Forwarded from STRONGLAND (Life Math Money)
No matter who hurt you in the past, fixing you is your responsibility and your burden. Don't expect people who damaged you to save you - they don't care. Move on and live to the best of your abilities, instead of whining about how you've been wronged.
Talk with confidence.
Don't hesitate.
You know what makes you stutter?
It's that second thought you had right before talking.
You know that doubtful voice that told you
"Hmmm maybe you're wrong"
"Is that the right word"
That voice is annoying.
I know.
But the thing is, does it really matter if you're wrong?
Does it really matter if it's not the right word?
You know the answer, it's a no.
It doesn't matter because unless you go ahead and try, you'll never know.
Was it the right word? No?
No worries, you just learned it wasn't.
You won't do it next time.
Was it wrong?
Great. An opportunity to learn.
We really don't realize that the best teacher is our mistakes.
Once you accept that, you'll never be afraid of being wrong.
If you're not afraid of that, you're unbeatable.
Another tip to talk with confidence
Remove the useless words.
Don't "hmmm" don't say "I believe", "I think".
Say it as it is.
Certainty implies confidence.
Be certain until proven otherwise.
And if proved otherwise?
You just got smarter.
The whole trick:
Understand that you never fail, you only learn.
Forget about shame, guilt and other feelings that limit you.
Understand that you're always learning and the best way to do so it to try.
Getting it right or wrong is still getting to a lesson.
Don't hesitate.
You know what makes you stutter?
It's that second thought you had right before talking.
You know that doubtful voice that told you
"Hmmm maybe you're wrong"
"Is that the right word"
That voice is annoying.
I know.
But the thing is, does it really matter if you're wrong?
Does it really matter if it's not the right word?
You know the answer, it's a no.
It doesn't matter because unless you go ahead and try, you'll never know.
Was it the right word? No?
No worries, you just learned it wasn't.
You won't do it next time.
Was it wrong?
Great. An opportunity to learn.
We really don't realize that the best teacher is our mistakes.
Once you accept that, you'll never be afraid of being wrong.
If you're not afraid of that, you're unbeatable.
Another tip to talk with confidence
Remove the useless words.
Don't "hmmm" don't say "I believe", "I think".
Say it as it is.
Certainty implies confidence.
Be certain until proven otherwise.
And if proved otherwise?
You just got smarter.
The whole trick:
Understand that you never fail, you only learn.
Forget about shame, guilt and other feelings that limit you.
Understand that you're always learning and the best way to do so it to try.
Getting it right or wrong is still getting to a lesson.
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You give up because you hold on to your expected results and want them to come asap.
You give up when you don't know why you're doing whatever you're doing.
You give up when you start something you were never really convinced of.
You give up when you do something for someone else's satisfaction.
Giving up here doesn't necessarily mean stopping.
Not enjoying what you're doing is also giving up.
Giving up on your time.
Giving up on your happiness.
Giving up on reality.
Keep your head straight, make sure you are where you want to be in life.
That's assuming you already know.
If that's not the case, I urge you to get your shit together.
Life isn't long enough for us to be doing things we don't enjoy.
Remember that this is YOUR life.
You literally own it.
Now go and figuratively own it.
You give up when you don't know why you're doing whatever you're doing.
You give up when you start something you were never really convinced of.
You give up when you do something for someone else's satisfaction.
Giving up here doesn't necessarily mean stopping.
Not enjoying what you're doing is also giving up.
Giving up on your time.
Giving up on your happiness.
Giving up on reality.
Keep your head straight, make sure you are where you want to be in life.
That's assuming you already know.
If that's not the case, I urge you to get your shit together.
Life isn't long enough for us to be doing things we don't enjoy.
Remember that this is YOUR life.
You literally own it.
Now go and figuratively own it.
They will demonize you for taking care of yourself.
They will get offended because you come first.
They will tell you that you have no heart because you matter to yourself.
Don't fall for that.
Let them call it selfishness.
We'll keep calling it self-care.
Don't let others influence the relationship you have with yourself, it doesn't involve them so you shouldn't listen to them.
Anyone who can't profit from you will call you selfish.
It's not about you, it's about them wanting a share of your happiness for nothing in return.
Take care of yourself before trying to take care of others.
An unhappy person cannot make others happy.
Keep working on yourself, keep bringing out the best of you.
They will get offended because you come first.
They will tell you that you have no heart because you matter to yourself.
Don't fall for that.
Let them call it selfishness.
We'll keep calling it self-care.
Don't let others influence the relationship you have with yourself, it doesn't involve them so you shouldn't listen to them.
Anyone who can't profit from you will call you selfish.
It's not about you, it's about them wanting a share of your happiness for nothing in return.
Take care of yourself before trying to take care of others.
An unhappy person cannot make others happy.
Keep working on yourself, keep bringing out the best of you.
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Grand rising Basedonia.
I just went through your answers on the last post.
I love you all ❤️
I just went through your answers on the last post.
I love you all ❤️
Forwarded from STRONGLAND (Life Math Money)
"You're selfish." "Yes."
After tonight, I will be taking a break from all social media and electronics.
It's time I focused on myself.
Somewhere on the way, I got lost and focused on providing value rather than being my amazing self.
I will come back stronger.
I always do.
It's me time.
Talk soon
It's time I focused on myself.
Somewhere on the way, I got lost and focused on providing value rather than being my amazing self.
I will come back stronger.
I always do.
It's me time.
Talk soon
Difficulties, doubt, hard times are the best thing in life.
It's in the discomfort that you grow, it's in the discomfort that you become what you should be.
Embrace hard times with a big ass smile because usually after the storm, the sun shines bright.
It's in the discomfort that you grow, it's in the discomfort that you become what you should be.
Embrace hard times with a big ass smile because usually after the storm, the sun shines bright.
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IF ITS ALREADY THE CASE...
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MAY JUNE BE THE MONTH YOU REACH YOUR APEX VALUE AND KEEP PUSHING IT FURTHER
I'll be back tonight with daily posts.
Drop what you want me to write about below.