The distinctive pattern of cracks on the surface of an old painting.

When you fall in love, at first you take your lover for a work of art; her visage a painting, her voice a melody, her quirks a curiosity. Then you meditate longer and gaze deeper into the art, and the brushstrokes, cracks, and faulty details start to show themselves and catch your attention, and maybe distress. But if you're still in love, even the cracks and paint flakes will look like craquelure and Persian mistakes to you—signatures of authenticity and beauty.

You may have noticed this in yourself: you fall in love with an olive-skinned brunette, and suddenly Venus herself has brown hair and a tanned complexion; you're enamored with a blue-eyed freckled girl, and freckles become the epitome of beauty.

أسَرتِ وحَرَّرتِ الفتى بجَمالِك
فليسَ بمَملوكٍ وليسَ بمالِك

تَحَرَّرَ من ظُلمِ الحِسانِ وإنْ غَدا
متى يَرَ حُسنًا قاسَهُ بِمِثالِك

— تميم

If we judge of love by the majority of its results it rather resembles hatred than friendship.

إنْ حَكَمنا على الحبِّ بنتائجه، فإنّه بالكُرهِ أشبَهَ مِنهُ بالصداقة.

There is real love just as there are real ghosts; every person speaks of it, few persons have seen it.

الحبُّ الحقيقي مِثلُ الأشباحِ الحقيقية؛ كلُّ الناسِ يتكلَّمون بها، قليلونَ جدًا هُم مَن رَأَوها رأيَ العَين.

It is more disgraceful to distrust than to be deceived by our friends.

مِنَ المُعيبِ أكثَر ألّا نَثِق بأصدقائِنا مِن أنْ نُخدَعَ مِن قِبَلِهم.

Obsessive thoughts (such as in anxiety disorders) can cause a behavior that looks quite similar to that of ADHD, even though the cognitive mechanisms are different. It's like how fever can be caused by both lymphoma and tonsillitis.

Imagine giving stimulants to someone with generalized anxiety disorder

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Déformation professionnelle (n.)
The tendency to look at things from the point of view of one's own profession or expertise.

It was originally used to describe bodily deformities caused by one's profession: If you look at skeletons of medieval archers, you'll see some deformity in their spine and unusually developed shoulder and arm bones due to the constant strain from drawing the bow. I also remember watching a professional arm wrestler being unable to fully extend his elbow due to all the training and muscle hypertrophy. It caused such a deformity that when he was asked to try the sport of climbing, at some point he failed, not for lack of strength, but because he couldn't extend his arms and reach out to high stones.

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One who desires to be or revels in being an object of envy could never deserve to be so.