Would anything be different in the lives of people around you if you were not in their life?

My mom: how beautiful is she?

Me: this much

Kutilmagan statistika

Agar oshiqlig‘im aytsam, kuyub jon-u jahon o‘rtar,
Bu ishq sirrin bayon qilsam taqi ul xonumon o‘rtar.  

Kishiga ishq o‘tidin zarraye yetsa bo‘lur giryon,
Bo‘lub besabr-u betoqat, yurak-bag‘ri chunon o‘rtar.

P.S ikkincha baytdagi gapni ma'nosini qarang. Zarragina ishq o'ti yetsa, tamom

Most people cannot bear simplicity. There are many simple and modest individuals who would be fine if they could be who they are, but they believe they should be something better, that they are not quite good enough; and so they begin to deck themselves out with feathers and whatnot to be great and astonishing. But they are only astonishing when they are simple.

Carl Jung

Katta misollarni javobi nega 1 chiqadi degan savolga javob shu

Muhokamalar bo'lgani yaxshi lekin to'g'ri kelgan odamni fikrini eshitaverish/o'qiyverish kerakmas. Vaqt isrof bo'ladi ba'zida.

Sinalgan, hurmat qilgan odamlarni fikrlarini olib, ularni tahlil qilish kerak, yoki buyuk fikrlovchilarni (great thinkers) o'qish kerak.

I thought the Moon is the most beautiful thing one can see, but then I met you

Hayotimizdagi deyarli hamma narsa ota-onamizga borib taqaladi. Ota-onamiz bizga dunyo haqida, o'zimizni qanday tutish kerakligini o‘rgatadi. Ular bizni kiyintiradi, ovqatlantiradi va kerakli joylarga olib boradi. Eng muhimi esa, ota-onamiz bizga yordam berish uchun yonimizda bo‘ladi va ular bizga (insonlar) bir-biriga muhtoj ekanligimizni o‘rgatadi. Aynan shu kuzatuv “inson hayotida baxtning asosiy omili - bu o‘zaro qaramlikdir” degan xulosaga olib kelgan.

Biz bu dunyoga kelgan paytdan boshlab qaramlik holatida tug‘ilamiz. Inson bolasi parvarish, ta’minot va mehrsiz yashab keta olmaydi. Shunday qilib, hayotimizdagi birinchi saboq shundan iborat: agar biz azob cheksak (qiynalsak), boshqalar bizga yordam bera oladi.

Shu sababli biz tabiatan boshqalarning ehtiyojlariga ham befarq emasmiz. Axloq va mehr-shafqat mana shu beshikdagi lahzalardan boshlanadi.

Chunki bizning hayotimizdagi dastlabki lahzalar - bu (hissiy, jismoniy) bog‘lanish lahzalaridir. Biz boshqalarning og‘rig‘iga yoki azobiga tabiiy va oson tarzda hamdard bo‘lamiz.

Muhabbat muhabbatni keltirib chiqaradi (love begets love). Ota-onaning qo‘llab-quvvatlashi, bolasiga bo'lgan muhabbati insonni baxtli va axloqli qilib tarbiyalaydi.

- philosophyminis

Love loves to love love

- James Joyce, Ulysses

When you give your attention to one thing, you take it away from another

That's why attention is the most valuable thing one can give

On making friends

Someone saw Nasrudin searching for something on the ground.
'What have you lost, Mulla ?' he asked. 'My key,' said the Mulla. So they both went down on their knees and looked for it.
After a time the other man asked: 'Where exactly did you drop it ?'
'In my own house.'
'Then why are you looking here ?'
'There is more light here than inside my own house.'

© The Exploits of the Incomparable Mulla Nasrudin by Idris Shah

Nasriddin Afandi hazillarining tasavvufga aloqasi haqida hech o‘ylab ko‘rganmidingiz?

An event is common knowledge among a group of agents if each one knows it, if each one knows that the others know it, if each one knows that each one knows that the others know it, and so on.

Bir guruhda 4 kishi bor. Hammasi bir ma'lumotni biladi. O'sha ma'lumotni bilgan biri qolgan 3 tasi ham shu ma'lumotni bilishini biladi. Shuning uchun ham u gapni aytib o'tirmaydi

Mana shu common knowledge deyiladi

Masalan, osmonda yomg'ir yog'di yoki zilzila bo'ldi. Buni yaqin atrofda yashayotgan hamma bir xil darajada ko'rdi/his qildi

Hamma odam boshqalar ham buni bilishini biladi. Shuning uchun u haqida gapirib o'tirmaydi

What is something you love that you wouldn’t recommend to others?