Forwarded from 🌞 Sol Brah ⚡️
truly we create our own hells
It is grating being around people with persistently negative mentalities once you become aware of it
To these people, everything has a reason for why it won’t work, Everything has a high possibility of going wrong
The worst assumptions of your mind never comes to pass - and if something goes ‘wrong’ (which is a value judgement based on your perspective anyway) then you will deal with it IF it comes to it. There is zero point wasting time on entertaining these negative ‘ghost’ events that will not even happen.
be around the right people and you learn and progress effortlessly through osmosis
Be around the wrong people and you become dragged down simply by being around them
It is imperative to curate an environment of positive mental programming, from other people, music, tv shows, movies, social media, etc.
All must be conducive to success and happiness.
Thought is the coin of heaven, Money is it’s earthly symbol
You must invest your thoughts as you do your money:
⁃ Invest = positive thoughts and assumptions of success
⁃ Spent frivolously = negative thoughts and wastes of time
Every moment must be invested wisely rather than spent.
The present moment does not fade into the past - It advances into the future to meet us, depending on how we chose to use it.
If we spend our days thinking of the bad things, of why everything is bad, then that version of reality will be coming round the corner to greet us.
Similarly you can picture the perfect vision of how you want life to be and how it WILL Be, in every way.
If God is the consciousness of your mind, then everything is possible through how we choose (as we have free will) to use that consciousness.
Our power as humans is to create whatever version of reality is pictured in our minds eye.
We stumble through life when we don’t have this knowledge. We think negatively then our minds express this onto the world and we think we are a victim of life instead of realising we are experiencing what we have previously pictured.
You can be a victim of circumstance like everyone else, Or do whatever it takes to learn the tools to create your reality - then use them.
It is grating being around people with persistently negative mentalities once you become aware of it
To these people, everything has a reason for why it won’t work, Everything has a high possibility of going wrong
The worst assumptions of your mind never comes to pass - and if something goes ‘wrong’ (which is a value judgement based on your perspective anyway) then you will deal with it IF it comes to it. There is zero point wasting time on entertaining these negative ‘ghost’ events that will not even happen.
be around the right people and you learn and progress effortlessly through osmosis
Be around the wrong people and you become dragged down simply by being around them
It is imperative to curate an environment of positive mental programming, from other people, music, tv shows, movies, social media, etc.
All must be conducive to success and happiness.
Thought is the coin of heaven, Money is it’s earthly symbol
You must invest your thoughts as you do your money:
⁃ Invest = positive thoughts and assumptions of success
⁃ Spent frivolously = negative thoughts and wastes of time
Every moment must be invested wisely rather than spent.
The present moment does not fade into the past - It advances into the future to meet us, depending on how we chose to use it.
If we spend our days thinking of the bad things, of why everything is bad, then that version of reality will be coming round the corner to greet us.
Similarly you can picture the perfect vision of how you want life to be and how it WILL Be, in every way.
If God is the consciousness of your mind, then everything is possible through how we choose (as we have free will) to use that consciousness.
Our power as humans is to create whatever version of reality is pictured in our minds eye.
We stumble through life when we don’t have this knowledge. We think negatively then our minds express this onto the world and we think we are a victim of life instead of realising we are experiencing what we have previously pictured.
You can be a victim of circumstance like everyone else, Or do whatever it takes to learn the tools to create your reality - then use them.
If you ever want to lie, you need to make sure that nothing you are saying can be verified.
If one or more parameters can reasonably be doubted, then you already got caught.
It is important to keep in mind that lying is a tool and should not shape the way you see reality.
With that in mind, if you need to lie and want to get away with it,
Make sure no one else knows the truth.
Relying on people backing your fictive story will not sooner or later fireback on you.
Dont make anyone else part of your lie
Dont give anyone the power to expose you
Now, how can a lie be believable?
Use someone else's real life story.
Instead of making it up all from scratch, tell a real scenario with real details, which comes from your memories rather than you imagination
Why?
To not contradict yourself.
The more often you lie, the less likely you are to remember all the lies you said.
Keep that to a minimum.
Better, tell many people the same lie so you:
-Practice your fictive story
-Get backed without exposing your secret
Disclaimer:
This is to use when you NEED to lie about a specific situation
If you NEED to lie just to feed your ego, sorry to say but you need a doctor.
Use lies but don't become a liar, you will only lie to yourself and lose discernment between reality and your imagination.
If you'd like to learn more about how you can manipulate the world around you and be one step ahead of everyone, read this (not an affiliate):
https://dentesleo.gumroad.com/l/Vizier
If one or more parameters can reasonably be doubted, then you already got caught.
It is important to keep in mind that lying is a tool and should not shape the way you see reality.
With that in mind, if you need to lie and want to get away with it,
Make sure no one else knows the truth.
