The best way to reach your selfish goals is to make everyone win.
It's a very simple process.
You make people get what they want so that you get what you want.
Nothing is 'negatively' selfish if everyone benefits from it.
Don't do it by fake altruism, do it for yourself because it's effective af
Can't lose if everyone is on your side.
It's a very simple process.
You make people get what they want so that you get what you want.
Nothing is 'negatively' selfish if everyone benefits from it.
Don't do it by fake altruism, do it for yourself because it's effective af
Can't lose if everyone is on your side.
I have a close friend who's suffering at her job.
I mean she barely has a life outside of it.
She had a new opportunity, and she hesitates.
Her opportunity is way better than her current job but she just doesn't "have the balls" to quit her job.
My advice:
Get the fuck out of your comfort zone.
Nothing will change if you don't decide to change it.
Nothing will change if you don't believe in yourself.
Go get what you fucking deserve.
I mean she barely has a life outside of it.
She had a new opportunity, and she hesitates.
Her opportunity is way better than her current job but she just doesn't "have the balls" to quit her job.
My advice:
Get the fuck out of your comfort zone.
Nothing will change if you don't decide to change it.
Nothing will change if you don't believe in yourself.
Go get what you fucking deserve.
We tend to get stuck in our own minds and there is nothing more than that.
It starts with routines and everything becomes simply a mechanical task we're doing subconsciously as we repeated enough times to condition our brain to do it on their own.
Thankfully, the solution is easy.
It always is by the way.
Everything is supposed to be easy.
Anyway
Here is the thing, if you read between the lines above you spotted the problem
Repetition.
As useful as it is for learning, repetition consists of transmuting conscious action to acquired knowledge and skill.
That's beneficial for young people learning but as you grow and find yourself repeating the same things over and over again you lose joy and become robotic.
This is why nowadays everyone is trying to escape the 9-5, this is also why we used to hate schools as kids.
And this is why relationships fail.
We get used to things that aren't exciting.
We get tired of things that don't hold a part of uncertainty.
Sure, stability is a life goal.
But what is the worth of a life where every day is a copy of yesterday and tomorrow a copy of today.
Life loses everything that makes it beautiful.
Instead, go try new things.
Food, sports, activities, change jobs, move cities.
Change is part of life.
We can get stuck wherever we are or we become zombies.
Docile, obedient and characterless zombies.
Most importantly , depressed zombies.
There is nothing like a good shot of adrenaline every once in a while.
Search for activities that make you uncomfortable and increase your excitement.
Experience new things on AT THE VERY LEAST a monthly basis.
Allocate on day of the week/month to explore something new.
Read something you've never wanted to read, watch a movie you think is over hyped.
Go take the cinema alone.
Go ask that girl out.
Just do something, push your limits.
Don't let yourself fall into a relentlessly repetitive life.
It will kill you slowly, one day after the other.
Those were my late night thoughts.
Have a good night Basedonia.
It starts with routines and everything becomes simply a mechanical task we're doing subconsciously as we repeated enough times to condition our brain to do it on their own.
Thankfully, the solution is easy.
It always is by the way.
Everything is supposed to be easy.
Anyway
Here is the thing, if you read between the lines above you spotted the problem
Repetition.
As useful as it is for learning, repetition consists of transmuting conscious action to acquired knowledge and skill.
That's beneficial for young people learning but as you grow and find yourself repeating the same things over and over again you lose joy and become robotic.
This is why nowadays everyone is trying to escape the 9-5, this is also why we used to hate schools as kids.
And this is why relationships fail.
We get used to things that aren't exciting.
We get tired of things that don't hold a part of uncertainty.
Sure, stability is a life goal.
But what is the worth of a life where every day is a copy of yesterday and tomorrow a copy of today.
Life loses everything that makes it beautiful.
Instead, go try new things.
Food, sports, activities, change jobs, move cities.
Change is part of life.
We can get stuck wherever we are or we become zombies.
Docile, obedient and characterless zombies.
Most importantly , depressed zombies.
There is nothing like a good shot of adrenaline every once in a while.
Search for activities that make you uncomfortable and increase your excitement.
Experience new things on AT THE VERY LEAST a monthly basis.
Allocate on day of the week/month to explore something new.
Read something you've never wanted to read, watch a movie you think is over hyped.
Go take the cinema alone.
Go ask that girl out.
Just do something, push your limits.
Don't let yourself fall into a relentlessly repetitive life.
It will kill you slowly, one day after the other.
Those were my late night thoughts.
Have a good night Basedonia.
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Your experience > Anyone's advice
It sticks better in your mind when it's traumatizing.
Just don't get stuck at the trauma phase.
Let it inspire you, don't let it destroy you.
It sticks better in your mind when it's traumatizing.
Just don't get stuck at the trauma phase.
Let it inspire you, don't let it destroy you.
