Judge Her Based Upon Justice
Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"The wise approach is to not judge the wife when there is conflict or when she has wronged you. No! Rather, look at those good cherished times in the past you both have enjoyed together as well as look at what a brighter future holds for you both, then judge based upon justice."
[Explanation Of Riyaadhus-Saaliheen, Chapter Of Advice On Women, Hadeeth No. 275]
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Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"The wise approach is to not judge the wife when there is conflict or when she has wronged you. No! Rather, look at those good cherished times in the past you both have enjoyed together as well as look at what a brighter future holds for you both, then judge based upon justice."
[Explanation Of Riyaadhus-Saaliheen, Chapter Of Advice On Women, Hadeeth No. 275]
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Al-Hasan Al-Basree, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
“Sincere repentance is that you hate the sin just as you used to love it and that you seek for forgiveness for it whenever you remember it.”
[Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 8/169]
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“Sincere repentance is that you hate the sin just as you used to love it and that you seek for forgiveness for it whenever you remember it.”
[Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 8/169]
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The Effects Of Disobeying Allaah
Al-‘Allaamah As-Sa’dee, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
“Indeed, disobedience spoils character, deeds, and provisions.”
[At-Tafseer, 318]
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Al-‘Allaamah As-Sa’dee, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
“Indeed, disobedience spoils character, deeds, and provisions.”
[At-Tafseer, 318]
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The Reality Of Manners
Al-Imaam Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
وَحَقِيقَةُ الْأَدَبِ اسْتِعْمَالُ الْخُلُقِ الْجَمِيلِ وَلِهَذَا كَانَ الْأَدَبُ اسْتِخْرَاجَ مَا فِي الطَّبِيعَةِ مِنَ الْكَمَالِ مِنَ الْقُوَّةِ إِلَى الْفِعْلِ
"The reality of manners is that it results from beautiful character. Thus, manners is the externalization of the integrity and strength in one’s inward disposition into action."
[Madaarijus-Saalikeen, 2/361]
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Al-Imaam Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
وَحَقِيقَةُ الْأَدَبِ اسْتِعْمَالُ الْخُلُقِ الْجَمِيلِ وَلِهَذَا كَانَ الْأَدَبُ اسْتِخْرَاجَ مَا فِي الطَّبِيعَةِ مِنَ الْكَمَالِ مِنَ الْقُوَّةِ إِلَى الْفِعْلِ
"The reality of manners is that it results from beautiful character. Thus, manners is the externalization of the integrity and strength in one’s inward disposition into action."
[Madaarijus-Saalikeen, 2/361]
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When Allaah Becomes Displeased With The Wife Regarding Her Husband
Abuu Hurayrah, may Allaah be pleased with him, reported that the Messenger of Allaah, salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:
"إِذَا دَعَا الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَلَمْ تَأْتِهِ فَبَاتَ غَضْبَانَ عَلَيْهَا لَعَنَتْهَا الْمَلاَئِكَةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ."
"When a man calls his wife to his bed and she does not come, and he (the husband) spends the night being angry with her, the angels curse her until morning."
[Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree, No. 3237, and Saheeh Muslim, No. 1436. Wording of Saheeh Muslim].
Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"Regarding the angels cursing the wife mentioned in the Hadeeth, it means they make du'aa (supplication) against her to be cursed! And the word 'curse' means, that the cursed person be far removed from the Mercy of Allaah. So, if the wife refused to have sexual intercourse with her husband, which Allaah has allowed and made this act lawful for the husband, if she does not allow him, then the angels curse her and we seek Allaah's refuge! If the wife refuses him til the morning, Allaah's angels curse her time-after-time!
The Prophet, salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said (in another narration):
"وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ مَا مِنْ رَجُلٍ يَدْعُو امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَتَأْبَى عَلَيْهِ إِلاَّ كَانَ الَّذِي فِي السَّمَاءِ سَاخِطًا عَلَيْهَا حَتَّى يَرْضَى عَنْهَا."
"By Him in Whose Hand is my life! When a man calls his wife to his bed and she does not respond, the One Who is above the heaven becomes displeased with her until he (her husband) becomes pleased with her."
This narration is more severe than the previous narrations because in it Allaah Himself is displeased with her! And certainly if Allaah is displeased with someone, then this is far worse than the mere curse of any man...
As for the Prophet's (salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) words: 'the angels curse her until morning' it indicates Allaah being displeased with the wife solely based on her husband being upset and angry with her! It is possible that when the Prophet, salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, mentioned 'until morning' it could be counted as the least time that the husband remains angry and upset with her. And it is also possible that the husband remains angry with her but not til the morning, just before sunset and it is just as likely that at times the husband will remain angry with his wife more than a day, maybe two. Whatsoever the case may be, as long as the husband remains angry with his wife, even if that is for a very long time period, Allaah, the Exalted and High, will remain displeased with her."
[Explanation Of Riyaadhus-Saaliheen, Chapter Of Advice On Women, The Husband's Rights Concerning His Wife, Hadeeth No. 281]
Important Note: A man should give his wife her rights, and she should give him his rights. If the man is not giving the woman her rights but he is demanding his right from her, she should reach out to a reliable person of knowledge and authority who can assist her and try to rectify their affairs, and Allaah knows best.