Relying on people backing your fictive story will not sooner or later fireback on you.
Dont make anyone else part of your lie
Dont give anyone the power to expose you
Now, how can a lie be believable?
Use someone else's real life story.
Instead of making it up all from scratch, tell a real scenario with real details, which comes from your memories rather than you imagination
Why?
To not contradict yourself.
The more often you lie, the less likely you are to remember all the lies you said.
Keep that to a minimum.
Better, tell many people the same lie so you:
-Practice your fictive story
-Get backed without exposing your secret
Disclaimer:
This is to use when you NEED to lie about a specific situation
If you NEED to lie just to feed your ego, sorry to say but you need a doctor.
Use lies but don't become a liar, you will only lie to yourself and lose discernment between reality and your imagination.
If you'd like to learn more about how you can manipulate the world around you and be one step ahead of everyone, read this (not an affiliate):
https://dentesleo.gumroad.com/l/Vizier
Deep dive into emotional regulation tomorrow. Nothing I've ever posted before. Heavy shit.
Post on Emotional regulation coming.
Edit:
Post is going to be too long.
I'm going to make it a pdf and send it on here when ready.
Edit:
Post is going to be too long.
I'm going to make it a pdf and send it on here when ready.
Friendship is one of those things for which you don't pay upfront.
In fact, it's something you only pay for once you lose it.
The problem is, you don't have sole ownership over it.
Sometimes you pay for it even before you realize that you lost it.
In fact, it's something you only pay for once you lose it.
The problem is, you don't have sole ownership over it.
Sometimes you pay for it even before you realize that you lost it.
Basedonia™ - By E-go
Post on Emotional regulation coming. Edit: Post is going to be too long. I'm going to make it a pdf and send it on here when ready.
I'm taking time with this because I want to be really specific on the information I'll be sharing with you. Will take a few more days to be done; but I'll be sharing other stuff in the meanwhile.
Cheers and love Basedonians
Cheers and love Basedonians
The problem with most people is that they expect the world to be soft and kind to them.
I don't know if it's pure delusional thinking or an idiotic yet hopeful way of seeing things.
Truth is, everyone experiences life from different perspectives and events, everyone is sucked up in their own reality.
As such, expecting people to always be there for you, to understand and empathize with your version of reality is simply needy and entitled.
Nobody has the obligation to do that.
Something many people forget is that everything is a trade.
It might not involve money or anything material, but everything gets paid for.
See the guy that helps you out without asking for anything?
He has a price in mind; he expects something back from you.
Maybe he doesn't have the courage to ask for it; maybe it's something he can't ask for; but he does have it in mind.
But here is the good side of this all:
What people expect back is obvious in most cases.
Here is where integrity lies, here is how you can be fair and just.
Do not get something from someone you're not ready to pay back.
Do not consider anything free; deal with this fact as a simple truth, not as a sad side of humans nature.
If you're going to take something from someone (time), make sure you know what they want in return and make sure you can pay them back.
That's how you become a good person.
Someone that goes to bed every night knowing that they're not taking advantage of anyone else yet take care of themselves properly.
I don't know if it's pure delusional thinking or an idiotic yet hopeful way of seeing things.
Truth is, everyone experiences life from different perspectives and events, everyone is sucked up in their own reality.
As such, expecting people to always be there for you, to understand and empathize with your version of reality is simply needy and entitled.
Nobody has the obligation to do that.
Something many people forget is that everything is a trade.
It might not involve money or anything material, but everything gets paid for.
See the guy that helps you out without asking for anything?
He has a price in mind; he expects something back from you.
Maybe he doesn't have the courage to ask for it; maybe it's something he can't ask for; but he does have it in mind.
But here is the good side of this all:
What people expect back is obvious in most cases.
Here is where integrity lies, here is how you can be fair and just.
Do not get something from someone you're not ready to pay back.
Do not consider anything free; deal with this fact as a simple truth, not as a sad side of humans nature.
If you're going to take something from someone (time), make sure you know what they want in return and make sure you can pay them back.
That's how you become a good person.
Someone that goes to bed every night knowing that they're not taking advantage of anyone else yet take care of themselves properly.
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How to become nobody:
>This is probably not what you expect but let's go.
I don't think there is anything easier than becoming a nobody.
If you simply follow the below mentioned instructions, you can easily achieve that in no time.
First:
Ditch everything that makes you standout.
Make sure all your opinions are borrowed and fit within a specific stereotype.
Second:
Forget about thinking out of the box.
Stay within the framework of what has been tried and proven many times.
Just do what works.
Take zero risks; copy.
Third:
Work on your agreeableness.
Say yes to people more often, don't resist much, accept their influence.
Let them have the final say, follow the lead.
Fourth:
There is no fourth.
