Every time you feel like saying "sorry", say "my bad".
You're still taking responsibility for your mistake and acknowledging it, but you're not putting yourself down.
Only apologize when you involuntarily harm someone.
If they don't accept it?
Well, so be it.
You did your part.
Also don't blame them for it, everyone is free to set boundaries and accept or refuse apologies once they're crossed.
Those are THEIR standards, you shouldn't question them.
This also applies to you.
You are free to forgive or not.
But most importantly, always move on.
You're still taking responsibility for your mistake and acknowledging it, but you're not putting yourself down.
Only apologize when you involuntarily harm someone.
If they don't accept it?
Well, so be it.
You did your part.
Also don't blame them for it, everyone is free to set boundaries and accept or refuse apologies once they're crossed.
Those are THEIR standards, you shouldn't question them.
This also applies to you.
You are free to forgive or not.
But most importantly, always move on.
Self-sufficiency is the most attractive trait one can have.
Independence from everything, able to deal with one's own problems, negativity-free.
People who are self-sufficient are a burden for no one.
They give wholeheartedly and expect nothing in return. Why?
Because they NEED NOTHING.
Self-sufficiency is not being anti-social.
Self-sufficiency is being over bullshit.
Just imagine needing no one's support?
Not needing extra motivation, not needing ANYTHING.
Self-sufficiency is the ultimate form of independence.
Independence from everything, able to deal with one's own problems, negativity-free.
People who are self-sufficient are a burden for no one.
They give wholeheartedly and expect nothing in return. Why?
Because they NEED NOTHING.
Self-sufficiency is not being anti-social.
Self-sufficiency is being over bullshit.
Just imagine needing no one's support?
Not needing extra motivation, not needing ANYTHING.
Self-sufficiency is the ultimate form of independence.
Something I learned from someone I don't respect.
Always ask:
What's your selfish reason to do this?
Destabilizes everyone every time.
They also always answer this honestly.
If they don't, tell them yours first.
Always ask:
What's your selfish reason to do this?
Destabilizes everyone every time.
They also always answer this honestly.
If they don't, tell them yours first.
Forwarded from ℜao🔱
I'll go as far to say that you have basically laid out the recipe for success in my opinion. I've been able to find anything I ever needed, whenever there's some issue, there's already a solution on either basedonia or twitter. Amazing
For the new members:
You can find a PDF of my old threads in the shared files of this channel.
You can find a PDF of my old threads in the shared files of this channel.
I see people leaving every time I send long form content.
Let's make this clear.
I'm not going to send one liners on here.
Basedonia is made for in-depth and quality content.
Want my shitposting?
You're in the wrong place.
Have a nice Saturday Basedonians ❤️
Let's make this clear.
I'm not going to send one liners on here.
Basedonia is made for in-depth and quality content.
Want my shitposting?
You're in the wrong place.
Have a nice Saturday Basedonians ❤️
Forwarded from Lords Arena
How to be more self-sufficient and self-worthy
-Thread-
- Identify your desires, goals, plans, tasks:
After all, if you don't know what you want, others will push their expectations and tell you what and when you should do it.
To be self-sufficient, one must follow one's own goals rather than those of others.
- The way you allow others to treat you is how they will treat you:
The key aspect is "self-esteem," and you must clearly define the boundaries of what others are permitted to do with you.
Outside these boundaries, there is nothing to talk about, and there is no need for that.
Never do something that destroys your self-esteem.
“Self-sufficiency” without “self-respect” does not exist.
- The true love of a woman is always based on respect for her beloved man
Even though I usually suggest doing everything possible to maintain a relationship, I'll tell you, bluntly: "if you believe that a lady does not respect you, you must quit this relationship."
Self-sufficiency requires a clear and strong stance on this matter.
- Your ultimate objective should be to not fool yourself.
Look for yourself, grow yourself, realize yourself, make errors, follow your dreams, love your parents and close friends, and take care of your world.
Everything else is merely what people think of you.
Self-sufficiency is the courage to remain “Self” and “follow Your path.”
- Be as genuine as possible.
Otherwise, the more you try to fake something, the stronger becomes your fear, i.e., someone will find out that you really are not you.
Why are you so stressed?
