Grand rising Basedonia.
I just went through your answers on the last post.
I love you all ❤️
I just went through your answers on the last post.
I love you all ❤️
Forwarded from STRONGLAND (Life Math Money)
"You're selfish." "Yes."
After tonight, I will be taking a break from all social media and electronics.
It's time I focused on myself.
Somewhere on the way, I got lost and focused on providing value rather than being my amazing self.
I will come back stronger.
I always do.
It's me time.
Talk soon
It's time I focused on myself.
Somewhere on the way, I got lost and focused on providing value rather than being my amazing self.
I will come back stronger.
I always do.
It's me time.
Talk soon
Difficulties, doubt, hard times are the best thing in life.
It's in the discomfort that you grow, it's in the discomfort that you become what you should be.
Embrace hard times with a big ass smile because usually after the storm, the sun shines bright.
It's in the discomfort that you grow, it's in the discomfort that you become what you should be.
Embrace hard times with a big ass smile because usually after the storm, the sun shines bright.
MAY JUNE BE THE MONTH YOU START GETTING YOUR SHIT TOGETHER
IF ITS ALREADY THE CASE...
MAY JUNE BE THE MONTH YOU REACH YOUR APEX VALUE AND KEEP PUSHING IT FURTHER
I'll be back tonight with daily posts.
Drop what you want me to write about below.
IF ITS ALREADY THE CASE...
MAY JUNE BE THE MONTH YOU REACH YOUR APEX VALUE AND KEEP PUSHING IT FURTHER
I'll be back tonight with daily posts.
Drop what you want me to write about below.
There are a lot of suggestions so I'll try to cover all of them in the coming days.
For tonight we'll be talking about how to analyze body language in real situations to improve your social and analysis skills.
Sending in a moment.
For tonight we'll be talking about how to analyze body language in real situations to improve your social and analysis skills.
Sending in a moment.
How to analyze body language:
Part 1: What to watch for
Body language isn't just a few types of behavior to analyze but rather a mix of many tells that can help you better understand the person in front of you.
Most of the time, body language is very effective in order to discern the genuineness of a person and decide whether or not they are worthy of trust/a good person in general.
1- Their Eyes:
One of the most important things in body language is people's eye contact.
An example would be of someone who tries as much as they can to get eye contact with others is either:
- Looking for approval, in the case of someone who's selective rather than inclusive; someone who would do this with only a few people but ignore others
- Trying to make everyone comfortable, in the opposite case of someone who is trying to be inclusive and make everyone feel part of the group
A last example, is someone who, as opposed to the previous example, avoids eye contact.
Just like in the last example, there are two cases:
Selective: Wants to make a point that not everyone in this group is worth the same to them.
Exclusive: Is either afraid or considers themselves superior to the situation; they'd rather be elsewhere. Uncomfortable for sure, but not necessarily weak.
However, eye contact is not the only parameter to take into consideration when it comes to people's body language through eyes.
Let me explain.
Many will tell you that an insisting eye contact is sign of confidence and/or genuine attention, it's important to keep in mind that people will use this common belief to lure others.
A liar might be looking straight to your eyes and still lie in your face.
Which makes this argument irrelevant.
Instead, also analyze what people look at, not just the intensity at which they do.
Wait for a time where the person is not having a conversation, as it tells more than when they are trying to give an impression, there is more genuineness to it.
Someone who looks at other people's clothes or possessions for example is someone that is comparing himself to the other person.
2- The Space They Take:
Space and body language are VERY closely related.
For this however, it's a bit more straightforward compared to the eyes.
The more space they take, the more confident and comfortable they are.
What I mean by space goes from how they walk, stand, sit to how they eat and speak.
It's however important to note that, sometimes, when they take too much space, it becomes obvious that they're rather insecure or completely stupid.
Confident people do take space but they do not impose themselves in the personal space of others.
Why? Because they care about their own personal space.
They respect the limits but will stand right on them without ever crossing them or threatening to do so.
3- The Head Stability:
Head stability is not only a sign of confidence but also a sign of interest.
If they're moving their head to much, looking around sometimes or simply trying to find the right position, they're uncomfortable and intimidated or completely disinterested.
PS: You will be able to draw a conclusion if you analyze the other parameters.
A stable head movement on the other hand expresses the ease and self-acceptance, the person knows how they look and how they behave and do not try to find the 'right' head position as they feel comfortable being themselves. It is often a sign of someone that does not seek validation.
However, a very rigid head movement, too stable and not flexible enough indicates the opposite; since it probably comes from an effort to appear concentrated and interested or even sometimes superior (big fail).
This last type of head movement shows someone that is trying to show someone they're not really;
It screams insecurity.
4- Do they hide their belly & torso?
Crossed arms? Uncomfortable, not open for discussion.
It also shows anxiety and vulnerability.
Leave them alone unless you want to make them feel uncomfortable for whatever valid (I hope its valid) reason.
Part 1: What to watch for
Body language isn't just a few types of behavior to analyze but rather a mix of many tells that can help you better understand the person in front of you.
Most of the time, body language is very effective in order to discern the genuineness of a person and decide whether or not they are worthy of trust/a good person in general.
1- Their Eyes:
One of the most important things in body language is people's eye contact.
An example would be of someone who tries as much as they can to get eye contact with others is either:
- Looking for approval, in the case of someone who's selective rather than inclusive; someone who would do this with only a few people but ignore others
- Trying to make everyone comfortable, in the opposite case of someone who is trying to be inclusive and make everyone feel part of the group
A last example, is someone who, as opposed to the previous example, avoids eye contact.
Just like in the last example, there are two cases:
Selective: Wants to make a point that not everyone in this group is worth the same to them.
