i wonder what happened to the weird art channel. it no longer has a public link so i cant even link it, and apparently the owner is no longer on telegram. it was a cool channel.
mini rant because i feel like it
last week, the first day i had proper class, the "tell us your name and why you're here studying this and what you hope to do in the future" part happened
my replies were kinda boring i guess. "because it is something that i can physically do and doesnt require to interact with ppl (because deafness)"; and "actually this is my plan B. my plan A is to get a nice disability pension and not have to work"
what the fucj is wrong with ppl tho. i do not understand why "i dont want to *have to* work" is such a mockable thing, but even that, i can ignore it. but there is always someone, usually multiple someones, who start the "society is going to shit because of ppl like you". and i have to wonder, whats those ppl's problem? what part of "disability pension didnt they hear? its always the same everywhere
so, for fucks sake, when you dont have any fukem idea of what someone else's problems are (aka: always, unless you're intimate with that person), shut up, please. because i dont even bother to explain "well i am fucking disabled josh, i literally can not work, so what the fuck else do you expect me to do, you ridiculous smartass?" but it is draining every damn time that everyone assumes that i cant be "disabled enough" and that therefore im just lying and/or lazy. bonus points because being called "cancer of this society" is also kinda dehumanizing
boi do i wish that ppl would shut the fuck up sometimes. it feels like a waste, spending the ever shortening time that i have left when i can hear things, listening to cretins instead of listening to nature or to friends' voices
last week, the first day i had proper class, the "tell us your name and why you're here studying this and what you hope to do in the future" part happened
my replies were kinda boring i guess. "because it is something that i can physically do and doesnt require to interact with ppl (because deafness)"; and "actually this is my plan B. my plan A is to get a nice disability pension and not have to work"
what the fucj is wrong with ppl tho. i do not understand why "i dont want to *have to* work" is such a mockable thing, but even that, i can ignore it. but there is always someone, usually multiple someones, who start the "society is going to shit because of ppl like you". and i have to wonder, whats those ppl's problem? what part of "disability pension didnt they hear? its always the same everywhere
so, for fucks sake, when you dont have any fukem idea of what someone else's problems are (aka: always, unless you're intimate with that person), shut up, please. because i dont even bother to explain "well i am fucking disabled josh, i literally can not work, so what the fuck else do you expect me to do, you ridiculous smartass?" but it is draining every damn time that everyone assumes that i cant be "disabled enough" and that therefore im just lying and/or lazy. bonus points because being called "cancer of this society" is also kinda dehumanizing
boi do i wish that ppl would shut the fuck up sometimes. it feels like a waste, spending the ever shortening time that i have left when i can hear things, listening to cretins instead of listening to nature or to friends' voices
Forwarded from Basic Fucking Kindness
vegan, socialization
"darren: why would you want to eat things that look and taste like meat if you're a vegan, why not just eat meat?"
"darren: why would you want to eat things that look and taste like meat if you're a vegan, why not just eat meat?"
Forwarded from Basic Fucking Kindness
lgbt, discrimination, socialization
"best thing i've ever heard about labels: as any cat will tell you, putting yourself in a box is completely different from someone else putting you in a box"
"best thing i've ever heard about labels: as any cat will tell you, putting yourself in a box is completely different from someone else putting you in a box"
Forwarded from Basic Fucking Kindness
socialization, abuse
"not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring.
some of them love us dearly."
"not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring.
some of them love us dearly."
Forwarded from Basic Fucking Kindness
kindness, socialization, self compassion
"nothing i've read has changed me more than "you do people a favor by accepting their help" "
"nothing i've read has changed me more than "you do people a favor by accepting their help" "
Forwarded from Basic Fucking Kindness
self compassion
"this is your daily reminder to not be ashamed of making your life easy for yourself"
"this is your daily reminder to not be ashamed of making your life easy for yourself"
Forwarded from Basic Fucking Kindness
self compassion, socialization
"when you're not used to being confident, confidence feels like arrogance
when you're used to being passive, assertiveness feels like aggression
when you're not used to getting your needs met, prioritizing yourself feels selfish
your control zone is not a good benchmark"
"when you're not used to being confident, confidence feels like arrogance
when you're used to being passive, assertiveness feels like aggression
when you're not used to getting your needs met, prioritizing yourself feels selfish
your control zone is not a good benchmark"
Forwarded from Basic Fucking Kindness
self compassion, intrusive thoughts
"if courage isnt the absence of fear but doing the right thing regardless of it, maybe confidence isnt the absence of insecurity but knowing you have real worth despite it
[..]
by this same token, maybe goodness isnt the absence of bad thoughts or impulses, but the conscious choice to behave according to your moral ideas in spite of them"
"if courage isnt the absence of fear but doing the right thing regardless of it, maybe confidence isnt the absence of insecurity but knowing you have real worth despite it
[..]
by this same token, maybe goodness isnt the absence of bad thoughts or impulses, but the conscious choice to behave according to your moral ideas in spite of them"