12 steps from Earl Nightingale you can implement right now to change your life !
1 - it is our attitude at the beginning of our task more than anything will affect its successful outcome
2 - it is our attitude toward life which will determine life’s attitude towards us
3 - we are interdependent, it is impossible to succeed without others and it’s our attitude towards others which will determine their attitude towards us
4 - before a person can achieve the kind of life he wants he must first become that kind of individual, they must think, act, talk and walk and conduct themselves as the person they wish to become
5 - the higher you go in any organisation the better will be the attitude you will find
6 - your mind can only hold one thought at a time and since there’s nothing to gain from being negative, hold positive thoughts
7 - the deepest craving in human beings is to be needed, feel important and appreciated, give it to them and they will return it to you.
8 - look for the best in new ideas as someone said I’ve never met a person I couldn’t learn something from
9 - don’t waste valuable time broadcasting personal problems, it can not help you and it definitely won’t help others
10 - don’t talk about your health unless it’s good
11 - radiate the attitude of well-being, of confidence, of a person who knows where they are going this will inspire those around you and you’ll find that good things start happening to you
12 - for the next 30 days treat anyone you come in contact with as the most important person on earth, if you do it for 30 days you’ll do it for the rest of your life
1 - it is our attitude at the beginning of our task more than anything will affect its successful outcome
2 - it is our attitude toward life which will determine life’s attitude towards us
3 - we are interdependent, it is impossible to succeed without others and it’s our attitude towards others which will determine their attitude towards us
4 - before a person can achieve the kind of life he wants he must first become that kind of individual, they must think, act, talk and walk and conduct themselves as the person they wish to become
5 - the higher you go in any organisation the better will be the attitude you will find
6 - your mind can only hold one thought at a time and since there’s nothing to gain from being negative, hold positive thoughts
7 - the deepest craving in human beings is to be needed, feel important and appreciated, give it to them and they will return it to you.
8 - look for the best in new ideas as someone said I’ve never met a person I couldn’t learn something from
9 - don’t waste valuable time broadcasting personal problems, it can not help you and it definitely won’t help others
10 - don’t talk about your health unless it’s good
11 - radiate the attitude of well-being, of confidence, of a person who knows where they are going this will inspire those around you and you’ll find that good things start happening to you
12 - for the next 30 days treat anyone you come in contact with as the most important person on earth, if you do it for 30 days you’ll do it for the rest of your life
You are your biggest enemy. To win in life you have to win the battle against the weakness that live in your brain. Once you win that battle.. winning anywhere else won’t be a problem
If you are out there putting in the work to be better I'm talking about the real work. not the fake social media hype "hustle" I'm talking about the work nobody sees or claps for. I'm talking about the work that makes you feel like a fucking outcast. I'm talking about the work that everyone else thinks you're crazy for doing.
If that's you...
I respect you.
Tremendously.
I'd like to remind you that what you are "missing out on" now is not a sacrifice. It's an investment that will be the biggest return on any investment you could make.
Keep going…
It's worth it
If you are out there putting in the work to be better I'm talking about the real work. not the fake social media hype "hustle" I'm talking about the work nobody sees or claps for. I'm talking about the work that makes you feel like a fucking outcast. I'm talking about the work that everyone else thinks you're crazy for doing.
If that's you...
I respect you.
Tremendously.
I'd like to remind you that what you are "missing out on" now is not a sacrifice. It's an investment that will be the biggest return on any investment you could make.
Keep going…
It's worth it
“In today's world, most people are so consumed with searching for the hot stock, the new cryptocurrency, or some other quick-flip money hack…
NONE of which have a guaranteed return by the way...
But when it comes to the most important investment they could be making on a daily basis...
They aren't doing shit.
You want to know the best investment you can make in your life?
It's YOU.
The only investment that is guaranteed to give you a return...
The only investment that can actually help you gain financial freedom...
The only investment that can influence your happiness and success in life...
Is the investment you make in yourself.
Here's the problem with that…
It's not glamorous.
Investing in yourself is a lifelong commitment to learning and developing the skills and discipline to fucking win.
It's a process that requires consistency over a long period of time to see significant change.
What if I told you that your life could be anything you want it to be if you dedicated the next 10+ years to becoming the best version of yourself possible?
Because it can be...
But if you can't take 30 minutes out of your day to read or consume new information to better yourself...
Don't expect anything more than what you have right now.
Remember this...
Your investment portfolio won't build the life of your dreams…
Only YOU can.”