Exclusive: Is either afraid or considers themselves superior to the situation; they'd rather be elsewhere. Uncomfortable for sure, but not necessarily weak.
However, eye contact is not the only parameter to take into consideration when it comes to people's body language through eyes.
Let me explain.
Many will tell you that an insisting eye contact is sign of confidence and/or genuine attention, it's important to keep in mind that people will use this common belief to lure others.
A liar might be looking straight to your eyes and still lie in your face.
Which makes this argument irrelevant.
Instead, also analyze what people look at, not just the intensity at which they do.
Wait for a time where the person is not having a conversation, as it tells more than when they are trying to give an impression, there is more genuineness to it.
Someone who looks at other people's clothes or possessions for example is someone that is comparing himself to the other person.
2- The Space They Take:
Space and body language are VERY closely related.
For this however, it's a bit more straightforward compared to the eyes.
The more space they take, the more confident and comfortable they are.
What I mean by space goes from how they walk, stand, sit to how they eat and speak.
It's however important to note that, sometimes, when they take too much space, it becomes obvious that they're rather insecure or completely stupid.
Confident people do take space but they do not impose themselves in the personal space of others.
Why? Because they care about their own personal space.
They respect the limits but will stand right on them without ever crossing them or threatening to do so.
3- The Head Stability:
Head stability is not only a sign of confidence but also a sign of interest.
If they're moving their head to much, looking around sometimes or simply trying to find the right position, they're uncomfortable and intimidated or completely disinterested.
PS: You will be able to draw a conclusion if you analyze the other parameters.
A stable head movement on the other hand expresses the ease and self-acceptance, the person knows how they look and how they behave and do not try to find the 'right' head position as they feel comfortable being themselves. It is often a sign of someone that does not seek validation.
However, a very rigid head movement, too stable and not flexible enough indicates the opposite; since it probably comes from an effort to appear concentrated and interested or even sometimes superior (big fail).
This last type of head movement shows someone that is trying to show someone they're not really;
It screams insecurity.
4- Do they hide their belly & torso?
Crossed arms? Uncomfortable, not open for discussion.
It also shows anxiety and vulnerability.
Leave them alone unless you want to make them feel uncomfortable for whatever valid (I hope its valid) reason.
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This defensive position comes from our natural instinct of protecting our torso and belly from physical attacks.
Someone in this position can very quickly get angry/sad as they probably feel attacked.
A weakness position that says long about what's going on in their mind.
On the other hand, people who use their hand gestures, hold their hands on their back, or do anything that doesn't involve closing down on themselves; are people who are open to discussion and feel completely comfortable.
Not just because of their belly but also because of their expressiveness. After all, if they're not using their arms to "protect" themselves; they must be using them to either show openness (arms behind back) or express their ideas through hand gestures.
That was all for tonight.
We'll continue tomorrow, hope this was useful to you.
Let me know if you have any questions
Someone in this position can very quickly get angry/sad as they probably feel attacked.
A weakness position that says long about what's going on in their mind.
On the other hand, people who use their hand gestures, hold their hands on their back, or do anything that doesn't involve closing down on themselves; are people who are open to discussion and feel completely comfortable.
Not just because of their belly but also because of their expressiveness. After all, if they're not using their arms to "protect" themselves; they must be using them to either show openness (arms behind back) or express their ideas through hand gestures.
That was all for tonight.
We'll continue tomorrow, hope this was useful to you.
Let me know if you have any questions
Ego comes back and members leave?
Well fuck off, they'll remain miserable and will never be based.
Well fuck off, they'll remain miserable and will never be based.
Every time you feel like saying "sorry", say "my bad".
You're still taking responsibility for your mistake and acknowledging it, but you're not putting yourself down.
Only apologize when you involuntarily harm someone.
If they don't accept it?
Well, so be it.
You did your part.
Also don't blame them for it, everyone is free to set boundaries and accept or refuse apologies once they're crossed.
Those are THEIR standards, you shouldn't question them.
This also applies to you.
You are free to forgive or not.
But most importantly, always move on.
You're still taking responsibility for your mistake and acknowledging it, but you're not putting yourself down.
Only apologize when you involuntarily harm someone.
If they don't accept it?
Well, so be it.
You did your part.
Also don't blame them for it, everyone is free to set boundaries and accept or refuse apologies once they're crossed.
Those are THEIR standards, you shouldn't question them.
This also applies to you.
You are free to forgive or not.
But most importantly, always move on.
Self-sufficiency is the most attractive trait one can have.
Independence from everything, able to deal with one's own problems, negativity-free.
People who are self-sufficient are a burden for no one.
They give wholeheartedly and expect nothing in return. Why?
Because they NEED NOTHING.
Self-sufficiency is not being anti-social.
Self-sufficiency is being over bullshit.
Just imagine needing no one's support?
Not needing extra motivation, not needing ANYTHING.
Self-sufficiency is the ultimate form of independence.
Independence from everything, able to deal with one's own problems, negativity-free.
People who are self-sufficient are a burden for no one.
They give wholeheartedly and expect nothing in return. Why?
Because they NEED NOTHING.
Self-sufficiency is not being anti-social.
Self-sufficiency is being over bullshit.
Just imagine needing no one's support?
Not needing extra motivation, not needing ANYTHING.
Self-sufficiency is the ultimate form of independence.
Something I learned from someone I don't respect.
Always ask:
What's your selfish reason to do this?
Destabilizes everyone every time.
They also always answer this honestly.
If they don't, tell them yours first.
Always ask:
What's your selfish reason to do this?
Destabilizes everyone every time.
They also always answer this honestly.
If they don't, tell them yours first.