Knowing who you do it to for > why you it do it for
Always about you
Always about you
Everyone judges everyone.
Knowingly or not, it does happen.
Anyone that tells you the opposite is lying.
There is a difference between judging and voicing it out.
Expecting people not to judge you is delusional.
Getting mad at them for judging you is childish.
Everyone has the right to have an opinion, nothing makes it matter.
People can't think whatever the fuck they want of you, they will act accordingly.
And it's their actions that matter, not what they think of you.
At the end of the day, you only get to experience their actions, not their thoughts.
Focus on what matters.
What people think doesn't matter.
How they behave does.
Knowingly or not, it does happen.
Anyone that tells you the opposite is lying.
There is a difference between judging and voicing it out.
Expecting people not to judge you is delusional.
Getting mad at them for judging you is childish.
Everyone has the right to have an opinion, nothing makes it matter.
People can't think whatever the fuck they want of you, they will act accordingly.
And it's their actions that matter, not what they think of you.
At the end of the day, you only get to experience their actions, not their thoughts.
Focus on what matters.
What people think doesn't matter.
How they behave does.
Little do they know I got a shit ton of accounts hahahahaha
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Hello, this is @EgoDriv, my account got fucking suspended. Thank you Twitter.
It's a funny situation when something or someone is trying to shut you down.
It's always fun when someone gets triggered when they weren't necessarily target.
Can't help but think about how insecure you must be to report people on Twitter 😂
It's always fun when someone gets triggered when they weren't necessarily target.
Can't help but think about how insecure you must be to report people on Twitter 😂
There is no finding yourself.
There is getting to know yourself.
And when you do, life makes a lot more sense.
There is getting to know yourself.
And when you do, life makes a lot more sense.
I used to be shy until I realized...
Wait a second?
They're as human as I am.
Why should I feel intimidated?
Wait a second?
They're as human as I am.
Why should I feel intimidated?
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Forwarded from STRONGLAND (Life Math Money)
No matter who hurt you in the past, fixing you is your responsibility and your burden. Don't expect people who damaged you to save you - they don't care. Move on and live to the best of your abilities, instead of whining about how you've been wronged.
Talk with confidence.
Don't hesitate.
You know what makes you stutter?
It's that second thought you had right before talking.
You know that doubtful voice that told you
"Hmmm maybe you're wrong"
"Is that the right word"
That voice is annoying.
I know.
But the thing is, does it really matter if you're wrong?
Does it really matter if it's not the right word?
You know the answer, it's a no.
It doesn't matter because unless you go ahead and try, you'll never know.
Was it the right word? No?
No worries, you just learned it wasn't.
You won't do it next time.
Was it wrong?
Great. An opportunity to learn.
We really don't realize that the best teacher is our mistakes.
Once you accept that, you'll never be afraid of being wrong.
If you're not afraid of that, you're unbeatable.
Another tip to talk with confidence
Remove the useless words.
Don't "hmmm" don't say "I believe", "I think".
Say it as it is.
Certainty implies confidence.
Be certain until proven otherwise.
And if proved otherwise?
You just got smarter.
The whole trick:
Understand that you never fail, you only learn.
Forget about shame, guilt and other feelings that limit you.
Understand that you're always learning and the best way to do so it to try.
Getting it right or wrong is still getting to a lesson.
Don't hesitate.
You know what makes you stutter?
It's that second thought you had right before talking.
You know that doubtful voice that told you
"Hmmm maybe you're wrong"
"Is that the right word"
That voice is annoying.
I know.
But the thing is, does it really matter if you're wrong?
Does it really matter if it's not the right word?
You know the answer, it's a no.
It doesn't matter because unless you go ahead and try, you'll never know.
Was it the right word? No?
No worries, you just learned it wasn't.
You won't do it next time.
Was it wrong?
Great. An opportunity to learn.
We really don't realize that the best teacher is our mistakes.
Once you accept that, you'll never be afraid of being wrong.
If you're not afraid of that, you're unbeatable.
Another tip to talk with confidence
Remove the useless words.
Don't "hmmm" don't say "I believe", "I think".
Say it as it is.
Certainty implies confidence.
Be certain until proven otherwise.
And if proved otherwise?
You just got smarter.
The whole trick:
Understand that you never fail, you only learn.
Forget about shame, guilt and other feelings that limit you.
Understand that you're always learning and the best way to do so it to try.
Getting it right or wrong is still getting to a lesson.
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You give up because you hold on to your expected results and want them to come asap.
You give up when you don't know why you're doing whatever you're doing.
You give up when you start something you were never really convinced of.
You give up when you do something for someone else's satisfaction.
Giving up here doesn't necessarily mean stopping.
Not enjoying what you're doing is also giving up.
Giving up on your time.
Giving up on your happiness.
Giving up on reality.
Keep your head straight, make sure you are where you want to be in life.
That's assuming you already know.
If that's not the case, I urge you to get your shit together.
Life isn't long enough for us to be doing things we don't enjoy.
Remember that this is YOUR life.
You literally own it.
Now go and figuratively own it.
You give up when you don't know why you're doing whatever you're doing.
You give up when you start something you were never really convinced of.
You give up when you do something for someone else's satisfaction.
Giving up here doesn't necessarily mean stopping.
Not enjoying what you're doing is also giving up.
Giving up on your time.
Giving up on your happiness.
Giving up on reality.
Keep your head straight, make sure you are where you want to be in life.
That's assuming you already know.
If that's not the case, I urge you to get your shit together.
Life isn't long enough for us to be doing things we don't enjoy.
Remember that this is YOUR life.
You literally own it.
Now go and figuratively own it.