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Abuu Hurayrah, may Allaah be pleased with him, reported that the Messenger of Allaah, salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:
"إِذَا دَعَا الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَلَمْ تَأْتِهِ فَبَاتَ غَضْبَانَ عَلَيْهَا لَعَنَتْهَا الْمَلاَئِكَةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ."
"When a man calls his wife to his bed and she does not come, and he (the husband) spends the night being angry with her, the angels curse her until morning."
[Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree, No. 3237, and Saheeh Muslim, No. 1436. Wording of Saheeh Muslim].
Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"Regarding the angels cursing the wife mentioned in the Hadeeth, it means they make du'aa (supplication) against her to be cursed! And the word 'curse' means, that the cursed person be far removed from the Mercy of Allaah. So, if the wife refused to have sexual intercourse with her husband, which Allaah has allowed and made this act lawful for the husband, if she does not allow him, then the angels curse her and we seek Allaah's refuge! If the wife refuses him til the morning, Allaah's angels curse her time-after-time!
The Prophet, salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said (in another narration):
"وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ مَا مِنْ رَجُلٍ يَدْعُو امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَتَأْبَى عَلَيْهِ إِلاَّ كَانَ الَّذِي فِي السَّمَاءِ سَاخِطًا عَلَيْهَا حَتَّى يَرْضَى عَنْهَا."
"By Him in Whose Hand is my life! When a man calls his wife to his bed and she does not respond, the One Who is above the heaven becomes displeased with her until he (her husband) becomes pleased with her."
This narration is more severe than the previous narrations because in it Allaah Himself is displeased with her! And certainly if Allaah is displeased with someone, then this is far worse than the mere curse of any man...
As for the Prophet's (salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) words: 'the angels curse her until morning' it indicates Allaah being displeased with the wife solely based on her husband being upset and angry with her! It is possible that when the Prophet, salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, mentioned 'until morning' it could be counted as the least time that the husband remains angry and upset with her. And it is also possible that the husband remains angry with her but not til the morning, just before sunset and it is just as likely that at times the husband will remain angry with his wife more than a day, maybe two. Whatsoever the case may be, as long as the husband remains angry with his wife, even if that is for a very long time period, Allaah, the Exalted and High, will remain displeased with her."
[Explanation Of Riyaadhus-Saaliheen, Chapter Of Advice On Women, The Husband's Rights Concerning His Wife, Hadeeth No. 281]
Important Note: A man should give his wife her rights, and she should give him his rights. If the man is not giving the woman her rights but he is demanding his right from her, she should reach out to a reliable person of knowledge and authority who can assist her and try to rectify their affairs, and Allaah knows best.
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The Man Is The Guardian Over The Woman
Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"Regarding Allaah's words: 'Men are the protectors and maintainers of women' (Al-Quraan 4:34), the meaning is, that the man is the guardian over the woman, the disposer of her affairs, the one who is responsible for guiding her, and the one whom she should obey. On the other hand, if he commands her to disobey Allaah in any act of disobedience, she is not allowed to obey him in that matter as there is no obedience to the creation when it entails disobedience to the Creator, no matter who it is."
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Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"Regarding Allaah's words: 'Men are the protectors and maintainers of women' (Al-Quraan 4:34), the meaning is, that the man is the guardian over the woman, the disposer of her affairs, the one who is responsible for guiding her, and the one whom she should obey. On the other hand, if he commands her to disobey Allaah in any act of disobedience, she is not allowed to obey him in that matter as there is no obedience to the creation when it entails disobedience to the Creator, no matter who it is."
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Al-Allaamah, al-Muftee Ahmed Ibn Yahyaa an-Najmee said,
“It is not permissible for us to leave off criticizing the mumayyi’ (one who waters down the religion) out of concern for uniting the people.”
[Ad-Durar An-Najmiyyah, 382]
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“It is not permissible for us to leave off criticizing the mumayyi’ (one who waters down the religion) out of concern for uniting the people.”
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From The Characteristics Of The Noble
قال العلاَّمةُ ابن القيم رحمه الله:
"كتمان المصائب و الأوجاع من شيم النبلاء."
الفوائد ص ٣٦
Al-'Allaamah Ibnul-Qayyim, may Allaah have mercy upon him, said:
“Hiding misfortunes and pains is from the characteristics of the noble.”
[Al-Fawaaid, Pg. 36]
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قال العلاَّمةُ ابن القيم رحمه الله:
"كتمان المصائب و الأوجاع من شيم النبلاء."
الفوائد ص ٣٦
Al-'Allaamah Ibnul-Qayyim, may Allaah have mercy upon him, said:
“Hiding misfortunes and pains is from the characteristics of the noble.”
[Al-Fawaaid, Pg. 36]
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The Prayer Purifies You From Sins
Al-Imaam Ibnul-‘Arabee Al-Maalikee, may Allaah have mercy upon:
“The [five obligatory] prayers purify the servant from sins, so much so that no sin will remain for him, except that his sins fall [away from him].”
[Fathul-Baaree Of Ibn Hajr, 2/288]
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Al-Imaam Ibnul-‘Arabee Al-Maalikee, may Allaah have mercy upon:
“The [five obligatory] prayers purify the servant from sins, so much so that no sin will remain for him, except that his sins fall [away from him].”
[Fathul-Baaree Of Ibn Hajr, 2/288]
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This is a beautiful reminder for us all, but especially for those who may be dealing with hardship right now. I advise you'll to listen.