Why We Struggle After We Graduate or Drop Out?

I graduated last year, and most of my friends graduated this year. I see my friends start feeling what I felt in the early days of graduation — like rushing to find a job and trying to enter a business, and then feeling overwhelmed by overthinking, like what my parents think of me and fearing society. I know most of my subscribers are either students, early graduates, or dropouts.

My idea, as a young dude who has one year of experience in big tech in Ethiopia and somehow the Sales and Merkato world, is what I want to say:

So don't overwhelm yourself by overthinking. I know it's hard not to think, but try not to overthink — it affects your confidence and mental health, then your physical health, so don't overthink, that doesn't solve anything. Most of you recognize it's simple to say but hard to do — I've been through it, but it affected me, it didn't help me.

The second thing I want to say is: the first year is a trial year, not a year to define your identity, because things move faster than you think, and if you attach yourself to one thing, it messes up your 20's — it's bad. My idea is:

in your 20's, never define or attach yourself to one identity

. This is my view.

Lastly, once you get the job or start the business, you start a new life, and sometimes it's hard for some of you, especially the 9-5 job in a big corporate — it's hard and, from my experience, bad in some companies, where even your seat is arranged, blah blah. You start connecting with many people and experiencing more, and you learn a lot from the job or the business in the first 6 to 8 months — how things work, how people behave — that's really the best time for learning from life. But after that, if you don't change the league you play in, it starts getting boring, and you know everything you need to know. You just clock in, do the tasks, and clock out. You get bored. It's against your nature. You feel it. Your attention is no longer immersed in the tasks and shifts toward, "What else could I be doing?" For most people, that "what else" doesn't involve a meaningful goal. It involves opening your phone and rotting your brain. It's very rare that a job requires you to consistently improve your skill to match a greater challenge.

And especially for tech women and men who grind on campus to master self-learning, the real world becomes too boring early on, because you've already done a lot of stuff, and you start getting bored. Some people say don't complain, but you're not complaining — you're bored because you already know most of the things. The things that excited you first become boring — that's normal and natural, so don't be afraid to express your thoughts or feelings. And in that time, try to do more things, like building something — especially like building your own product, or building an audience, or something that saves you, my dudes.

Try more, learn more, and don't let your environment dictate you. If your colleague or your friend doesn't match your energy, cut them off.

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In 1998, two students had one simple idea:
👉 Make finding information easy.
They didn’t have money.
They didn’t have a big office.
Just a small garage 🚗
Today?
🌍 Billions of people use Google every day.
💡 Lesson: Your small idea could change the world.
👇 What do you think?
#TechFacts #Google #Startup

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Lately, I’ve been feeling anxious…
because things in my life aren’t going the way I planned.
I had goals. I had timelines.
I thought by now I’d be in a better place.
But here I am — feeling stuck, overthinking everything,
questioning if I’m doing enough… or doing anything right.
Some days are really hard.
Seeing others move forward makes me feel like I’m falling behind.
But deep down, I’m trying to remind myself:
maybe my path is just different.
Maybe this slow, confusing phase
is teaching me something I’ll need later.
So I’m not giving up.
Even if I feel lost… I’m still moving. 💭✨

Every successful career starts with one opportunity. Until then, keep preparing. 💙

Now, let's move to the next topic in the Web Development Roadmap:

🌍 HTTP vs HTTPS (Internet Basics 🔒)

🧠 What is HTTP?

👉 HTTP = HyperText Transfer Protocol
- Used to transfer data between browser ↔ server
- Not secure ❌
- Data is sent in plain text

💡 Example:
If you enter password → it can be intercepted 😬

🔒 What is HTTPS?

👉 HTTPS = Secure version of HTTP
- Uses SSL/TLS encryption
- Data is encrypted 🔐
- Safe for:
- Payments 💳
- Logins 🔑

💡 Example:
Even if someone intercepts → they can’t read data

⚔️ Key Difference (Must Remember)

Security
- HTTP: ❌ Not secure
- HTTPS: ✅ Secure

Encryption
- HTTP: ❌ No
- HTTPS: ✅ Yes

URL
- HTTP: http://
- HTTPS: https://

Use case
- HTTP: Basic sites
- HTTPS: Login, banking

🔍 How to Identify HTTPS?

👉 Look at browser address bar:
- 🔒 Lock icon = Secure
- No lock = Not safe

⚡ Real-Life Example

👉 Think like sending a message:
- HTTP = Normal message (anyone can read)
- HTTPS = Locked message (only receiver can read)

🔗 What is SSL/TLS?

- It’s a security layer
- Encrypts data between browser & server

👉 That’s why HTTPS is safe

🎯 Mini Task
1. Open any website
2. Check URL:
- Starts with https?
- Lock icon visible?

👉 Try both secure & non-secure sites

💡 HTTPS ensures secure communication using encryption (SSL/TLS)

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