Limo Oueslati | Systems for Dating & Business
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Only filter for two things in women:

Attraction and kindness.

If she’s not genuinely attracted to you, you’ll feel it.

Less intimacy, less affection, constant doubt… and eventually things break or drift.

And if she’s not naturally kind and nurturing, you’re signing up for friction and drama. It’s a lack of femininity.

And if you keep choosing women like that, it says more about you than them.

It means you don’t expect to be treated well.

Fix your standards. Everything else follows.
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Too much comfort is the enemy of desire.
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You're Not Bad at Dating. You Just Don't Have a System

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Kiss French
Dress Italian
Date Russian
Drive German
Sell American
Smoke Cuban
Party Brazilian
Fly Singaporean
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Watch how Kyle went from getting 0 dates to having a girlfriend and changing his life. ⁣⁣⁣
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DM me the word "System", and I’ll send you the exact roadmap Kyle followed: https://t.me/limooueslati
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POV: Approaching Russian girl on the phone at the beach.
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An inch of movement is better than a mile of intentions.
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When you understand female psychology and communication on a deep level, your success with women becomes incredibly predictable.
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Best investments in yourself:

• Traveling
• Learning new skills
• Spending time alone
• Strengthening your faith
• Taking care of your health
• Investing in your knowledge
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Women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally.

A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something.

As a man you have a burden of performance.

Men are loved for their current utility and provision, not unconditionally.

Stop being delusional and understand this harsh reality.
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When you avoid confrontation in relationships, you create conflict.
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Approach anxiety is one of the highest forms of natural selection.

NO balls to approach her = NO date, no sex, no offspring.
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Bro to bro:

Normalize approaching attractive women anywhere you go.

You're not "bothering them".

You're literally making their day.
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Every woman wants a bad boy who is only good for her

And every man wants a good girl who is only bad for him
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The digital nomad thing really works if you are 2+ months in a city.

I’ve travelled so many places for just a few days, and it's very fun, but very hard to get some real work done. It's always a time sink.

You barely get to know the area, you get constant new stimulation and you just get reminded you're an outsider.

If you want to get some work done, stay in for at least 60+ days in the same exact spot.
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It’s May 5th.⁣⁣⁣
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We’re already a third of the year in.⁣⁣⁣
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125 days gone. 240 left.⁣⁣⁣
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Feels like January was yesterday, right?⁣⁣⁣
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So let me ask you something…⁣⁣⁣
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Where is your dating life actually at right now?⁣⁣⁣
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Not the version you tell yourself.⁣⁣⁣
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The real one.⁣⁣⁣
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Are you consistently going on dates every week?⁣⁣⁣
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Meeting the kind of girls you actually want?⁣⁣⁣
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Or are you still stuck in the same cycle…⁣⁣⁣
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Watching content⁣⁣⁣
Thinking about it⁣⁣⁣
Maybe taking action here and there⁣⁣⁣
But nothing really changing⁣⁣⁣
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Because that’s what happens for most guys.⁣⁣⁣
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They stay “around” the game without actually being in it.⁣⁣⁣
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And then 4 months pass.⁣⁣⁣
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And they’re still in the same position.⁣⁣⁣
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Look, I’m not saying this to call you out for no reason.⁣⁣⁣
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I’m saying it because most guys never ask themselves this honestly.⁣⁣⁣
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They just keep repeating the same patterns and hope something clicks.⁣⁣⁣
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So ask yourself this…⁣⁣⁣
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From January until now…⁣⁣⁣
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Did you actually go all in?⁣⁣⁣
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Or did you stay in your comfort zone?⁣⁣⁣
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Did you approach consistently?⁣⁣⁣
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Did you build a real pipeline of options?⁣⁣⁣
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Or did you rely on random luck and a few conversations here and there?⁣⁣⁣
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Did you fix the actual bottleneck…⁣⁣⁣
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Or did you keep tweaking small things that don’t matter?⁣⁣⁣
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Because here’s the truth most people don’t want to hear:⁣⁣⁣
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Your dating results are a system problem.⁣⁣⁣
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Not a “you” problem.⁣⁣⁣
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And if you don’t change the system…⁣⁣⁣
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Nothing changes.⁣⁣⁣
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You still have 240 days left this year.⁣⁣⁣
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That’s enough time to completely flip your dating life.⁣⁣⁣
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But only if you actually change what you’re doing.⁣⁣⁣
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Not “improve it a little.”⁣⁣⁣
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Change it.⁣⁣⁣
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Structure it.⁣⁣⁣
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Systemize it.⁣⁣⁣
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And if you want someone to just look at your situation and tell you exactly what’s missing…⁣⁣⁣
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Then get on a call.⁣⁣⁣
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We’ll map out:⁣⁣⁣
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Where you’re at⁣⁣⁣
What’s blocking you⁣⁣⁣
And the exact system you need to go from inconsistent to 1–3 dates a week⁣⁣⁣
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No fluff.⁣⁣⁣
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No theory.⁣⁣⁣
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Just a clear plan you can execute.⁣⁣⁣
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Pick a time here if you're serious about leveling up your dating life THIS year: https://go.higherselfcircle.com/schedule
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