Being with him is slow-burning and far from easy he's guarded, emotionally reserved n shaped by trauma so he won't confess easily. He'll just show it through quiet presence, and small unnoticed acts like walking you home or leaving Rashomon near you so it can protect you anytime something happened. He is touch-starved yet awkward with affection, so if you initiate contact he'll freeze. And rare moments of vulnerability admitting that he's afraid of being forgotten or doesn't understand why you chose him. He's quietly possessive and insecure, like he's convinced he doesn't deserve you, so he may pull away after close moments or lash out with bluntness when he is stressed and his loyalty to the Port Mafia and need for Dazai's approval will always complicate things. But if you're patient and unafraid of his darkside, his love is absolute. He'll love you with a ferocity that's both terrifying and beautiful.

To be in a relationship with her is like being the sole keeper of a secret garden the world only glimpses through a glossy window. Her affection lives in small details, like making you tea every morning or sending a playlist at 2 AM. She is quiet, and when she has had a long day she just wants to rest her head on your shoulder, and that is when the idol mask comes off to reveal just Wonhee. But she is also a lovable menace with deadpan humor, like when she watches you cook and says seriously that you are holding the knife wrong before walking away. People see a delicate girl, but you see the lioness underneath, fiercely protective, your hype woman, yet also allowed to be tired and to cry in your arms, which means being her girlfriend is being her safe harbor. Your relationship is built on tiny shared worlds like late-night ramen runs or dancing in the living room until you both end up in a tangled heap. To be with Wonhee is to know a side of her the cameras will never capture, to be her anchor and her adventure, and to be loved gentle and more real than anything else.

To be in a relationship with her is to be loved with an intensity that is both beautiful and terrifying, cause her affection is not a gentle stream but a rushing river that will pull you under if you are not careful. Rooted in the fact that she grew up feeling invisible and learned to cling to anyone who offered her warmth. She loves you with her entire being from the very first moment, building her entire world around your presence like a loyal puppy who follows you everywhere and whines when you leave, but this devotion carries a weight many are not prepared for, because her love is not rooted in security but in a deep fear of loneliness, meaning she does not just want you but needs you, and she will uproot her entire life just to keep you close, which manifests as a suffocating clinginess that pushes partners away even when she is trying her hardest to hold on. She has been heartbroken many times because she gives so much of herself so quickly that she loses sight of who she is without a man beside her, overthinking every silence and every delayed reply until she spirals into a panic that you are leaving her just like everyone else has. And yet she is kind and loyal to a fault, loving you the way she wishes someone had loved her: completely, unconditionally, and without any self-preservation, but she has never learned that love cannot fill the hole inside her. You will feel adored in a way you never have before, but you will also carry the pressure of being someone's entire world, having to be patient with her jealousy and gentle with her insecurities, cause to love her is to be loved by someone who does not know how to love halfway, which is both the greatest gift and the heaviest burden you will ever carry.

Being with hint is like to be constantly challenged, endlessly amused, and quietly cherished by a man who hides his deepest feelings behind a smirk and a sarcastic comment, because he will never confess directly, but will instead show it through a thousand small actions you have to learn to read like a second language. As a boyfriend, he is a teasing menace who lives to get a reaction out of you, whether it is poking your cheek when you are concentrating, stealing food off your plate to see you scowl, or sending you a meme at 3 AM and then pretending he has no idea what you are talking about the next morning, but beneath all that playful provocation is a man far more observant and caring than he lets on, because he notices everything, way you fidget when you are nervous, the snack you crave when you are stressed, the song you hum when you are happy and he files it all away so that when you least expect it, he shows up with exactly what you need without you ever having to ask. He is fiercely protective but never controlling, your loudest cheerleader and your safest place to fall apart, and although he is not one for grand romantic gestures, in private he is unexpectedly tender, pulling you close during a movie or resting his forehead against yours in a rare, unguarded silence that says more than any words ever could. Being with Kuroo means learning that love does not always look like roses and poetry but sometimes looks like a lopsided grin, a terrible pun, and a hand that finds yours in the dark, and to be loved by him is to be seen completely, accepted entirely, and teased mercilessly for the rest of your life.

To be in love with him is to love a man who has convinced himself he is incapable of being loved, and to spend every day quietly proving him wrong in ways he will never verbally acknowledge but will feel in his bones, because he has spent his entire life believing he is nothing more than a weapon for hire. As a partner, he is rough around the edges-blunt, emotionally closed off, and prone to disappearing for days, but he shows affection through actions rather than words, like coming home covered in blood and checking if you are okay before tending to his own wounds, or standing between you and any threat without hesitation because protecting you has become the one thing in his life that feels meaningful. In private he is barely affectionate, but when he does reach for you with a hand on your waist n pulling you against his chest in the middle of the night, resting his head in your lap without a word n those moments carry more weight than any grand gesture ever could. He has been used and discarded his entire life and has never been anyone's first choice, so being with him means being patient with his walls, gentle with his wounds, and unwavering in your presence, because he will test you by pushing you away to see if you will leave like everyone else has, and the greatest gift you can give him is to keep choosing him anyway. Being with Toji is not easy and it is not pretty, but it is real in a way few things are, and to be loved by him, even silently even imperfectly is to hold something rare and precious that he never thought he would have.

