It costs nothing to be:
-Polite
-Calm
-Confident
That's the recipe to charisma right there.
-Polite
-Calm
-Confident
That's the recipe to charisma right there.
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Tell me what you spend your money on and I'll tell you who you are.
Give a closer look at what people buy, it'll tell you a lot about their subconscious state of mind.
Don't learn psychology through philosophical and theoretical books, learn it through marketing and sales.
It's more actionable and applicable to your social life than what a mad man in 1800s said about humans.
Give a closer look at what people buy, it'll tell you a lot about their subconscious state of mind.
Don't learn psychology through philosophical and theoretical books, learn it through marketing and sales.
It's more actionable and applicable to your social life than what a mad man in 1800s said about humans.
I've been learning e-mail recently.
If anyone is interested, I strongly advise you join this channel:
https://t.me/emaillounge
If anyone is interested, I strongly advise you join this channel:
https://t.me/emaillounge
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A problem without a solution isn't a problem.
Everything can be solved if you stay cerebral.
React with your brain.
Everything can be solved if you stay cerebral.
React with your brain.
50% of people annoy me
25% of people bore me to death
20% seem interesting before disappointing me
5% are actually worth the time
Basedonia is in that 5%
25% of people bore me to death
20% seem interesting before disappointing me
5% are actually worth the time
Basedonia is in that 5%
16k.
Not even 100 days old.
Say what you want, I'm fucking great.
ALL THINGS CONSIDERED
Not even 100 days old.
Say what you want, I'm fucking great.
ALL THINGS CONSIDERED
The moon is beautiful.
Such a wonderful goal to have.
Because the world is not enough, give me more.
Let me aim further
Such a wonderful goal to have.
Because the world is not enough, give me more.
Let me aim further
Be VERY careful who you follow on social media.
Especially on Instagram.
The normalization of depression through memes is a real thing.
You're not depressed.
You can't relate to their memes.
Unfollow them.
Hell, unfollow me if I'm not adding positives to your life.
Especially on Instagram.
The normalization of depression through memes is a real thing.
You're not depressed.
You can't relate to their memes.
Unfollow them.
Hell, unfollow me if I'm not adding positives to your life.
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More often than not, people will avoid conflict.
Make sure they're not willing to back down before starting negotiations.
Never be the one that gets stepped on, never be the one that concedes before the battle.
Fight tooth and nail.
Only concede to avoid heavy damage.
Mental or physical.
Be sure there is no way to win before declaring the loss.
Make sure they're not willing to back down before starting negotiations.
Never be the one that gets stepped on, never be the one that concedes before the battle.
Fight tooth and nail.
Only concede to avoid heavy damage.
Mental or physical.
Be sure there is no way to win before declaring the loss.
When I was younger, I got heavily influenced by the content I use to consume on social media.
It made me pick the wrong decisions, decrease my self-worth and concede opportunities because I thought I wasnt worth it or that I couldn't do it.
I was depressed.
I often had suicidal thoughts.
I wasn't doing good at all.
So I took a step back.
I wrote down my goals.
I wrote down my insecurities.
I made plans for my goals.
I defined how I wanted to react when my insecurities kicked.
I made a promise to myself to take control and keep it.
Today, I am who I always wanted to be.
Still a long way to go but at least I have no doubt about it being the right one.
It made me pick the wrong decisions, decrease my self-worth and concede opportunities because I thought I wasnt worth it or that I couldn't do it.
I was depressed.
I often had suicidal thoughts.
I wasn't doing good at all.
So I took a step back.
I wrote down my goals.
I wrote down my insecurities.
I made plans for my goals.
I defined how I wanted to react when my insecurities kicked.
I made a promise to myself to take control and keep it.
Today, I am who I always wanted to be.
Still a long way to go but at least I have no doubt about it being the right one.
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Forwarded from Northern Nephilim
Machiavellian Maxims
Part 1: Punishing Offences
Over the next few posts, we will be covering human psychology and machiavellianism.
Everybody has passed through a situation where a close one did something they shouldn't have, and out of your benevolent and tender heart, you decided to forgive them and let it go.
