The main mistake on a date
A few of my acquaintances have already lamented meeting guys like that and, naturally, they never saw each other again.
So, what scares away the hotties? 👇🏻
Talking only about how cool you are. And nope, it's not the stuff about how you graduated with honors, it's the stuff where you chat about how you put some asshole in his place🚫
✔️ Remember: never talk about how strong you are (morally, physically), time will come and she will see it and appreciate you more!
Choose easier topics for dating! I can drop a couple on you, are you curious? Hit 🔥
A few of my acquaintances have already lamented meeting guys like that and, naturally, they never saw each other again.
So, what scares away the hotties? 👇🏻
Talking only about how cool you are. And nope, it's not the stuff about how you graduated with honors, it's the stuff where you chat about how you put some asshole in his place🚫
✔️ Remember: never talk about how strong you are (morally, physically), time will come and she will see it and appreciate you more!
Choose easier topics for dating! I can drop a couple on you, are you curious? Hit 🔥
Are you devaluing yourself?
I'm talking specifically about those thoughts standing in the way of enjoying your accomplishments, which are:
- "That was easy, everyone can do that, I didn't do anything special."
- "Anyone can do that."
- "I can do better, I should have done it otherwise," etc.
And rather than positive emotions and motivation, you experience nothing at best, and a tiny bit of frustration at worst🥀
❗️When we devalue ourselves, we slide into a box of doubt, and boil in our anxieties, constantly pondering "did I do it right?"
Here are the stresses, the apathy, and the deterioration of our overall well-being. Is that what you want? I don't think so.
Praise yourself for the little victories, pay attention to any little thing you've handled-it will recharge your battery, and you'll quickly solve any problem on the road to your dreams🏆
I'm talking specifically about those thoughts standing in the way of enjoying your accomplishments, which are:
- "That was easy, everyone can do that, I didn't do anything special."
- "Anyone can do that."
- "I can do better, I should have done it otherwise," etc.
And rather than positive emotions and motivation, you experience nothing at best, and a tiny bit of frustration at worst🥀
❗️When we devalue ourselves, we slide into a box of doubt, and boil in our anxieties, constantly pondering "did I do it right?"
Here are the stresses, the apathy, and the deterioration of our overall well-being. Is that what you want? I don't think so.
Praise yourself for the little victories, pay attention to any little thing you've handled-it will recharge your battery, and you'll quickly solve any problem on the road to your dreams🏆
Gaze to conquer her
Either to devour her with a gaze or to stare thoughtfully anywhere but at her?
None of that, my friend!
If we're talking about conquering a hottie, then:
❌ don't turn on your most menacing stare of all time for the sake of looking brutal.
Try to smile during long eye contact, this gesture makes her seem friendly.
The girl has no need to look at the bridge of her nose. Look into her eyes! It helps to arouse her emotions: embarrassment or laughter! This is what we need🌹
Either to devour her with a gaze or to stare thoughtfully anywhere but at her?
None of that, my friend!
If we're talking about conquering a hottie, then:
❌ don't turn on your most menacing stare of all time for the sake of looking brutal.
Try to smile during long eye contact, this gesture makes her seem friendly.
The girl has no need to look at the bridge of her nose. Look into her eyes! It helps to arouse her emotions: embarrassment or laughter! This is what we need🌹
Major flaw in a man. Strong personal opinion.
When it comes to success and achieving goals, their biggest enemy is not being self-sufficient.
You can be smart, you can be creative, but that gets wiped into the dust under the weight of not being able to make decisions for yourself!
Lately I've begun to run into just such people a lot. They're in their 30s, and the person stiffens up before they can solve some minor chore.
▪️What this expresses:
- delaying things for lack of knowing what to do
- shifting responsibility
- procrastination
- waiting for tips from others
- not having one's own opinion, etc.
Better to make a mistake, but your own!
When it comes to success and achieving goals, their biggest enemy is not being self-sufficient.
You can be smart, you can be creative, but that gets wiped into the dust under the weight of not being able to make decisions for yourself!
Lately I've begun to run into just such people a lot. They're in their 30s, and the person stiffens up before they can solve some minor chore.
▪️What this expresses:
- delaying things for lack of knowing what to do
- shifting responsibility
- procrastination
- waiting for tips from others
- not having one's own opinion, etc.
Better to make a mistake, but your own!
Speaking of TED
⚡️Just one TED video a day keeps you compelling and broadens your horizons!