Self-sufficiency is the desire “to be,” not “just to appear.”
True self-sufficiency is when nobody has authority over you, and you do not permit them to do so.
The keyword here is "permission."
Think about it.
To not depend on opinions and assessments, one has to accept oneself with all his negatives and positives.
This means that you need to be aware and feel your right over yourself.
Well, of course, if you want to change something in yourself, then work on it.
But do it for yourself, not to satisfy someone else, be loved by someone else, or become "good" or "bad" for someone else.
A self-sufficient person does not feel flawless or improves out of fear of being awful.
Self-sufficiency is defined as "improving for the sake of self-realization and self-disclosure."
- Never demand anything from others:
Of course, you can ask for it.
But Demand - NO.
Demand only from yourself.
Then, you will no longer have any grievances or claims against others.
It is impossible to imagine a self-sufficient person experiencing grievances and claims.
Proceed from the consideration of your interests.
Those who consistently act against their own interests will not be regarded in any circle, let alone by women.
Do not try to prove your self-sufficiency to others.
Prove only to yourself, if necessary.
Self-sufficiency, my friend, is actually the game of your internal preferences.
-Thread-
- Identify your desires, goals, plans, tasks:
After all, if you don't know what you want, others will push their expectations and tell you what and when you should do it.
To be self-sufficient, one must follow one's own goals rather than those of others.
- The way you allow others to treat you is how they will treat you:
The key aspect is "self-esteem," and you must clearly define the boundaries of what others are permitted to do with you.
Outside these boundaries, there is nothing to talk about, and there is no need for that.
Never do something that destroys your self-esteem.
“Self-sufficiency” without “self-respect” does not exist.
- The true love of a woman is always based on respect for her beloved man
Even though I usually suggest doing everything possible to maintain a relationship, I'll tell you, bluntly: "if you believe that a lady does not respect you, you must quit this relationship."
Self-sufficiency requires a clear and strong stance on this matter.
- Your ultimate objective should be to not fool yourself.
Look for yourself, grow yourself, realize yourself, make errors, follow your dreams, love your parents and close friends, and take care of your world.
Everything else is merely what people think of you.
Self-sufficiency is the courage to remain “Self” and “follow Your path.”
- Be as genuine as possible.
Otherwise, the more you try to fake something, the stronger becomes your fear, i.e., someone will find out that you really are not you.
Why are you so stressed?
Self-sufficiency is the desire “to be,” not “just to appear.”
True self-sufficiency is when nobody has authority over you, and you do not permit them to do so.
The keyword here is "permission."
Think about it.
To not depend on opinions and assessments, one has to accept oneself with all his negatives and positives.
This means that you need to be aware and feel your right over yourself.
Well, of course, if you want to change something in yourself, then work on it.
But do it for yourself, not to satisfy someone else, be loved by someone else, or become "good" or "bad" for someone else.
A self-sufficient person does not feel flawless or improves out of fear of being awful.
Self-sufficiency is defined as "improving for the sake of self-realization and self-disclosure."
- Never demand anything from others:
Of course, you can ask for it.
But Demand - NO.
Demand only from yourself.
Then, you will no longer have any grievances or claims against others.
It is impossible to imagine a self-sufficient person experiencing grievances and claims.
Proceed from the consideration of your interests.
Those who consistently act against their own interests will not be regarded in any circle, let alone by women.
Do not try to prove your self-sufficiency to others.
Prove only to yourself, if necessary.
Self-sufficiency, my friend, is actually the game of your internal preferences.
❤1
I've come a long way since the days I had no idea what my life would look like.
If you asked me 5 years ago where I imagined myself in 5 years,
I'd have said dead or in jail.
It's never too late to pull yourself together.
Trust me, coming from someone who went from drug addict, drug dealer and other shit I'm not proud of, there is always a solution.
Many times in my life, I thought fuck this shit I'd rather be dead.
Many times in my life, I was about to quit it all.
Literally.
But it's in those darkest moments that you realize your worth and responsibility.
What made me change?
What made me take control?
The simple idea that no one is going to live my life in my place.
I can't stress enough on each one's uniqueness.
That's the beauty of life.
Being yourself.
All we go through doesn't shape who we are.