To be in a relationship with Aaron is to be loved by a man who was never taught how to love gently but who will spend the rest of his life learning for you, cause he has been used and weaponized his entire life, so the fact that he chooses to be soft with you is not a small thing but a revolution in his own soul. As a partner, he is intense in every possible way, he loves with a focus so absolute that it can feel overwhelming. He has spent his entire life feeling unseen and so when he finally finds someone who truly sees him, he will never let you go. He will memorize everything about you, from the way you take your tea to the cadence of your voice when you are tired, and he will use that knowledge not to manipulate but to anticipate your needs before you even voice them, cause making you happy is the only thing that has ever made him feel like a human being. In a relationship he is possessive but not controlling, his possessiveness comes from a place of terror rather than power, he has lost everyone he has ever loved, so he will hold you a little too tightly and look at you with an intensity that can feel like standing in the sun. He is not the type for casual affection but for deep, consuming passion, and he will kiss you like you are the only thing tethering him to this earth, hold you like you might disappear if he let go, and tell you in the most straightforward way that you are the most important thing in his life because he has never learned how to be coy about the things that matter. He is fiercely protective and will burn the world down for you without hesitation, but he is also surprisingly tender in private, brushing hair from your face n tracing patterns on your skin, watching you sleep with quiet wonder because he cannot believe someone like you chose someone like him. Means accepting that his love is not simple and not always easy, because he carries trauma and darkness and a capacity for violence, but it also means being loved with a completeness and devotion that most people will never experience, he does not know how to love halfway. Is to be his anchor n his sanctuary, his reason, and in return he will give you every part of himself. Even the broken pieces and call you the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to him.

Being in a relationship with him as a woman means experiencing a partner who is unapologetically old-fashioned in the most charming way, as he has openly stated that he believes "a woman should be wooed and chased" and that men should take the lead in pursuing a romantic connection, while also being the kind of gentleman who stands up whenever a lady enters a room, a habit his director Guy Ritchie confirmed has been consistent throughout their time working together, and it means sharing a deeply private life with someone who fiercely protects his relationship from public speculation, as he demonstrated when he issued a rare public statement asking fans to stop gossiping because their "passion" was misplaced and caused harm to the people he cares about most, and it means enjoying simple, grounded moments together like kitchen dance parties with a bottle of wine rather than glamorous Hollywood outings, all while being with a man who has admitted that even he can be intimidated by a woman he truly wants to impress, revealing that when he first met someone he cared about he was thinking "don't mess this up, man, you've gotta play your cards exactly right."

Being in a relationship with him as a woman means experiencing a partner whose chaotic, joke-cracking public persona as Stray Kids' mood-maker gives way to a deeply introspective and emotionally sensitive soul in private, someone who openly admits that his ideal type is a person who can be the "big spoon" for him and shower him with affection and warm embraces because beneath the confident performer is a young man who genuinely craves tenderness and being held, and it means being with someone who processes his emotions and vulnerabilities through songwriting rather than direct confrontation, a habit he has carried since his trainee days when he felt like an "alien" trying to blend in and used music to organize his thoughts and connect with others, and it means navigating the complexities of a partner who is intensely observant and emotionally intelligent when he manages to quiet his own overthinking mind but who can also be guarded and reserved in group settings, allowing others to speak while he chooses his words purposefully and insightfully, all while knowing that when he does open up, he does so with raw honesty about love being a consuming and essential force, as he poured into tracks like volcano that describe relationships as mentally, physically, and emotionally consuming yet impossible to live without.

Being in a relationship with her means experiencing a partner who despite her ethereal and cinematic public persona, craves a love that is profoundly simple and grounded, having declared that she wanted to marry someone who believes love is enough because most of the people I met wanted Hollywood to be the third part in our relationship and she needed someone who wanted to plan to stay home with her, and it means being with someone who is fiercely proud and openly affectionate, as she demonstrated at Paris Fashion Week when she called out to fans "Isn't my husband so cute?" while her body language suggested proud ownership and a flirty attraction according to experts, and it means sharing a quiet, almost ritualistic intimacy that she calls parking-lot time, where the two of them spend hours just sitting in empty parking lots reading or talking in the car, a shared weirdness she treasures because you find another soul who feels the same way, all while being with a man who has a calm, strong presence and reassured her that he could handle the chaos of her world by telling her I work with alligators I have tough skin.

Being in a relationship with him means experiencing a partner who has openly described himself as having been a rather wild and restless character before love transformed him into a gentle soul, a man who has spoken with rare honesty about his own emotional evolution and the self-awareness that comes from learning where past relationships went wrong and who he might have been wrong for. It means being with someone who, after years of insisting that marriage does not make any difference to the commitment, eventually found himself so completely captivated that he described your first meeting with the romantic flourish of a man who had found his match, recalling the exact details of what you wore and the whimsical story you told him, a moment he called love at first sight before adding that these days, when he sleeps beside you, he wakes up in the middle of the night laughing.