Most guys think “game” is just about getting laid.
But remove the male–female dynamic and it’s just social leverage.
You can break the ice with any stranger, negotiate better, get your foot in the door with business owners, network effortlessly, handle gatekeepers, and open doors most people never even approach.
Few.
But remove the male–female dynamic and it’s just social leverage.
You can break the ice with any stranger, negotiate better, get your foot in the door with business owners, network effortlessly, handle gatekeepers, and open doors most people never even approach.
Few.
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Most men don’t have dating problems, they have personal problems manifesting in their dating lives.
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It TURNS HER ON to intuitively sense that you could f*ck other girls if you wanted to, but at this moment, you're choosing her.
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Generally speaking, a woman can control her sex drive more than a man
Generally speaking, a man can control his emotions more than a woman
Therefore:
A woman who can’t control her sex drive is more masculine
A man who can’t control his emotions is more feminine
Generally speaking, a man can control his emotions more than a woman
Therefore:
A woman who can’t control her sex drive is more masculine
A man who can’t control his emotions is more feminine
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When you know that you've got the:
- Game skills to meet and seduce new girls
- A curated lifestyle that allows you to be free
- Multiple women in the roster that you can date
Then you will internalize an elite abundance mindset that will give you magnetic confidence, and attract women like a magnet.
- Game skills to meet and seduce new girls
- A curated lifestyle that allows you to be free
- Multiple women in the roster that you can date
Then you will internalize an elite abundance mindset that will give you magnetic confidence, and attract women like a magnet.
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> gym membership
> meals out w/ boys
> macbook pro
> Iphone pro
> cool wallet
> courses
> mentorships
> masterminds
> classic watch
> premium perfume
> black roundneck t-shirts
> timeless daily sunglasses
> solo trip that scares/excites you
> gym membership
> meals out w/ boys
> macbook pro
> Iphone pro
> cool wallet
> courses
> mentorships
> masterminds
> classic watch
> premium perfume
> black roundneck t-shirts
> timeless daily sunglasses
> solo trip that scares/excites you
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Don't share your problems with her.
Share your solutions.
Don't share your doubts with her.
Share your decisions
Share your solutions.
Don't share your doubts with her.
Share your decisions
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Women want to be seduced by cool, high-status, successful men.
They WANT to be approached by these men.
By approaching her, you’re doing her a huge favor.
It’s only the losers, dressed like shit, running needy interview mode game that they don’t want to be approached by.
They WANT to be approached by these men.
By approaching her, you’re doing her a huge favor.
It’s only the losers, dressed like shit, running needy interview mode game that they don’t want to be approached by.
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If you see a beautiful women and you want to meet her but you do not take action to meet her…
Then it's a form of being dishonest with yourself.
For example, If you see a woman in a bar and she looks at you, and you stare at her all night without doing anything then on a deep level, you're being dishonest about you intentions.
If you're afraid to approach a woman, it's because somewhere inside you're more invested in her opinion of you than you are in your opinion of yourself.
You are more invested in her not rejecting you than you are in aligning yourself with your desires.
Then it's a form of being dishonest with yourself.
For example, If you see a woman in a bar and she looks at you, and you stare at her all night without doing anything then on a deep level, you're being dishonest about you intentions.
If you're afraid to approach a woman, it's because somewhere inside you're more invested in her opinion of you than you are in your opinion of yourself.
You are more invested in her not rejecting you than you are in aligning yourself with your desires.
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Understand:
Dating is like negotiation.
In any negotiation, the person with the most power is the one who’s able to walk away more easily.
Dating is like negotiation.
In any negotiation, the person with the most power is the one who’s able to walk away more easily.
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Entrepreneurship is funny because you start off to build a business, but in the end, the business builds you.
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When you’re running 3 to 4 girls in a rotation.
Girls basically will start showing up in your life out of nowhere.
3 women are too close to 2.
2 women are too close to 1
1 woman is too close to 0.
Always cultivate options.
Have mutliple streams of females.
That’s why I like to have a minimum of 4 women at all times that I rotate between.
Girls basically will start showing up in your life out of nowhere.
3 women are too close to 2.
2 women are too close to 1
1 woman is too close to 0.
Always cultivate options.
Have mutliple streams of females.
That’s why I like to have a minimum of 4 women at all times that I rotate between.
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You can only ever be 1 of 3 guys a woman will have sex with:
1️⃣ The guy she thinks she can get resources or a relationship from. She makes this guy wait for sex & vets him thoroughly. Few men make the cut.
2️⃣ The guy she purely wants sex with and nothing else. Fast sex, but then she won’t see him again after.
3️⃣ The guy she wishes she could have a relationship with, but thinks she can’t, but he’s still sexy to her. Fast sex (no need to vet him thoroughly since “I can’t have him anyway”), but then if the guy shows her after that she actually has a chance with him, she will get excited & stick around.
Most men are the 1️⃣ guys by default. This is generally the top priority item to fix ASAP for the average guy who begins actively working on game + sex appeal (to not be stuck ‘waiting in line’ with girls forever…).
Guys in the 2️⃣ category have a lot of fun for a while but turn into huge messes once they start wanting relationships with girls but can’t get them to stick around.
Ultimately the guy you want to be is the 3️⃣ type of guy. However, this is the one that takes the MOST game: you need to communicate all of that
➡️ You have boyfriend qualities
➡️ While still being sexy
➡️ Meanwhile making her think you are UNAVAILABLE for a relationship
➡️ Yet without making her feel like YOU are rejecting HER for that yourself (else she will feel insulted and auto-reject)
1️⃣ The guy she thinks she can get resources or a relationship from. She makes this guy wait for sex & vets him thoroughly. Few men make the cut.
2️⃣ The guy she purely wants sex with and nothing else. Fast sex, but then she won’t see him again after.
3️⃣ The guy she wishes she could have a relationship with, but thinks she can’t, but he’s still sexy to her. Fast sex (no need to vet him thoroughly since “I can’t have him anyway”), but then if the guy shows her after that she actually has a chance with him, she will get excited & stick around.
Most men are the 1️⃣ guys by default. This is generally the top priority item to fix ASAP for the average guy who begins actively working on game + sex appeal (to not be stuck ‘waiting in line’ with girls forever…).
Guys in the 2️⃣ category have a lot of fun for a while but turn into huge messes once they start wanting relationships with girls but can’t get them to stick around.
Ultimately the guy you want to be is the 3️⃣ type of guy. However, this is the one that takes the MOST game: you need to communicate all of that
➡️ You have boyfriend qualities
➡️ While still being sexy
➡️ Meanwhile making her think you are UNAVAILABLE for a relationship
➡️ Yet without making her feel like YOU are rejecting HER for that yourself (else she will feel insulted and auto-reject)
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Every Man Needs to Learn Cold Approach (Here’s Why)
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If I was still living in Tallinn, Estonia 🇪🇪 then it would be 2 degrees celsius right now and some bad weather.
Now that I work remotely and travel without a base, I went to Da Nang Vietnam 🇻🇳 for a few weeks.
It’s 30 degrees outside, food and accommodation are 3 times cheaper than in Europe.
Working at coffees, going the gym daily, walks on the beach everyday.
Plenty of digital nomads and travellers I connected with.
Feel much better overall.
Change your geography = Change your life.
Now that I work remotely and travel without a base, I went to Da Nang Vietnam 🇻🇳 for a few weeks.
It’s 30 degrees outside, food and accommodation are 3 times cheaper than in Europe.
Working at coffees, going the gym daily, walks on the beach everyday.
Plenty of digital nomads and travellers I connected with.
Feel much better overall.
Change your geography = Change your life.
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