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Don't know who needs to hear this but as someone who has anxious attachment issues and has been friends /is friends with avoidant attachment people I just want to say not acknowledging your own mistakes in the relationship and just constantly badmouthing the other person rather than just, you know, getting genuine help is not the right way to handle shit.
I'm not saying this to badmouth anyone or throw jabs I've just been in a similar painful dillema before and I know it sucks to be abandoned by your friends like that but when they personally tell you to go seek help maybe don't start talking shit about them every chance you get and actually get the help you need?
I'm not saying this to badmouth anyone or throw jabs I've just been in a similar painful dillema before and I know it sucks to be abandoned by your friends like that but when they personally tell you to go seek help maybe don't start talking shit about them every chance you get and actually get the help you need?
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It may feel like you're the victim but you're just as much at fault as they are. It's a hard pill to swallow but it's the truth
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Also can I just say anxious attachment gets glorified so hard on the internet while avoidant attachment gets stigmatized as if both aren't equally bad in their own ways
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No you're not quirky or cute for having abandonment issues babe you literally manifest your own demise constantly and everyday you feel like you're gonna get abandoned even if it's not true. That's not a cute trait for your friends to fix that's something you should talk to a therapist about. I SHOULD KNOW. I HAVE THE SAME ISSUE.
I shall talk about ts later bc I just woke #up
Okay I #woke up kinda
Anyway I’ve constantly been seeing this very same trend of people with anxious attachments glorifying their attachment issues and then pointing constant fingers at avoidants and calling them the absolute scum of the earth and they deserve to die type shit like it’s THAT bad when it’s extremely ironic and funny bc anxious attachments are just avoidants but the other way around.
Avoidants don’t want to talk
Anxious’ want to talk TOO much to the point it gets uncomfortable and unnecessary
Avoidants abandon emotional conversations because it’s uncomfortable for them to talk about them
Anxious’ cling way too much on these conversations and start having breakdowns due to their own stress of said person leaving them which makes them crash the fuck out
See how NEITHER of these are healthy at ALL?? I fear if you have any sort of attachment issue in general you just need to get HELP??
Anyway I’ve constantly been seeing this very same trend of people with anxious attachments glorifying their attachment issues and then pointing constant fingers at avoidants and calling them the absolute scum of the earth and they deserve to die type shit like it’s THAT bad when it’s extremely ironic and funny bc anxious attachments are just avoidants but the other way around.
Avoidants don’t want to talk
Anxious’ want to talk TOO much to the point it gets uncomfortable and unnecessary
Avoidants abandon emotional conversations because it’s uncomfortable for them to talk about them
Anxious’ cling way too much on these conversations and start having breakdowns due to their own stress of said person leaving them which makes them crash the fuck out
See how NEITHER of these are healthy at ALL?? I fear if you have any sort of attachment issue in general you just need to get HELP??
Like I myself am an avoidant and I go to therapy for it I’ve been in situations where I realized my avoidantness kinda fucks up my relationships with people so now I have to NOT abandon emotional conversations just because they make me extremely uncomfortable. If you want to have friends then you just gotta sit with the fact that sometimes your actions kinda ruin your friendships even if you have trauma and issues… and it obv does depend on your friend but if they’re gen a good person then they’d want the best for you. They wouldn’t feed your anxiety or your avoidance
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نمیدونم داداش به حرفای تراپیستت گوش نکن همه چیز رو گردن adhd و بی پولی بنداز و تا ابد سلف هارم رو romanticize کن و هر چیزی رو تا حد مرگ سکشوالایز کن که همه ازت چندششون بشه من ضرر میکنم یا تو
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How it feels like to use chasca stellar swirl stellar conduct team not giving a fuck if it doesn’t work meta wise
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Meta is a lie
Once you stop caring about meta youll start enjoying life
Once you stop caring about meta youll start enjoying life
𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐦𝐞𝐬’ 𝐌𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 !
Meta is a lie Once you stop caring about meta youll start enjoying life
See now I’m like 80% meta player and 20% idgaf okay