This is a list of things you shouldn't do.
Do exactly the opposite of the first 3 points; stop being a sheep.
If you want to be nobody, then you either have zero ambition or zero personality: get yourself some.
You think it's cool to be a nobody, but faceless is exactly what everyone is.
In a world of nobodies, become somebody by simply thinking for yourself and avoiding labels.
See yourself as a free soul; not one among many.
>This is probably not what you expect but let's go.
I don't think there is anything easier than becoming a nobody.
If you simply follow the below mentioned instructions, you can easily achieve that in no time.
First:
Ditch everything that makes you standout.
Make sure all your opinions are borrowed and fit within a specific stereotype.
Second:
Forget about thinking out of the box.
Stay within the framework of what has been tried and proven many times.
Just do what works.
Take zero risks; copy.
Third:
Work on your agreeableness.
Say yes to people more often, don't resist much, accept their influence.
Let them have the final say, follow the lead.
Fourth:
There is no fourth.
This is a list of things you shouldn't do.
Do exactly the opposite of the first 3 points; stop being a sheep.
If you want to be nobody, then you either have zero ambition or zero personality: get yourself some.
You think it's cool to be a nobody, but faceless is exactly what everyone is.
In a world of nobodies, become somebody by simply thinking for yourself and avoiding labels.
See yourself as a free soul; not one among many.
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It takes a weight out of your shoulders, a stress out of your mind, when you accept that people's behavior towards you has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them.
Things are rarely personal and you should avoid taking them as such.
Let people be whatever they are.
Just don't be like them, don't let your subconscious and insecurities drive you.
Things are rarely personal and you should avoid taking them as such.
Let people be whatever they are.
Just don't be like them, don't let your subconscious and insecurities drive you.
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Forwarded from Lords Arena
Me before meditating: Shit, I have to complete this, oh no I have so many problems how will I tackle this, blah blah blah...
Me after meditating: The Universe is always on my side.
Peace.
Me after meditating: The Universe is always on my side.
Peace.
Forwarded from The Inspiring Land (The Inspiring Content)
The problem isn't that you don't have time.
The problem is that you don't have priorities.
The problem is that you don't have priorities.
Seems like we've lost many members here.
Thanks to those who stayed; I have been somewhat inactive but we all know it's a matter of time before I'm back full force on this.
Thanks for sticking around
Thanks to those who stayed; I have been somewhat inactive but we all know it's a matter of time before I'm back full force on this.
Thanks for sticking around
How to deal with doubt
This is a feeling and a process that I have both experienced not very long ago.
The thing with doubt is that sometimes it makes sense.
Sometimes you might be dead ass wrong.
Sometimes.
But unless you review the motives and incentives behind both your initial decision and the doubt you're facing; you will not be able to get the most out of the situation.
To be a bit more specific, the process you should adopt in case you're not sure of doing the right thing anymore is the following:
Start by asking the right question.
-How did I get here?
-What pushed me to make the initial decision?
-What made me think that it's a good decision?
-What changed since then?
-Is the change temporary or does its consequence impact the long run?
-What other options did I have and why I didn't pick them?
Those very precise questions will help you shed the light on the most important parameters to take into consideration.
It'll help you ignore irrelevant thoughts and focus on elements that heavily influenced your decisions at all stages.
Being able to go back in time and question your past decisions will help you understand more how you got where you are and what you might have done wrong.
Moments of doubt are moments of self-building.
They're not supposed to take you down, they're supposed to drive you forward.
You will always be right if you always correct yourself.
Dont let others tell you how to run your life.
Take control and keep it.
Doubt will always be there, you'd rather make it an ally.
This is a feeling and a process that I have both experienced not very long ago.
The thing with doubt is that sometimes it makes sense.
Sometimes you might be dead ass wrong.
Sometimes.
But unless you review the motives and incentives behind both your initial decision and the doubt you're facing; you will not be able to get the most out of the situation.
To be a bit more specific, the process you should adopt in case you're not sure of doing the right thing anymore is the following:
Start by asking the right question.
-How did I get here?
-What pushed me to make the initial decision?
-What made me think that it's a good decision?
-What changed since then?
-Is the change temporary or does its consequence impact the long run?
-What other options did I have and why I didn't pick them?
Those very precise questions will help you shed the light on the most important parameters to take into consideration.
It'll help you ignore irrelevant thoughts and focus on elements that heavily influenced your decisions at all stages.
Being able to go back in time and question your past decisions will help you understand more how you got where you are and what you might have done wrong.
Moments of doubt are moments of self-building.
They're not supposed to take you down, they're supposed to drive you forward.
You will always be right if you always correct yourself.
Dont let others tell you how to run your life.
Take control and keep it.
Doubt will always be there, you'd rather make it an ally.
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