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Back in the day, I used to only cold-approach girls when I was drunk.

Sober? I’d freeze.

In this video, I get interviewed about my journey and share some powerful insights

https://youtu.be/ZTXOSDSPSFo

The person in the conversation who is the most relaxed and enjoying their time has the strongest frame in any interaction.

Your dating life is costing you up to $50,000 a year.⁣⁣⁣
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Not because you’re buying dinners.⁣⁣⁣
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Because you’re paying in time and focus.⁣⁣⁣
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Here’s the part most men never calculate:⁣⁣⁣
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If you waste 5–10 hours a week swiping, texting, chasing, and “hoping it works out”…⁣⁣⁣
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That’s 250–500 hours per year.⁣⁣⁣
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Now put a value on your time.⁣⁣⁣
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If your time is worth even $100/hour, that’s $25,000–$50,000 burned.⁣⁣⁣
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And that’s only the visible cost.⁣⁣⁣
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The bigger cost is what it does to your brain.⁣⁣⁣
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Mental bandwidth.⁣⁣⁣
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Because dating doesn’t just steal hours.⁣⁣⁣
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It steals attention.⁣⁣⁣
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You’re trying to work but your mind is split.⁣⁣⁣
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Did she reply?⁣⁣⁣
What should I say next?⁣⁣⁣
Did I mess it up?⁣⁣⁣
Why did she ghost?⁣⁣⁣
Should I double text?⁣⁣⁣
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That mental noise adds up.⁣⁣⁣
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Overthinking.⁣⁣⁣
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Rejection anxiety.⁣⁣⁣
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Emotional swings.⁣⁣⁣
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Random confidence dips.⁣⁣⁣
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And yes, it hits business.⁣⁣⁣
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Unsolved dating problems leak into performance.⁣⁣⁣
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You do less deep work.⁣⁣⁣
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You procrastinate more.⁣⁣⁣
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You feel “off” socially.⁣⁣⁣
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You chase dopamine instead of execution.⁣⁣⁣
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Dating inefficiency isn’t harmless.⁣⁣⁣
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It’s a tax on focus.⁣⁣⁣
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High-level men don’t tolerate broken systems.⁣⁣⁣
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If their marketing is inconsistent, they fix the pipeline.⁣⁣⁣
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If operations are messy, they create SOPs.⁣⁣⁣
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If their calendar is chaos, they build rules.⁣⁣⁣
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But in dating, most guys accept chaos like it’s normal.⁣⁣⁣
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Random effort.⁣⁣⁣
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Random weekends.⁣⁣⁣
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Random results.⁣⁣⁣
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Random confidence.⁣⁣⁣
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That’s not “just how dating is.”⁣⁣⁣
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That’s a broken system.⁣⁣⁣
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And broken systems always cost you.⁣⁣⁣
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The fix isn’t trying harder.⁣⁣⁣
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It’s making it predictable.⁣⁣⁣
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You build a simple process that creates consistent results:⁣⁣⁣
how you meet women, how you filter, how you lead, how you set dates.⁣⁣⁣
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Less guessing.⁣⁣⁣
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Less wasted time.⁣⁣⁣
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Less mental noise.⁣⁣⁣
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More results.⁣⁣⁣
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If you're ready to change that this year and want the exact system to consistently get 1–3 dates per week in 30 days (without living on dating apps)…⁣⁣⁣
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Book your Dating Game Plan Call here and I'll show you exactly how to get there within the next few weeks: https://go.higherselfcircle.com/schedule

Slow feet, don’t eat.

While you’re overthinking about whether you should approach her or text her…

Another guy is going to do it and get her before you.

If you don’t have the balls to approach her, then why would you deserve her?

A Woman’s love is conditional and self-preserving.

Understand that a woman's "love" is savagely opportunistic.

Don't over-invest in something that is inherently flakey

Instead of investing heavily in a woman, who can leave the moment:

- a better guy comes along, or
- the moment she ceases getting value, or
- when misfortune strikes you,

Invest heavily in yourself. Prioritize your own goals

Let women be a nice supplement - never the purpose.

My advice to every 20-29-year-old man is to get 2-3 FEMALE FRIENDS who are actually attractive and don’t sleep with them.

A) You get desensitized to being around pretty girls, and you stop being a weirdo.

B) You get real insight into what their human experience is like.

C) Pretty girls attract other pretty girls, NOTHING is better than a hot female wingman.

How To Build A Life So Good She Begs To Be Part Of It

https://youtu.be/bYOsWjT-6gU

Your social life needs to be consistent

One weekly event you attend

At least one big one monthly

3-4 yearly bigger ones

Quarterly trips or getaways

You will never meet people let alone the "right ones" staying at home

Same in business

Stop:

1. Porn
2. Fear
3. Excuses

Forget:

1. You should be a nice guy
2. There is only one special girl
3. What she told you she wants

Do:

1. Take action
2. Be the prize
3. Approach Women
4. Lead With Certainty
5. Be Dominant & Assertive

Keep:

1. Your Mission first
2. A Strong frame
3. Multiple Options
4. Working On Business
5. Going To The Gym 4x/Week

Dating Like a CEO: Stop Chasing Women, Build a Funnel

https://youtu.be/HwtUSLbRcTw

New Vid just dropped!

Smart Men Avoid dating or marrying these Types of Women:

1) Single Mothers.
2) Woke Feminists
3) Women without Ambition
4) Women who travel all the time
5) Party Girls with No Purpose

If you are ever in doubt as to whether or not you should kiss a girl while on a date, give her the benefit of the doubt and go for it anyways.

Worst case, it'll show that you're ballsy enough to try.

When your dating life becomes predictable...

And everything just works

If you're ready to finally change your daitng life this year and want the exact system to consistently get 1–3 dates per week in 30-60 days (without living on dating apps)…⁣⁣
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Book your Dating Game Plan Call here and I'll show you exactly how to get there within the next few weeks: https://go.higherselfcircle.com/schedule

Levels of Dates:

Level 1 — <$30 dates (coffee, ice cream, quick bites, 1-2 drinks or invite her straight at your place directly)

Level 2 — Casual activity dates (walks, museum, arcade, minigolf + drinks/food) <$30-$50

Level 3 — Dinner dates (reservations, effort, intention) <$50-$100

Level 4 — Weekend trips (2–3 days away, hotel booked) <$100-$500

Level 5 — Week-long travel trips (flights, itinerary, real investment) <$500-$2000

Most men start at 3…

Smart men start at 1.

New Free PDF: The Dating Funnel™ System

Most men treat dating like luck.⁣⁣⁣
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High performers don’t.⁣⁣⁣
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They run a funnel.⁣⁣⁣
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I just released a free guide showing how to systemize your dating life like a business:⁣⁣⁣
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• How to create consistent lead flow instead of random luck⁣⁣⁣

• How to turn numbers into real dates without endless texting⁣⁣⁣

• How to maintain momentum so attraction doesn’t die⁣⁣⁣
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If you want it, DM me the word "Funnel" and I’ll send it:
https://t.me/limooueslati

New video is live: I Run My Dating Life Like a Business... Here's the Exact System

Dating isn’t luck. It’s a system.

In this video I break down my Dating Operating System: Identity → Acquisition → Conversion → Retention, so you can get 1–3 dates/week without dating apps.

Watch here: https://youtu.be/F09lMqIPQMA?si=4S0gMBx0K0GdKoUr