“You need to set more realistic goals.”
How many times do you hear shit like this?
If it's often.You're doing something right.
But most people will take this criticism to heart, and step back in line.They let people who are incapable of thinking outside the bounds of an average life affect their goals and dreams.
They start thinking smaller and more "attainable” Which leads to small actions with little urgency.
Which in turn ends up creating their reality. When you set big goals for yourself. You not only free your mind to see, think, and execute on bigger things in life. You take bigger actions. You’ll begin to create new realities of what’s possible perpetually. Your dreams will get bigger. Your wins will get bigger. Your fulfillment and all the good things in life will get bigger.
Trust me … I’m right on this:
If you dream of average shit, you’ll get average shit.
Don’t get caught up in the mirage of setting “realistic” and “attainable” goals
It only feeds your habit of thinking and producing very little.
Dream fucking massive.
Take action on those dreams day by day by day
You will get so much further and save yourself so many problems by thinking and living this way.
Every single person who has accomplished anything worth mentioning were called crazy for having their dreams.
Every one.
They just chose to not listen
How many times do you hear shit like this?
If it's often.You're doing something right.
But most people will take this criticism to heart, and step back in line.They let people who are incapable of thinking outside the bounds of an average life affect their goals and dreams.
They start thinking smaller and more "attainable” Which leads to small actions with little urgency.
Which in turn ends up creating their reality. When you set big goals for yourself. You not only free your mind to see, think, and execute on bigger things in life. You take bigger actions. You’ll begin to create new realities of what’s possible perpetually. Your dreams will get bigger. Your wins will get bigger. Your fulfillment and all the good things in life will get bigger.
Trust me … I’m right on this:
If you dream of average shit, you’ll get average shit.
Don’t get caught up in the mirage of setting “realistic” and “attainable” goals
It only feeds your habit of thinking and producing very little.
Dream fucking massive.
Take action on those dreams day by day by day
You will get so much further and save yourself so many problems by thinking and living this way.
Every single person who has accomplished anything worth mentioning were called crazy for having their dreams.
Every one.
They just chose to not listen
Ever notice how it's always the same people that continuous bad shit happens to?
It's always the same people talking about how they got
cheated.
Lied to.
Screwed over.
Unfairly treated.
And blame everything but themselves for where they are. Over & over & over again.
These people would have you believe that they are the unluckiest people on earth, and present themselves as otherwise GREAT people to try to make you feel sorry for them.
Until you go back and really examine their decisions.Then you see the lazy, Unethical, Corner-cutting Short-term decisions that are revolved around what's best for them "right now".
On the other hand...
Ever notice how people who win consistently in life never complain about these same things happening to them?
Why is that? Do you really think bad things never happen to these people?
The fact is, the same things the victims cry about...
Winners thrive on.
They understand that by overcoming these struggles, they will be stronger and more prepared.
Winning is an attitude and a perspective.
You have a choice:
Keep living a weak, bullshit life that will be insignificant by ALL standards.
Or don't.
Either way...
You get what you deserve
It's always the same people talking about how they got
cheated.
Lied to.
Screwed over.
Unfairly treated.
And blame everything but themselves for where they are. Over & over & over again.
These people would have you believe that they are the unluckiest people on earth, and present themselves as otherwise GREAT people to try to make you feel sorry for them.
Until you go back and really examine their decisions.Then you see the lazy, Unethical, Corner-cutting Short-term decisions that are revolved around what's best for them "right now".
On the other hand...
Ever notice how people who win consistently in life never complain about these same things happening to them?
Why is that? Do you really think bad things never happen to these people?
The fact is, the same things the victims cry about...
Winners thrive on.
They understand that by overcoming these struggles, they will be stronger and more prepared.
Winning is an attitude and a perspective.
You have a choice:
Keep living a weak, bullshit life that will be insignificant by ALL standards.
Or don't.
Either way...
You get what you deserve
Quit asking what's in it for you.
This is the mindset that will keep you from getting anywhere you want to go in life.
Real winners understand that if they truly want to make it about themselves. They have to make it about others first.
While most people are running around trying to take everything they can for themselves.
Be the person who gives.
Be the person who makes the people around you better.
Be the person who contributes everything you can to any given situation.
Selflessness won't only make you a more valuable asset to society.
But it will also lead you to opportunities to create a better life for yourself.
Start giving.There is no better way to create value in yourself and experience true happiness in life.
This is the mindset that will keep you from getting anywhere you want to go in life.
Real winners understand that if they truly want to make it about themselves. They have to make it about others first.
While most people are running around trying to take everything they can for themselves.
Be the person who gives.
Be the person who makes the people around you better.
Be the person who contributes everything you can to any given situation.
