when I was a kid I used to hid things from my granny 👵

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“We both love each other, but she is much older than me. I don’t know how this love will be successful.”🇮🇳🇧🇷

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hiiii so it has been just one year since my marriage and in my in-laws house there is my husband, father-in-law, elder brother who is paralyzed and younger brother whose height is very short and brain is a little weak.. mother-in-law is not there, she is dead. This is my in-laws' house... I am a devotee of Krishna and my husband is quite good that's why I got married thinking that I would get an opportunity to serve some such people...but after 1 month of marriage I faced a lot of problems like my father in law used to behave like a real mother in law, like interrupting me in the middle of cooking and giving unnecessary advice and watching how I was cooking and taunting me and my crazy brother in law's behavior was also strange, he used to stare at me all the time, at first I thought that he has a low brain so he would not understand that such a person It is not good to roam around.. but after a few months it started happening more and I felt very uncomfortable... If I tell anything to my husband, he says that it is Papa's habit, he doesn't have anything like that in his mind..But I get very irritated with both of them and I do all the house work alone. Both of them don't help at all. Whenever I see their faces I curse them in my mind. I hate both of them so much. and now if my husband does something for them, I get angry because they sit idle the whole day and do not help at all, rather they spread garbage in the house, and why does my husband do so much for them.. sometimes I feel that I have become such a bad person. Because of them I was not like this...Because of these two, my mood is always bad and whenever I have a fight with my husband, the only reason for it is my father-in-law and brother-in-law. I don't understand how to handle all this...🫥🫥

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I once rmeowed during sex and now "m not allowed in her house anymore.

This is not a kink thing. I swear to God. I was just.. in the zone.

We were doing our thing, all going great, candles, songs, her cat watching us from the TV unit like a judge

Suddenly, the cat meowed.

And for some goddamn reason, my brain smooth, faulty, male brain--decided to meow back.

Mid stroke.

Loudly.

Like. committed to the meow.,

She stopped. Blinking.

Did you just... meow?"

I panicked and sald, "lts liksa primal dominance display. You know, alpha insticts "

She laughed once. Then realized was serious. Then kicked me out

Her actual words were:
"I'm not gonna f*ck someone who tries to out-alpha my cat."

The worst part? The cat meowed again as lleft. Like it was mocking me.

I haven't heard from her in weeks. saw her post on Instagram. She's dating a dude who owns two cats. l'm convinced this was a power play all along.

TL;DR: Meowed during sex. Lost the girl, lost the war. Cat won,

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I will never close the gap between who I am and who I want to be because "who I want to be" is a moving target

#RandomThoughts

These Would you rather.. questions are just crazy! Would never have thought such wild ideas! 😃

Theme: #party

❔Question: Would you rather wake up after a wild party naked in the middle of the city or handcuffed to a stranger in a mysterious location with no memory of how you got there?

Mode: nsfw, @WyrQuiz
#WyrQuiz #WouldYouRather @WyrQuiz

I invented a life for myself on the internet, I lied to a guy for 2 years

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I lie about being allergic to alcohol because I don’t trust myself when I drink

I (31F) tell people I’m allergic to alcohol. I’m not.

There’s no rash, no swelling, no ER visit. But the reaction is real, just not physical.

When I drink, I become someone else. Not in a fun, party-animal way. In a dark, reckless, “I might not make it home” kind of way. It’s like my brain turns off the second the alcohol hits my bloodstream and some ancient hurt takes the wheel.

I’ve woken up in strangers’ beds not remembering how I got there. I’ve walked down freeways at 3AM. I’ve sobbed in public bathrooms while texting people who blocked me years ago. I’ve been taken advantage of more than once and convinced myself I deserved it because “well, I was drunk.”

So I stopped. Cold turkey, two years ago. But I hated the conversations it brought up. The questions. The pity. The “oh come on, just one drink.” So now I just say I’m allergic. No one argues with allergies.

Sometimes I miss it. I miss the warmth in my chest, the confidence, the fake joy. But I don’t miss the danger. I don’t miss the shame.

I still go to bars. I still order cranberry soda with lime and pretend it’s a cocktail. I still laugh along when people say, “God, I’d die without wine.”

And inside I think, I nearly did.

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How do you tell the difference between a man genuinely realizing his mistakes vs. trying to reel you back in?

I (F) and him met online through similar trauma discussion.
Started texting everyday and sharing our lives' highs and lows.
Met on video calls, audio calls.
At that period of time, I was struggling mentally so he was there for me all the time more than I was there for him.
I didn't pay attention to red flags like, demeaning language when they were mad towards other people in our lives. And they saved my first snap where I had my picture (face) and that of nature too. Is that normal?

