25 things i learned by 25

1. The way you talk to yourself in your head is SO important than anything else in life.
2. When you take ownership of everything that happens to you, and live life like its 100% in your control, you feel happier.
3. Pouring fat down the sink will clog it.
4. inversion is a powerful mental tool that breaks you out of downward spirals.
5. if you cant say something bad about your group, or you cant say something good about the other side, you're brainwashed.
6. Everything in life is negotiable, and the more questions you ask, the better off you'll be.
7. most people dont care about the code, they do care about the experience though
8. your upbringing is not your fault but choosing not to fix it after you have grown up is entirely your fault
9. being mean to some people is okay, needed even, you cant make everyone happy and the more you try, the more you fail at keeping anyone happy. choose your people
10. most of what you want is behind about 2-4 weeks of uncomfortability and unsureness. it gets easier after then.
11. get a bidet, feels much cleaner than toilet paper
12. you dont rise to the level of your motivation, you fall to the level of your systems ( atomic habits ? )
13. its easier to be a person that does x than to try to do x every day ( doing something always is easier than the mental effort of convincing yourself to do it )
14. nobody has it all together, literally on every scale of importance
15. its okay to put something you bought and didnt like in the trash instead of suffering forever with your shitty choice.
16. respect physics , we are a sack of flesh taped together on bones. and anything that has an SI unit that goes to mega and killo can kill you. as a former live leak watcher
17. nobody cares about ipv6, adoption is important than technical elegance
18. you can fix most things with a screwdriver set, duct tape, google & a soldering iron. you cant be poor and also not know how to fix things, pick a struggle.
19. gullible is not written on the ceiling
20. you shouldnt avoid something because its a cliché, sometimes they're actually a cliché because they're proven to work for a lot of people
21. dont take people at their words, take them at their actions
22. read more books, the better vocabulary you have, the harder you can roast people in random irrelevant internet chats.
23. dont wait until 2 days left till 25 to start writing your list of 25 things i learnt before 25
24. go to hackathons, most devs dont even think about business.
25. life is a beautiful experiment you take to define what you want yours to be.

season 2 episode 5 here we go