You can listen to them in transportation, during breakfast, and I sometimes even listen to them while showering😄
So let's just say I try to diversify my routine👌🏻
It helps to learn something new and useful & your knowledge base will noticeably expand🧠
⚡️Just one TED video a day keeps you compelling and broadens your horizons!
You can listen to them in transportation, during breakfast, and I sometimes even listen to them while showering😄
So let's just say I try to diversify my routine👌🏻
It helps to learn something new and useful & your knowledge base will noticeably expand🧠
Save time
Technology is progress! Not only of mankind, but also of you personally!
With the right apps, you can not only manage your time efficiently, but also get through tasks faster and get to the pleasant things👌🏻
- Google Shared Calendars or the TimeTree app is a digital event calendar that will keep you up-to-date on upcoming events and activities. Available on and notify others about them.
- Remember the milk is a free task management app. The advantage: it is compatible with various devices: cell phone, computer, Gmail, Outlook, etc.
- Focus@Will is an app with music that increases concentration. Ideal for those who have difficulty concentrating while studying, working, or reading.
Technology is progress! Not only of mankind, but also of you personally!
With the right apps, you can not only manage your time efficiently, but also get through tasks faster and get to the pleasant things👌🏻
- Google Shared Calendars or the TimeTree app is a digital event calendar that will keep you up-to-date on upcoming events and activities. Available on and notify others about them.
- Remember the milk is a free task management app. The advantage: it is compatible with various devices: cell phone, computer, Gmail, Outlook, etc.
- Focus@Will is an app with music that increases concentration. Ideal for those who have difficulty concentrating while studying, working, or reading.
Magic Word
And that's not work, my friend😁
If you wanna accomplish anything, there's only one way to do it - count on regularity!
Like, you can slave at the gym so hard that you can barely get your legs over after a workout, BUT if you do WITHOUT a certain schedule, all your efforts will go for naught!
❌ give in to a flash of unrestrained desire to act and quickly end up like a virgin at the sight of a woman's bra strap
✅ take small steps without much exhaustion to get the best results.
The best thing you can do is to exert as much effort as possible until the first minimal results, and then you will be motivated and you will realize that you are doing the right thing.
And that's not work, my friend😁
If you wanna accomplish anything, there's only one way to do it - count on regularity!
Like, you can slave at the gym so hard that you can barely get your legs over after a workout, BUT if you do WITHOUT a certain schedule, all your efforts will go for naught!
❌ give in to a flash of unrestrained desire to act and quickly end up like a virgin at the sight of a woman's bra strap
✅ take small steps without much exhaustion to get the best results.
The best thing you can do is to exert as much effort as possible until the first minimal results, and then you will be motivated and you will realize that you are doing the right thing.
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Strength in Sincerity
Ever notice how some people are TOTALLY uninhibited about their emotions, thereby winning over those around them?
That way others see that you are just as human and can sometimes make mistakes, and they subconsciously relax!
🚫 Remember: no mask with a fake smile or indifference! It's always noticeable to those around you and it works repulsively!
Ever notice how some people are TOTALLY uninhibited about their emotions, thereby winning over those around them?
That way others see that you are just as human and can sometimes make mistakes, and they subconsciously relax!
🚫 Remember: no mask with a fake smile or indifference! It's always noticeable to those around you and it works repulsively!
Well, should the assholes be put in their place?
Clutches on public transportation, the line at the store, and a bunch of other places where people think to voice their very valuable opinions are inevitable. Are they worth the attention❓
I had a girl who was incredibly positive and responsive, and she shared her secret with me👌🏻
✅Whenever someone snapped at her or made an inappropriate remark, she would respond with just one phrase: "I'm sorry for your bad mood" and walk away.
"Can you imagine how complicated and boring his life is that he said such a nasty thing to me?" - she said.
⚡️When you're happy, do you ignore other people's shortcomings enough to tell him so? NO!!!
Agree?
Clutches on public transportation, the line at the store, and a bunch of other places where people think to voice their very valuable opinions are inevitable. Are they worth the attention❓
I had a girl who was incredibly positive and responsive, and she shared her secret with me👌🏻
✅Whenever someone snapped at her or made an inappropriate remark, she would respond with just one phrase: "I'm sorry for your bad mood" and walk away.
"Can you imagine how complicated and boring his life is that he said such a nasty thing to me?" - she said.
⚡️When you're happy, do you ignore other people's shortcomings enough to tell him so? NO!!!
Agree?