NONE of which have a guaranteed return by the way...
But when it comes to the most important investment they could be making on a daily basis...
They aren't doing shit.
You want to know the best investment you can make in your life?
It's YOU.
The only investment that is guaranteed to give you a return...
The only investment that can actually help you gain financial freedom...
The only investment that can influence your happiness and success in life...
Is the investment you make in yourself.
Here's the problem with that…
It's not glamorous.
Investing in yourself is a lifelong commitment to learning and developing the skills and discipline to fucking win.
It's a process that requires consistency over a long period of time to see significant change.
What if I told you that your life could be anything you want it to be if you dedicated the next 10+ years to becoming the best version of yourself possible?
Because it can be...
But if you can't take 30 minutes out of your day to read or consume new information to better yourself...
Don't expect anything more than what you have right now.
Remember this...
Your investment portfolio won't build the life of your dreams…
Only YOU can.”
Work hard for 4 years and have fun for the rest of your life or have fun for 4 years and work hard the rest of you life
Commit to doing something with 100% effort...
Or don't do it at all...
The mentality of “I’ll give it a try” is for weak people…
Really, it's just a way to justify their lack of effort and protect their ego when they fail.
The first time they face any resistance, these people fall back in line and say something like this...
"I guess it just wasn't meant for me."
Bullshit.
If you really want something with your heart and soul, you'll see it through to the end, regardless of the challenges.
“Trying” is for losers...
Winners do.
They might have setbacks…
They might have challenges…
They might have days where they want to quit…
…but they don't.
It’s that simple.
Or don't do it at all...
The mentality of “I’ll give it a try” is for weak people…
Really, it's just a way to justify their lack of effort and protect their ego when they fail.
The first time they face any resistance, these people fall back in line and say something like this...
"I guess it just wasn't meant for me."
Bullshit.
If you really want something with your heart and soul, you'll see it through to the end, regardless of the challenges.
“Trying” is for losers...
Winners do.
They might have setbacks…
They might have challenges…
They might have days where they want to quit…
…but they don't.
It’s that simple.
Don't get so caught up in the past...
It's history.
No matter what you do...
You can't change it.
So quit wasting your effort and energy worrying about it.
Instead…
Take note of the things you did right so you can replicate the wins...
And take note of the things you did wrong so you can avoid making the same mistakes again.
It's that simple.
Shift your focus to the things you can do right now.
Even though you can't control your past...
The actions you take today will determine your future.
It's history.
No matter what you do...
You can't change it.
So quit wasting your effort and energy worrying about it.
Instead…
Take note of the things you did right so you can replicate the wins...
And take note of the things you did wrong so you can avoid making the same mistakes again.
It's that simple.
Shift your focus to the things you can do right now.
Even though you can't control your past...
The actions you take today will determine your future.
“Most people live their life in a reactive state.
They have no plan...
They have no goals...
They have no critical tasks to complete on a daily basis...
…and haven't thought about what they want their life to look like.
So these people live their lives like a ping pong ball … bouncing around from thing to thing with no control over where they end up.
Then they wonder why they never make any progress.
The big picture you create for your life will determine your daily routine.
When an artist is creating a new painting, they don't just start painting and see what happens...
They form an idea of what they want, then pick up the brush.
Your life is no different.
You need to have an idea of what you want so you can start working toward it.
When you have a vision, and you break it down into tasks that you need to accomplish on a daily basis to make it happen...
You're going to start living actively instead of reactively.
Make a plan...
Decide what's going to help you see that plan through to the end…
Then execute the plan to turn your vision into reality.”
They have no plan...
They have no goals...
They have no critical tasks to complete on a daily basis...
…and haven't thought about what they want their life to look like.
So these people live their lives like a ping pong ball … bouncing around from thing to thing with no control over where they end up.
Then they wonder why they never make any progress.
The big picture you create for your life will determine your daily routine.
When an artist is creating a new painting, they don't just start painting and see what happens...
They form an idea of what they want, then pick up the brush.
Your life is no different.
You need to have an idea of what you want so you can start working toward it.
When you have a vision, and you break it down into tasks that you need to accomplish on a daily basis to make it happen...
You're going to start living actively instead of reactively.
Make a plan...
Decide what's going to help you see that plan through to the end…
Then execute the plan to turn your vision into reality.”
Are you hoping that the people around you will win…
Or are you hoping that they’ll fail … so that you can somehow succeed as a result?
I'm not talking about what you say to others...
