Turmush qurishdan kozlangan niyatlarga misollar:
1. Nabiy sollolohu alayhi vassalamning tafsiyalariga amal qilish
“Ey yoshlar jamosi kim uylanishga qodir bolsa uylansin…”
2. Iffatni asrash, kozni tiyish uchun:
“ Uch kishiga Alloh azza va jalla yordam berishni oz zimmasiga olgan: qarzni ado etishni hohlaydigan mukotab qul, iffatni hohlaydigan turmush quruvchi va Alloh yolida jang qiluvchi odam”
Imom Nasoiy rivoyati
3. Ibodat ishlarida ozaro yordamlashishdan umid qilish
4. Alloh taoloning shariatiga muvofiq hayot kechiradigan oila barpo etish ajridan umid qilish
Solih zurriyotlar yetishtirishni kozlash


Manba: Hasson Shamsiy Posho

The voice that can take me back to Ramadan, and that big masjeed of Muslim hotel, where we enjoyed the most beautiful recitation, and felt the most sakiynah

Hozirgi standartlaringizga koʻra “Ideal” erkaklar aslida — narsisst yoki sotsiopat boʻlishi mumkinligini hech oʻylab koʻrganmisiz?

Ya’ni, sizga tanishgan kuningizdan boshlab obsessed boʻlib, kuchli e’tibor va shirin hayotni quradiganlar…

1,5x eshiting, shamollaganman muhokama qilmang🙂

Has this ever happened to you, you find many many good books, start reading the first pages and your are so hooked by it. Then your curiosity gets the best of you, which makes you keep searching and finding new that in the end you end up with 5 books at the same time, and become unsure of which one to read😭😭😭😭

At least, there is this one book that I was consistent with and read until the page 100 and smth today😅

"Don't think. It complicates things. Just feel, and if it feels like home
then follow its path.” — R.M. Drake.


Society will almost never confirm our intuition until it's mainstream
already. For this reason, if you try to look outside for confirmation on
what you know to be true for you, you'll almost always get backlash
and differing opinions on what next steps you should take. Avoid
looking externally for answers.

Source: don’t believe everything you think

Ilojsizni sõrang,

Maryam surasida Zakariyyaning duosi keltiriladi:

َبِّ إِنِّي وَهَنَ الْعَظْمُ مِنِّي وَاشْتَعَلَ الرَّأْسُ شَيْبًا وَلَمْ أَكُن بِدُعَائِكَ رَبِّ شَقِيًّا

“Parvardigorim! Darhaqiqat, suyaklarim zaiflashdi, boshim oppoq sochga to’ldi. Ammo ey Parvardigorim, Senga qilgan duolarimda hech qachon noumid bo’lmaganman.”

Oli Imronda esa:

َنَادَتْهُ الْمَلَائِكَةُ… أَنَّ اللَّهَ يُبَشِّرُكَ بِيَحْيَى

“Shunda farishtalar unga nido qildilar: ‘Albatta, Alloh senga Yahyo xushxabarini bermoqda…’”

Zakriyya paygambardan ilojsizni sõrashda organiladigan odob:
1. “Nidaan hofiyya”deyilgan, yani past ovozda, pinhona iltijo qilgan.
Bu bizga tavozeni, va yashirin duo qilishni orgatadi
2. Ojizlikn e’tirof etish.
َبِّ إِنِّي وَهَنَ الْعَظْمُ مِنِّي

“Parvardigorim, albatta, suyaklarim zaiflashdi.” (19:4)

3. Ijobatiga mustahkam ishonch bilan sõrash.
َلَمْ أَكُن بِدُعَائِكَ رَبِّ شَقِيًّا

“Ey Parvardigorim, Senga duo qilganimda hech qachon noumid bo’lmaganman.”

4. Allohning ismlari bilan unga murojaat qilish.
َبِّ هَبْ لِي مِن لَّدُنكَ ذُرِّيَّةً طَيِّبَةً ۖ إِنَّكَ سَمِيعُ الدُّعَاءِ
(Oli ’Imron, 3:38)

“Parvardigorim! O’zingning huzuringdan menga pokiza zurriyot ato et. Albatta, Sen duolarni eshituvchisansan.”

turmusht.uz

kerakli odamga yetib borar

Negotiation bõyicha FBI tomonidan yozilgan kitob õqivomman, zõr insightla yiğib qõydim:)

Manbasini eslolmadim, yaqinda yana bir yerda oqigandim, asosiy ajrimlarni sababi qiyin savollarni uchrashuv payti sõramaslik ekan. Qiyin savollarga misollar: qadriyatlar, moliyaviy rejalar, kelajak uchun maqsadlar, konfliktga oid savollar bõlishi mumkin. Qiyin deyilgani sababi sõrash biroz noqulayroq bolgani sabab.

Morrie bilan Payshanba darslari kitobida ajoyib fikr aytilgandi. “Ular õzlarni yaxshi anglamaydilar, qanday turmush õrtoq kerakligini qayerdan bilsinlar”.. Yani barchasi avval õzingizni, qadriyatlaringiz va ehtiyojlaringizni anglashdan boshlanadi. Õzingizni anglaysiz va siz nimalarga toqat qilolasizu, nimalar ğashingizni keltiradi anglab olasiz. Muhimi maqsadlaringiz aniq bõlsa, yõldosh ham shunga munosib bõladi.

Aynan yuqoridagi maqolada yangi fikr õqib qoldim : Menga qanday qiz kerak emas, men istagan qiz qanday insonni hohlaydi deyilsa, inson õsishi natijada faqatgina birgina qiz emas, bir nechtasini standardlariga tõğri kelishni boshlaydi.

I like reading essays. For the simplest reason, they are short and clear and you can read bunch of them on different topics, with the most crucial points.

Take reading a book for example, 300 page book may take around 10 hours to finish, while an essay 5-12 minutes? Of course it can be never go near to wholly diving deep into one book, and discovering all the ideas yourself, but at least it’s a good source of self development for ppl with limited time.
My favorite sources for reading is medium and substack. You can always find good resources if you know English but if not… well I found something.

@parallelmuhit_bot essay website by Aziz Rahimov. Just imagine someone is reading the books and doing all the works for analysing and connecting all the dots for you to just read. (It’s a paid subscription, 67.000 for a month, and definitely worth it)

I think that most beautiful thing in conversation is asking “what do you think” and then actaully listening. With being truly attuned.

Hunar uchun ilm oʻrganamiz, ammo oilachi?
~25 ga kirib dinidan ahloqidan bittayam kitob oʻqimagan boʻladi.
~Insonni baribir ichki olami boshqaradi, borku shunaqa kitoblar bizda. Lekin afsus oʻqilmaydi.

Suhbatdan.