now enjoy this soft "that time i tried to explain a 4d dream i had to a fren" quick drawing
Trans/NB Memes π³οΈββ§οΈ
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i do this in spanish and lemme tell you, it is hard sometimes. doable for sure, easier when you get used. but at times it is hard.
i did speak without any gender with/about everyone, but it was getting too annoying so i started to talk that way only about myself, and when in doubt about someone, with no limitations when speaking with/about someone else if there was no reason for said limitations
problem is that i got too used to talk genderlessly and now when a cisnt fren needs validation, i fail to do so because i find it hard to speak with gender lol. problem nΒΊ 2 of this is: i started to say "bruh" in an attempt to validate a transmasc, and now "bruh" is part of my vocabulary even when not talking with him
i did speak without any gender with/about everyone, but it was getting too annoying so i started to talk that way only about myself, and when in doubt about someone, with no limitations when speaking with/about someone else if there was no reason for said limitations
problem is that i got too used to talk genderlessly and now when a cisnt fren needs validation, i fail to do so because i find it hard to speak with gender lol. problem nΒΊ 2 of this is: i started to say "bruh" in an attempt to validate a transmasc, and now "bruh" is part of my vocabulary even when not talking with him
anyway moral of the story is "yes it is very much doable to talk without gender in spanish (it is easier if you are okay with not caring about what other ppl think of you. i do that.)"
for anyone wondering yes, i was being productive and cleaning my room, and yes the moment i saw the notebook my productiveness fell to exactly zero, and no im not sure when it will return
unscheduled reminder that if you are either considering wearing two binders/exercising in a binder/sleeping in one, or already doing any of those: no