I'm talking about what you truly feel in your heart.
Wishing for others to win is the best way to win yourself.
Read that 1,000 times over until those words are permanently engrained in your brain.
What you wish on others, you wish on yourself...
That's how the universe works.
So do you actually want others to win?
Not just in your words…but in your heart…
Because once you do...
Your entire life will change
Or are you hoping that they’ll fail … so that you can somehow succeed as a result?
I'm not talking about what you say to others...
I'm talking about what you truly feel in your heart.
Wishing for others to win is the best way to win yourself.
Read that 1,000 times over until those words are permanently engrained in your brain.
What you wish on others, you wish on yourself...
That's how the universe works.
So do you actually want others to win?
Not just in your words…but in your heart…
Because once you do...
Your entire life will change
Confidence is something you must develop on your own.
You aren't born with it...
You don't inherit it from others...
You can't buy it...
You don't deserve it...
It has to be earned through daily execution.
The more you execute...
The more challenges you face and overcome...
The more confidence you will cultivate.
This is a non-stop, repetitive process that will take you YEARS...
But I can guarantee you this with 100% certainty...
It's worth it.
You aren't born with it...
You don't inherit it from others...
You can't buy it...
You don't deserve it...
It has to be earned through daily execution.
The more you execute...
The more challenges you face and overcome...
The more confidence you will cultivate.
This is a non-stop, repetitive process that will take you YEARS...
But I can guarantee you this with 100% certainty...
It's worth it.
Do you want true, genuine happiness?
Do you want to completely dominate in every area of your life?
Deep down...
You know what you need to do to make it happen.
You have to show up for yourself every single day and execute.
No checking boxes...
No cutting corners...
No compromising when no one is looking...
100% completion and proper execution of every single one of your daily tasks.
It doesn't matter what the conditions are...
It doesn't matter how much you try to convince yourself that "it doesn't matter"...
The root cause of all your problems is your unwillingness to execute to the absolute best of your ability every day.
That's it.
If you want to be one of those people who seem to win at everything in their life...
You have to master this habit.
What would your life look like if you made this commitment for the next 5 years?
Something to think about.
Do you want to completely dominate in every area of your life?
Deep down...
You know what you need to do to make it happen.
You have to show up for yourself every single day and execute.
No checking boxes...
No cutting corners...
No compromising when no one is looking...
100% completion and proper execution of every single one of your daily tasks.
It doesn't matter what the conditions are...
It doesn't matter how much you try to convince yourself that "it doesn't matter"...
The root cause of all your problems is your unwillingness to execute to the absolute best of your ability every day.
That's it.
If you want to be one of those people who seem to win at everything in their life...
You have to master this habit.
What would your life look like if you made this commitment for the next 5 years?
Something to think about.
Learn how to put yourself under pressure even when there isn’t any.
These high-pressure environments are where you are forging the skills and character traits you need to reach your dreams and set yourself up for a much easier life in the future.
Most people are comfortable working a 40 hour work week with a set income that is "safe"...
But because they are choosing to live a life that is easy and risk-free...
They never break out of the average mold of society.
These people always end up perpetually struggling in life.
You have to purposely make your life harder...
It's going to require early mornings and late nights...
You're going to feel alone...
You will be working in the dark for a very long time...
But if you bust your ass every day and do everything you can…
Your efforts will eventually compound...
And the long hours that you put in every week will eventually give you a life that you don't hate.
A life that you don’t need a vacation from.
A life where you do everything on your terms.
A life where you have the freedom to do whatever you want without having to second-guess it.
Trust me…
There is no better way to create the life you truly want.
There is no better way to LIVE LIFE.
These high-pressure environments are where you are forging the skills and character traits you need to reach your dreams and set yourself up for a much easier life in the future.
Most people are comfortable working a 40 hour work week with a set income that is "safe"...
But because they are choosing to live a life that is easy and risk-free...
They never break out of the average mold of society.
These people always end up perpetually struggling in life.
You have to purposely make your life harder...
It's going to require early mornings and late nights...
You're going to feel alone...
You will be working in the dark for a very long time...
But if you bust your ass every day and do everything you can…
Your efforts will eventually compound...
And the long hours that you put in every week will eventually give you a life that you don't hate.
A life that you don’t need a vacation from.
A life where you do everything on your terms.
A life where you have the freedom to do whatever you want without having to second-guess it.
Trust me…
There is no better way to create the life you truly want.
There is no better way to LIVE LIFE.