I had a conversation with someone today about my major and I told them i am a vet student & they said something like, “Isn’t that too difficult for a girl? It takes so many years of your life.”
I know they probably didn’t mean harm by it, and maybe it came from concern, but whatever their reason was , it kinda bothered me a bit I tried not to think much of it but couldn't help it. It made me realize how much society still connects a woman’s age to her worth, as if there is always an invisible timeline she has to follow. Study quickly. Settle down quickly. Build your life quickly before your age becomes “too much.”
What feels strange to me is that people rarely say these things to men in the same way. A man spending years building a career, studying, or chasing a dream is often seen as ambitious. But for women, those same years are sometimes treated like something being “lost.”
But learning, growing, and building a future should never be seen as wasting time. Whether someone wants marriage early, later, or not at all, their value should not shrink as they get older. People are more than timelines society creates for them.
I think everyone deserves the chance to become who they want to be without feeling like time itself is judging them.
For all my girls out there your age is not a deadline, and your dreams are not “too much", so stop giving a shit about what ppl think about you , they don't live your life for you, go out there and chase your dream 💫❤️

Good morning ppl week#3,day#11 , another week new energy 🔥

Good morning day#12

Good morning ppl day #13