Later when I asked them to remove, they did. Later on, I said I wanted to limit contact due to personal reasons, they were not happy with that and cried. We spoke later but not often like before.

One day, out of nowhere, they were forcing me to send videos of me working on self improvement. Their argument was they wanted to see me improve. But I said I never agreed to it and was uncomfortable. Slowly it turned toxic, everytime I ask them to apologize, it would turn to him gaslighting, manipulating me and such. Last time, he tried forcing me to leave by using harsh tone. I was attached emotionally so it was hard for me to just leave. Later they said they realized what they did.

After months of him apologizing but saying its my fault and such, I finally had enough. I used direct and to the point lines instead of people pleasing and when I confronted without any 'I hope you don't feel bad ' type of lines, they said they finally understand what they did and all. I wasn't having all that now since they broke my trust a long back. How should I trust they won't take their words back like before. They said what they did was wrong and started telling me what could have caused it. For months, I reached out to them every time they mess up, sometimes I get, I thought of messaging you or not even that at times. Recently, I get ' I thought of genuinely apologize to you ' after I reached out for the millionth time. I had enough and completely erased their contacts to completely distance myself. While I was about to leave, they said they ruined everything and said if I ever decide to come back, it would be an honor. What do I do? Did I just leave when they finally got it? I feel sad.

Want to mention the last time they said they now totally understand, they did not say it's my fault after apologizing. I feel miserable that my standards are falling apart. I don't know what to do? He messed my head up over the last few months and I feel so alone and miserable yet I kept asking him to take accountability and finally he said he understands what he did and how bad it is. I feel like he actually got it but I know he will take time to change. Everytime I think about it, I'm speechless.

Actually I am assuming he knows what he did from the start but couldn't apologize sincerely. And wanted me to move on, when I wasn't having that, it turned sour. Part of me wants to keep him in my contacts but I know currently I should not even look in his way. It's unhealthy for me. What should I do? It feels embarrassing to me that I trusted a stranger and literally showed him my face and pictures. He did that too but I didn't betrayed him like he did. I feel betrayed, lost, hurt, alone and mad. Should I give him a second chance?

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If there was someone who could read me like I read everyone and understand them
they'd go insane.
Not because I'm too much,
but because I carry too much.
Too many thoughts running at once,
too many feelings layered under things I never say.
It's not just about emotions - it's about depth.
About how I sense what people are trying to hide, how I catch the tremble in their voice when they lie, how I feel the guilt, the anger, the sorrow even when it’s unspoken.

People call it a gift. They say I’m “emotionally intelligent” like it's a superpower. But to me, it’s a curse.
Because I don’t want to know sometimes. I don't want to carry someone else’s pain when I can barely hold my own. I don't want to see through the masks people wear,
because when I do, I can't unsee it. And it stays. It settles in my chest like it's mine.

It’s like bleeding for wounds that aren't even on your skin.
It drains you. It makes you tired in places sleep can't reach.

I wish I could turn it off.. this way of feeling too much.
But I can’t.
And maybe that’s what hurts the most

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Asked Myself if my GF would like it, then immediately booked archery for myself .. F*ck it 🤷‍♂️

Lately I have been lacking in the ME department FR, I have been neglecting myself for my gf. She isn't demanding it, it is more so, me making it about her her her. I was on Groupon a few moments ago and saw an archery class, and I saw there were multiple options for this archery class, especially a cool package for two. Internally I asked myself if my GF would like it and something from the back of my mind SCREAMED "fuck that, book it for yourself!"

I love my GF don't get me wrong, but I have always preached keep up with yourself in a relationship. I had almost let that escape me.

I'm excited, im going Sunday.

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I don’t hate you freind

You removed me from messaging you. You have BPD. You were a good friend, and I appreciate you reaching out to me. I hope nothing but the best for you. You were the only girl I could tell my feelings about and my personal issues. If you are reading this, I’m sorry. I hope you have a wonderful life.

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I make self-deprecation an art form, it's like my own personal masterpiece... except it's probably hanging in the discount bin.

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I secretly root against my best friend’s relationship.

I (25F) love my best friend. She’s amazing. But her boyfriend is… not it. He’s controlling, belittles her in front of people, constantly makes “jokes” at her expense. She says he’s “just like that,” but I can see she’s smaller when he’s around.

Every time they fight, every time she says “I think I’m done,” my heart leaps. I imagine us celebrating her finally being free of him. But she never leaves. She always forgives him.

I feel like a bad person for hoping her relationship fails. But I just want her to see what we all see.

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