Selflessness won't only make you a more valuable asset to society.
But it will also lead you to opportunities to create a better life for yourself.
Start giving.There is no better way to create value in yourself and experience true happiness in life.
Most people never master anything in their life because of their ego.
They are so embarrassed to be seen by others doing something they are bad at.That they never try anything new.
Never learn anything new.
Never progress.
And never master anything.
Don’t waste your life because you are too fragile to fail.
They are so embarrassed to be seen by others doing something they are bad at.That they never try anything new.
Never learn anything new.
Never progress.
And never master anything.
Don’t waste your life because you are too fragile to fail.
Forwarded from Pavel Durov
The mind is our most powerful tool. There's nothing it can't do. According to numerous studies, it actively generates new ideas even when we rest or do nothing. Often we can come up with solutions to difficult problems simply after a full night's sleep.
Just as our physical state depends on what we feed to our bodies, our mental state depends on the quality of information we feed to our brain. If we nourish our brain with real-life data that allows it to solve fundamental problems, it will process this data in the background and come up with unexpected solutions.
It is unfortunate that most people prefer to feed their minds not with real-life facts that can let us change the world, but with random Netflix series or TikTok videos. On a deep level, our brain can't tell fiction from reality, so the abundance of digital entertainment keeps our subconscious mind busy producing solutions to problems that do not exist.
To be creative and productive, we must first clear from our minds the sticky mud of irrelevant content with which “recommendation algorithms” flood it on a daily basis. If we are to reclaim our creative freedom, we must first take back control of our minds.
Just as our physical state depends on what we feed to our bodies, our mental state depends on the quality of information we feed to our brain. If we nourish our brain with real-life data that allows it to solve fundamental problems, it will process this data in the background and come up with unexpected solutions.
It is unfortunate that most people prefer to feed their minds not with real-life facts that can let us change the world, but with random Netflix series or TikTok videos. On a deep level, our brain can't tell fiction from reality, so the abundance of digital entertainment keeps our subconscious mind busy producing solutions to problems that do not exist.
To be creative and productive, we must first clear from our minds the sticky mud of irrelevant content with which “recommendation algorithms” flood it on a daily basis. If we are to reclaim our creative freedom, we must first take back control of our minds.
If you go to bed tonight and you didn’t intentionally seek new information, you can forget about ever changing your life for the better.
You will not change your beliefs if you do not get new information, and information is EVERYWHERE!
Just make a decision that every day you will go out and seek new information, that can be reading 10-30 pages a day or listening to a podcast, doing anything that will give you practical information.
You do that for 60,90,120 days in a row, I promise you’ll be a different human being, you won’t just be different you will be better
And the information you got will cause you to think and once you start thinking, that’s when the magic happens 🪄
Then your only priority becomes whatever happens DONT BREAK THE CHAIN
You will not change your beliefs if you do not get new information, and information is EVERYWHERE!
Just make a decision that every day you will go out and seek new information, that can be reading 10-30 pages a day or listening to a podcast, doing anything that will give you practical information.
You do that for 60,90,120 days in a row, I promise you’ll be a different human being, you won’t just be different you will be better
And the information you got will cause you to think and once you start thinking, that’s when the magic happens 🪄
Then your only priority becomes whatever happens DONT BREAK THE CHAIN
Build people up.
They will build you up in return.
You might run across some shit people and some shit situations...
Everyone does...
But it pays off in the long run.
Not in money either.
In fulfillment.
In friendships.
In experiences.
In life.
Build people up.
It's the best long-term investment you'll ever make.
They will build you up in return.
You might run across some shit people and some shit situations...
Everyone does...
But it pays off in the long run.
Not in money either.
In fulfillment.
In friendships.
In experiences.
In life.
Build people up.
It's the best long-term investment you'll ever make.
I want you to win
Even if you don’t want the same for me.
If you really want the same success in your life that you see other people enjoying
You have to wish them well.
You have to be clapping for them as hard as you can.
And not just saying that to appear great in front of other people, you have to feel it in your heart.
You have to live that shit.
Whatever you feel in your heart for others
Is exactly what you will get in return.
Let me repeat that
NOT WHAT YOU SAY.
IT’S WHAT YOU FEEL.
The Universe knows your intentions and gives you exactly that back in the long run.
So, ask yourself
How do you feel when you see other people succeeding?
Work on it.
Even if you don’t want the same for me.
If you really want the same success in your life that you see other people enjoying
You have to wish them well.
You have to be clapping for them as hard as you can.
And not just saying that to appear great in front of other people, you have to feel it in your heart.
You have to live that shit.
Whatever you feel in your heart for others
Is exactly what you will get in return.