Pick a moment to ask
That plays a key role, champ🏆
For a person to do what you want, just find the right time👌🏻
🔺When a person gets tired, they become more receptive to any information as their mental reserve of energy is depleted.
You're more likely to hear the next response, "I'll do it tomorrow," because he won't be willing to make any decisions at this point.
✅ And then it's a matter of honor! Most people try to keep their word, so we make sure that what we say coincides with what we do.
That plays a key role, champ🏆
For a person to do what you want, just find the right time👌🏻
🔺When a person gets tired, they become more receptive to any information as their mental reserve of energy is depleted.
You're more likely to hear the next response, "I'll do it tomorrow," because he won't be willing to make any decisions at this point.
✅ And then it's a matter of honor! Most people try to keep their word, so we make sure that what we say coincides with what we do.
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Strong Spirit and Beyond
When I feel like I'm about to get lightning bolts of anger coming out of my eyes, I often use my one and only purely male anti-stress!
⭕️ And it's an expander! Imagine the face of the asshole who ruined your mood and squeeze-squeeze the expansion pack😄
✅ And your nerves are stronger and your handshake is tougher!
When I feel like I'm about to get lightning bolts of anger coming out of my eyes, I often use my one and only purely male anti-stress!
⭕️ And it's an expander! Imagine the face of the asshole who ruined your mood and squeeze-squeeze the expansion pack😄
✅ And your nerves are stronger and your handshake is tougher!
Attribute of Confidence
Is confidence an innate quality? IT'S NOT!
And it can and should be nurtured! One should just think about the fact that a person's life is what they think about it and how they feel about themselves! That's what we work with👌🏻
Nope, I'm not suggesting you start every morning with the "I'm the best" mantra, though if it helps you, go for it!
❗️ And the root of all your insecurity is fixating on problems.
We're talking about a whole category of people who have a tendency to make even a little trouble into a whole world-wide disaster.
🚫This kind of self-deprecation lowers your self-esteem below the reference point and can lead to severe psychological problems in the future, be careful.
Is confidence an innate quality? IT'S NOT!
And it can and should be nurtured! One should just think about the fact that a person's life is what they think about it and how they feel about themselves! That's what we work with👌🏻
Nope, I'm not suggesting you start every morning with the "I'm the best" mantra, though if it helps you, go for it!
❗️ And the root of all your insecurity is fixating on problems.
We're talking about a whole category of people who have a tendency to make even a little trouble into a whole world-wide disaster.
🚫This kind of self-deprecation lowers your self-esteem below the reference point and can lead to severe psychological problems in the future, be careful.
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How to make someone like you
I won't beat around the bush, to make someone like you, you need to make them feel special⚡️
And for this you need a good pumping of your memory!
✅You have to memorize the name right away when you first meet him.
👉🏻This technique gives the person confidence that you singled him out and subconsciously gets more relaxed with you. Especially works on girls!
I won't beat around the bush, to make someone like you, you need to make them feel special⚡️
And for this you need a good pumping of your memory!
✅You have to memorize the name right away when you first meet him.
👉🏻This technique gives the person confidence that you singled him out and subconsciously gets more relaxed with you. Especially works on girls!
Top 4 topics for conversation on a first date (Part 1)
The key thing on a first date is to get as much information as possible! And make the conversation easy!
So, talk to your hottie:🔥
- Study or work. I think, this goes without saying. By asking about it, a man will show a woman his interest in her life. Tell her about your activities and plans, thus showing her your purposefulness and understanding of what you want from life.
- Animals. This topic will nicely define the girl as a person. Is she caring, what kind of animal she prefers, etc.
To be continued, champ🏅
The key thing on a first date is to get as much information as possible! And make the conversation easy!
So, talk to your hottie:🔥
- Study or work. I think, this goes without saying. By asking about it, a man will show a woman his interest in her life. Tell her about your activities and plans, thus showing her your purposefulness and understanding of what you want from life.
- Animals. This topic will nicely define the girl as a person. Is she caring, what kind of animal she prefers, etc.
To be continued, champ🏅
Top 4 topics of conversation on a first date (Part 2)
- Favorite food. Here's what you need so you know what restaurant to take her to and what to surprise her with! Girls love through the stomach, too! Here you can also ask: whether she likes to cook.
- Travel. A never-ending topic. Probably there isn't a person who wouldn't dream of traveling around different countries and cities.
👉🏻This conversation in any case will be emotional, heartfelt and pleasant for both interlocutors, you can even dream about traveling together in the future.