It's how we react to it.
What we make of the trauma and the painful experiences.
I just want to say this, I know most of you are not in this specific situation, but I also know those who are never talk about it:
Ending things is not worth it.
Everything bad that happens to you is a blessing.
You get stronger every time you get hurt.
There IS a light at the end of EVERY tunnel.
NEVER LOSE HOPE.
NEVER LOSE YOURSELF.
Keep grinding, keep getting better.
Does it hurt?
Great. It means you're growing.
Get past what you think is holding you back.
Because nothing is holding you back except your fear of further pain.
Pain is inevitable.
Suffering is a choice.
Take pride and lessons from the painful experiences.
Move on.
Keep moving.
The world won't wait for you, so don't wait for anyone.
Make things happen.
Do the ONE THING you think you can't do.
Addicted to drugs?
Stop now.
Toxic family?
Leave them now.
Toxic relationship?
Walk away today.
It only takes one step forward to start running towards the life of your dreams.
It's easy to complain and self-pity.
But it leads nowhere.
Define your ideal life.
Chase it until the day you life.
Get happy or die trying.
If you asked me 5 years ago where I imagined myself in 5 years,
I'd have said dead or in jail.
It's never too late to pull yourself together.
Trust me, coming from someone who went from drug addict, drug dealer and other shit I'm not proud of, there is always a solution.
Many times in my life, I thought fuck this shit I'd rather be dead.
Many times in my life, I was about to quit it all.
Literally.
But it's in those darkest moments that you realize your worth and responsibility.
What made me change?
What made me take control?
The simple idea that no one is going to live my life in my place.
I can't stress enough on each one's uniqueness.
That's the beauty of life.
Being yourself.
All we go through doesn't shape who we are.
It's how we react to it.
What we make of the trauma and the painful experiences.
I just want to say this, I know most of you are not in this specific situation, but I also know those who are never talk about it:
Ending things is not worth it.
Everything bad that happens to you is a blessing.
You get stronger every time you get hurt.
There IS a light at the end of EVERY tunnel.
NEVER LOSE HOPE.
NEVER LOSE YOURSELF.
Keep grinding, keep getting better.
Does it hurt?
Great. It means you're growing.
Get past what you think is holding you back.
Because nothing is holding you back except your fear of further pain.
Pain is inevitable.
Suffering is a choice.
Take pride and lessons from the painful experiences.
Move on.
Keep moving.
The world won't wait for you, so don't wait for anyone.
Make things happen.
Do the ONE THING you think you can't do.
Addicted to drugs?
Stop now.
Toxic family?
Leave them now.
Toxic relationship?
Walk away today.
It only takes one step forward to start running towards the life of your dreams.
It's easy to complain and self-pity.
But it leads nowhere.
Define your ideal life.
Chase it until the day you life.
Get happy or die trying.
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Self-sufficiency program will be available in audio format tonight at no extra cost for people who already got it.
Self-sufficiency is NOT anti social behavior.
Self-sufficiency is about YOU.
Anti social behavior is about others.
Two completely different things.
Being self-sufficient is not being a jackass.
It's simply needing no one.
Self-sufficient people enjoy people for what they are without expecting anything.
People who are anti social don't want to see anyone or engage with anyone.
They feel uncomfortable around other people, that's why they act like assholes.
They're bothered by other people's presence, thoughts, whole existence.
Someone who's self-sufficient feel well enough to share their positivity.
One is negative, the other is full of positivity.
One is a burden when around, the other is nothing but good vibes.
Don't fall for that.
Self-sufficiency is about YOU.
Anti social behavior is about others.
Two completely different things.
Being self-sufficient is not being a jackass.
It's simply needing no one.
Self-sufficient people enjoy people for what they are without expecting anything.
People who are anti social don't want to see anyone or engage with anyone.
They feel uncomfortable around other people, that's why they act like assholes.
They're bothered by other people's presence, thoughts, whole existence.
Someone who's self-sufficient feel well enough to share their positivity.
One is negative, the other is full of positivity.
One is a burden when around, the other is nothing but good vibes.
Don't fall for that.
BASEDONIANS
If you could change ONE thing about yourself, what would it be?
If you could change ONE thing about yourself, what would it be?