Let me repeat that
NOT WHAT YOU SAY.
IT’S WHAT YOU FEEL.
The Universe knows your intentions and gives you exactly that back in the long run.
So, ask yourself
How do you feel when you see other people succeeding?
Work on it.
Do you know what the “Bystander Effect” is?
It's the psychological theory that people are less likely to help someone in need or fix a problem when other people are present.
Most people live their lives as bystanders.
They see a problem and think
"I don't need to do this because someone else will take care of it."
That's why most people never make any progress in life.
They walk over pieces of trash they see on the ground.
They skip out on the extra tasks at their job
All because it's "not their responsibility."
Successful people address these situations differently.
They see them as opportunities to build discipline and make themselves more valuable.
Ask yourself.
Are you living your life as a bystander.
Or are you seizing every opportunity you come across?
Only losers pawn responsibility onto others.
Winners accept responsibility for everything to build their skillset.
Once you learn to correct this habit...
You'll be shocked at how quickly your life will start to turn around.
It's the psychological theory that people are less likely to help someone in need or fix a problem when other people are present.
Most people live their lives as bystanders.
They see a problem and think
"I don't need to do this because someone else will take care of it."
That's why most people never make any progress in life.
They walk over pieces of trash they see on the ground.
They skip out on the extra tasks at their job
All because it's "not their responsibility."
Successful people address these situations differently.
They see them as opportunities to build discipline and make themselves more valuable.
Ask yourself.
Are you living your life as a bystander.
Or are you seizing every opportunity you come across?
Only losers pawn responsibility onto others.
Winners accept responsibility for everything to build their skillset.
Once you learn to correct this habit...
You'll be shocked at how quickly your life will start to turn around.
You think small
and you act even smaller.
This is why things aren’t materializing for you.
Period.
Let me give you some advice
Whatever goals you have
Scratch them off
and make them 100x bigger.
Massive goals require massive action.
Massive action leads to massive goals.
It’s a perpetual cycle.
It’s gonna be difficult when you jump in
but you’ll acclimate.
That fear of doing hard shit is what keeps people from ever jumping in the cycle.
So would you rather be who you are and where you are currently forever
Or would you rather make yourself uncomfortable now?
Something to think about.
and you act even smaller.
This is why things aren’t materializing for you.
Period.
Let me give you some advice
Whatever goals you have
Scratch them off
and make them 100x bigger.
Massive goals require massive action.
Massive action leads to massive goals.
It’s a perpetual cycle.
It’s gonna be difficult when you jump in
but you’ll acclimate.
That fear of doing hard shit is what keeps people from ever jumping in the cycle.
So would you rather be who you are and where you are currently forever
Or would you rather make yourself uncomfortable now?
Something to think about.
You now see life and the world so much more differently than you ever have. And at times you get frustrated that you’re not further down the path of where you want to be, but you can’t ignore the fact that you spent years running in the opposite direction.
The most important thing you had to do was make a turnaround. Which you’ve done. Now we’re in the process of building momentum the right way. The fulfilling way.
Your environment will continue to change as a reflection of where you are now. In the meantime, give yourself credit for being in a position to live a life you never deemed possible.
You stepped out your comfort zone and not only changed the chapter, but picked up an entirely new story.
The most important thing you had to do was make a turnaround. Which you’ve done. Now we’re in the process of building momentum the right way. The fulfilling way.
Your environment will continue to change as a reflection of where you are now. In the meantime, give yourself credit for being in a position to live a life you never deemed possible.
You stepped out your comfort zone and not only changed the chapter, but picked up an entirely new story.
Average people think that time will make their problems go away
They think with the passage of time, their pain will magically vanish, so they never take action and just wait for things to get better.
That’s not how champions operate.
When champions face problems, they see them as opportunities to get better & stronger and they address them head-on
Every fucking time.
This in turn makes their problems and their pain become insignificant.
They understand they cannot shy away from the pain.
They understand they cannot ignore the struggles
They understand that the hardships are the perfect opportunities to level up.
If you focus on developing your skillset and face problems head-on what seems to be extremely painful today will be child’s play for you soon.
That’s how champions keep winning.
They think with the passage of time, their pain will magically vanish, so they never take action and just wait for things to get better.
That’s not how champions operate.
When champions face problems, they see them as opportunities to get better & stronger and they address them head-on
Every fucking time.
This in turn makes their problems and their pain become insignificant.
They understand they cannot shy away from the pain.
They understand they cannot ignore the struggles
They understand that the hardships are the perfect opportunities to level up.
If you focus on developing your skillset and face problems head-on what seems to be extremely painful today will be child’s play for you soon.
That’s how champions keep winning.