- Favorite food. Here's what you need so you know what restaurant to take her to and what to surprise her with! Girls love through the stomach, too! Here you can also ask: whether she likes to cook.
- Travel. A never-ending topic. Probably there isn't a person who wouldn't dream of traveling around different countries and cities.
👉🏻This conversation in any case will be emotional, heartfelt and pleasant for both interlocutors, you can even dream about traveling together in the future.
Awareness in all things
Are you facing a matter that you've been putting in a drawer for a long time and can't get to it? What if I told you that just a couple of questions would get you started?
- "What happens if I don't?"
Use all your imagination! Think in detail about all the horrible things that could happen in your life if you never get down to business.
- "What will change when I do this?"
This is where you focus on all the positive changes that will burst into your life when you finish the task at hand.
- "What's keeping me from doing it now?"
And now the big question that you might not find an answer to! So don't be lazy.
Are you facing a matter that you've been putting in a drawer for a long time and can't get to it? What if I told you that just a couple of questions would get you started?
- "What happens if I don't?"
Use all your imagination! Think in detail about all the horrible things that could happen in your life if you never get down to business.
- "What will change when I do this?"
This is where you focus on all the positive changes that will burst into your life when you finish the task at hand.
- "What's keeping me from doing it now?"
And now the big question that you might not find an answer to! So don't be lazy.
How to prevail in an argument?
Pretty simple. Start accusing your opponent of something.
➖"You just don't respect me!"
➖"Why are you raising your voice?!"
➖"You don't understand me!"
👉 The main thing I advise is to say these kinds of phrases as calmly as possible. Well and the cherry on the cake is your beautiful exit in English, that is, just after the phrase, turn around and walk away. And no, you won't act like a fool.
Pretty simple. Start accusing your opponent of something.
➖"You just don't respect me!"
➖"Why are you raising your voice?!"
➖"You don't understand me!"
👉 The main thing I advise is to say these kinds of phrases as calmly as possible. Well and the cherry on the cake is your beautiful exit in English, that is, just after the phrase, turn around and walk away. And no, you won't act like a fool.
Taking the bait
Who hasn't fallen for such scams, just to prove that he can?
Well, everyone has been caught by this kind of bait, even me.
Except that even this manipulation can be presented in a different way and in such a way that people fall for it without even blinking an eye.
"Look, I don't think you're up to the job, why don't you ask someone else?"
And that would just be a challenge. And how do you prove to everybody that you can after all⁉️
So you can start practicing at home, and then you can catch bigger fish.
Who hasn't fallen for such scams, just to prove that he can?
Well, everyone has been caught by this kind of bait, even me.
Except that even this manipulation can be presented in a different way and in such a way that people fall for it without even blinking an eye.
"Look, I don't think you're up to the job, why don't you ask someone else?"
And that would just be a challenge. And how do you prove to everybody that you can after all⁉️
So you can start practicing at home, and then you can catch bigger fish.
Watch the position of the head carefully!
If a person tilts or turns their head when asked a direct question, it most likely indicates that they are lying.
I say "most likely" cause it's not always a reliable indicator. More often than not, the head tilts back or turns to the side just before the question.
❗️ But also, don't forget to watch for facial expressions.
If a person tilts or turns their head when asked a direct question, it most likely indicates that they are lying.
I say "most likely" cause it's not always a reliable indicator. More often than not, the head tilts back or turns to the side just before the question.
❗️ But also, don't forget to watch for facial expressions.
Three steps forward
Thinking FORWARD is a great skill, not only in business matters. Consider every situation at least three steps ahead. It allows you to make the right decisions, avoiding unnecessary risks.
How to develop❓
CHESSES.
Ever wondered why many great men spent their leisure time studying the chess battles of the great grandmasters?
That's how they learned to think three steps ahead❗️
Thinking FORWARD is a great skill, not only in business matters. Consider every situation at least three steps ahead. It allows you to make the right decisions, avoiding unnecessary risks.
How to develop❓
CHESSES.
Ever wondered why many great men spent their leisure time studying the chess battles of the great grandmasters?
That's how they learned to think three steps ahead❗️
Keep going
Immediately after voicing something important or the information to convey to the interlocutor, move on to another topic.
You do this to prevent him from comprehending and confronting the received information.
➡️Oftentimes I use a phrase like: "let's not stop" and move on to another topic.
Immediately after voicing something important or the information to convey to the interlocutor, move on to another topic.
You do this to prevent him from comprehending and confronting the received information.
➡️Oftentimes I use a phrase like: "let's not stop" and move on to another topic.