale to the sexual marketplace.

Men value access to sex while women value the possibility of a long-term relationship.

Because sex can be fleeting and without recourse men are willing to sleep with women that are below them in “value” in the sexual marketplace.

Because women are focused on relationships and procreation they are generally more likely to attempt to maximize the “value” of their chosen mate in the sexual marketplace.

As a result of scaled digital distribution and the receding taboo around hookup culture women suddenly found that they had instant access to men that wouldn’t typically hit on them in real life let alone pursue a relationship with.

IG PLAYBOOK (FREE PDF)

IG is one of the best platforms to get dates online...

Not Tinder, not Bumble, not Hinge...

Instagram.

With my IG, I get 1-3 dates a week like clockwork, and I want to show you how you can too.

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Great way to go in for the first kiss on a date:

If there’s a genuine connection between the girl and myself, I like to stop the conversation and ask, “What do you prefer, men who use words or use actions?”

99/100 times she will say “Actions, of course”

At that point, move in for the kiss

2 Dating Coaches Debate What Actually Works With Women (VIDEO)

Just dropped a brand new video with Diego Day where we went deep on what actually works when it comes to dating, attraction and approaching women.

We shot a podcast together a few weeks, you can check the full version here: https://youtu.be/zKrpVv_Idro?si=uI9DdRpZ4aSD5i08

Inside the video:

• Why most guys need more volume before they need more theory

• The 3 frames that can completely change how you approach women

• Why rejection isn't really rejection and how to stop taking it personally

• The difference between building confidence through experience and trying to fake confidence

If you're serious about getting better at dating, watch this one.

Leave a like & comment if you enjoy

Watch here: https://youtu.be/zKrpVv_Idro?si=z4cKJyDbBVFa-25V

If you’re approaching 10-20 girls a week and can't get at least 1-3 dates a week, there is something wrong with YOU.

You are the common factor in all your interactions with women.

You probably don't have the right method for approaching women, or your inner game/limiting mindsets are affecting your demeanour.

When you treat a woman too well, she doesn't think you're amazing.

She thinks she is.

And guess what… after a while? she'll think you're boring and she’ll get dry.

I recently hosted a private live workshop where I broke down my full dating system: approaching, Instagram, texting, and turning it all into 1–3 dates a week, consistently.

The full replay is free. It's about an hour, and it's the same framework my clients use.

👉 Watch it here: go.higherselfcircle.com/systems

Dating is much closer to a funnel than most guys realize.

You need new opportunities coming in, you need to know how to convert them into dates, and you need to know where your actual bottleneck is.

I just posted a full workshop breaking down the system I use to consistently generate 1–3 dates per week while still running a business and having a life.

I cover cold approach, Instagram, social circle, texting, the dating funnel, volume, conversion and speed.

Watch it here: https://youtu.be/sixRHScfwlc?si=suSsez8MXIAuoc8w

I talk to guys every week who make 10, 20, even 50K a month and still aren't getting a single date.⁣
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They've figured out money but they're still leaving their dating life to luck. And how you do one thing is how you do everything.⁣
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Dating isn't a side quest. It's one of the pillars of your life. Handle it the same way you handled your business.⁣

I'll say this to my son:

Either you play the game, or the game plays you.

When a woman pulls away from you...

Don't chase after her, don’t double-text, etc. Your value will drop if you do that.

Instead:

✅ Take it easy
✅ Go lift some weights
✅ Deprive her of your attention
✅ Replace her with new prospects

There are millions of women around.

Simple.

New video dropping tonight in a few hours stay tuned 🤫

Subscribe to my Youtube Channel if you haven't yet: higherselfcircle.com/youtube

I post new videos every week on how to get 1–3 quality dates a week without apps or wasting your time.

The Weekly Routine That Gets You More Dates (VIDEO)

https://youtu.be/PuFXErW2wdo?si=mMizEi1tscvRD5ve

If your whole motivation in life is just to make an extra buck, it's not going to be enough to keep you going

Money is great, but your purpose needs to be deeper to keep you hungry

If you had all the money in the world already: How would you like to spend your remaining time?