Forwarded from STRONGLAND (Life Math Money)
If you think you need a woman to "complete yourself" You're going to get wrecked sooner than later. You need to build your own frame and life first Otherwise you're just distracting yourself from the work you need to do.
Don't get attached to ANYTHING, but what you dream of.
Make sure every step you take gets you closer to that.
Even if it means something else that would be lost.
For reaching your objectives and making your dreams come true is truly priceless, if a sacrifice must be done then so be it.
We lose so much mental space and energy just thinking of "what ifs".
Do it.
Fuck it up.
Fix it.
Try again.
If something gets in the way, deal with it or let go of it.
Never accept burdens
Never be a burden for yourself.
Make sure every step you take gets you closer to that.
Even if it means something else that would be lost.
For reaching your objectives and making your dreams come true is truly priceless, if a sacrifice must be done then so be it.
We lose so much mental space and energy just thinking of "what ifs".
Do it.
Fuck it up.
Fix it.
Try again.
If something gets in the way, deal with it or let go of it.
Never accept burdens
Never be a burden for yourself.
Friendly reminder:
Take the lead or step back.
There is no in between.
Take the lead or step back.
There is no in between.
When things don't go as planned, tell yourself that was the plan all along. Then adapt.
It serves no purpose to worry about your execution not matching your expectations.
You just need to redirect your efforts and attention to what's in your way.
Ignore the rest, simply shift your focus.
Forget what worrying means.
It serves no purpose to worry about your execution not matching your expectations.
You just need to redirect your efforts and attention to what's in your way.
Ignore the rest, simply shift your focus.
Forget what worrying means.
Do you feel free?
anonymous poll
No – 96
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 60%
Yes – 64
👍👍👍👍👍 40%
👥 160 people voted so far. Poll closed.
anonymous poll
No – 96
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 60%
Yes – 64
👍👍👍👍👍 40%
👥 160 people voted so far. Poll closed.
Forwarded from Mentality Chief Channel 🥂
Advice will never teach you as well as failure.
I usually never talk about money but this is risk related.
Saving money won't make you wealthier.
It just means you're playing it "safe".
I didn't attend one finance class where I didn't hear 'high risk, high returns
Lesson in there.
Invest your savings, don't just put money on the side.
Saving money won't make you wealthier.
It just means you're playing it "safe".
I didn't attend one finance class where I didn't hear 'high risk, high returns
Lesson in there.
Invest your savings, don't just put money on the side.
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I've come to realize that I have no idea what anxiety feels like.
It's been so long since I didn't feel anxious.
I feel excited instead.
Whatever it is, bring it on.
It's been so long since I didn't feel anxious.
I feel excited instead.
Whatever it is, bring it on.
If you have 2h free, watch this and analyze her body language and behavior overall.
It's crazy how the more you try to be someone you're not the more it becomes obvious to everyone and also dangerous.
This is what happens when you worry more about what people think than what you think.
This is an extreme case of what happens when you don't value yourself and live through the eyes of others.
From her crime to how she managed her trial and interrogation.
This is so shockingly wrong.
Actions and reactions.
Everything is wrong.
Wrong way to love
Wrong way to be
Wrong way to live
Be anything but someone like her.
https://youtu.be/N274EurzpAA
It's crazy how the more you try to be someone you're not the more it becomes obvious to everyone and also dangerous.
This is what happens when you worry more about what people think than what you think.
This is an extreme case of what happens when you don't value yourself and live through the eyes of others.
From her crime to how she managed her trial and interrogation.
This is so shockingly wrong.
Actions and reactions.
Everything is wrong.
Wrong way to love
Wrong way to be
Wrong way to live
Be anything but someone like her.
https://youtu.be/N274EurzpAA
YouTube
Wrath of Jodi
"We had a dog. His name was Doggy Boy."
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Voice over - https://www.youtube.com/@kizzume
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Stop using "doing your best" as an excuse.
Be proud of it and make your best better.
Keep doing, keep failing, keep learning.
Start everything with the idea that you won't stop until you succeed.
Don't consider quitting as an option.
If things do go right then do something about, something that doesn't include quitting.
Can't achieve anything if you overcome obstacles.
Resistance is something you will ALWAYS face.
Be it from yourself being lazy, others standing in your way.. you name it.
If you expect everything to go exactly as planned then you'll always get disappointed.
Plan but be ready to face difficulties.
Either force your plan on whatever stands in your way or change it to go around it.
Just. Don't. Quit.
Be proud of it and make your best better.
Keep doing, keep failing, keep learning.
Start everything with the idea that you won't stop until you succeed.
Don't consider quitting as an option.
If things do go right then do something about, something that doesn't include quitting.
Can't achieve anything if you overcome obstacles.
Resistance is something you will ALWAYS face.
Be it from yourself being lazy, others standing in your way.. you name it.
If you expect everything to go exactly as planned then you'll always get disappointed.
Plan but be ready to face difficulties.
Either force your plan on whatever stands in your way or change it to go around it.
Just. Don't. Quit.