The problem is, you discover that after a while (depending on the gravity of the offence) they either lose regard for you completely or they start committing more similar offences.
We all know the rest of the story; a falling out and permanent damage on the relationship.
So, you ask yourself what you did wrong in forgiving.
FORGIVENESS does not negate the need for PUNISHMENT ! ! !
Every offence must be punished, regardless of how minute it may be.
The punishment can range from temporary withdrawal of your attention to total severance of the relationship (depending on the magnitude of the offence).
Picture this:
You walk up to your dad/friend/girlfriend and give them a very hard slap. But, instead of getting upset or retaliating, they simply say to you:
“I forgive you for this. Don’t do it again."
You won’t feel relief or joy at them forgiving you, but rather disgust at their lack of self-regard.
You will also become more likely to repeat that offence in the future. If you slapped your dad and he said that to you, guaranteed you will lose all respect for him till your dying day.
Now, put yourself in the position of the person being slapped. The way you’d lose respect/regard for the non-retaliatory victim is how people lose respect for you each time you fail to properly punish an offence.
The purpose of punishing offences is not only for self-gratification, but to serve as a deterrent against future offences of a similar nature.
It may seem minute offences can be ignored, but they really shouldn’t.
If the offence is of gravity X, then the punishment should be of magnitude 2X. If the offence is of gravity 2X, then the punishment should be of magnitude 4X. Double the punishment, so the gratification gotten from such an offence is never worth the punishment.
– If you speak to someone and they ignore you, punish them.
– If someone disregards your time, punish them.
— If someone openly disrespects you, openly humiliate them.
— If your girlfriend cheats on you, breakup with her.
– If your friend insults you, withdraw your attention for a reasonable timeframe.
You need to make sure that it is clear messing with you will put people on your bad side. And you also need to ensure your bad side is not a conducive place to be.
You should also never threaten people as a deterrent. Wait for them to commit the abominable, and then PUNISH them for it.
"Remember, FORGIVENESS does not negate the need for PUNISHMENT."
Part 1: Punishing Offences
Over the next few posts, we will be covering human psychology and machiavellianism.
Everybody has passed through a situation where a close one did something they shouldn't have, and out of your benevolent and tender heart, you decided to forgive them and let it go.
The problem is, you discover that after a while (depending on the gravity of the offence) they either lose regard for you completely or they start committing more similar offences.
We all know the rest of the story; a falling out and permanent damage on the relationship.
So, you ask yourself what you did wrong in forgiving.
FORGIVENESS does not negate the need for PUNISHMENT ! ! !
Every offence must be punished, regardless of how minute it may be.
The punishment can range from temporary withdrawal of your attention to total severance of the relationship (depending on the magnitude of the offence).
Picture this:
You walk up to your dad/friend/girlfriend and give them a very hard slap. But, instead of getting upset or retaliating, they simply say to you:
“I forgive you for this. Don’t do it again."
You won’t feel relief or joy at them forgiving you, but rather disgust at their lack of self-regard.
You will also become more likely to repeat that offence in the future. If you slapped your dad and he said that to you, guaranteed you will lose all respect for him till your dying day.
Now, put yourself in the position of the person being slapped. The way you’d lose respect/regard for the non-retaliatory victim is how people lose respect for you each time you fail to properly punish an offence.
The purpose of punishing offences is not only for self-gratification, but to serve as a deterrent against future offences of a similar nature.
It may seem minute offences can be ignored, but they really shouldn’t.
If the offence is of gravity X, then the punishment should be of magnitude 2X. If the offence is of gravity 2X, then the punishment should be of magnitude 4X. Double the punishment, so the gratification gotten from such an offence is never worth the punishment.
– If you speak to someone and they ignore you, punish them.
– If someone disregards your time, punish them.
— If someone openly disrespects you, openly humiliate them.
— If your girlfriend cheats on you, breakup with her.
– If your friend insults you, withdraw your attention for a reasonable timeframe.
You need to make sure that it is clear messing with you will put people on your bad side. And you also need to ensure your bad side is not a conducive place to be.
You should also never threaten people as a deterrent. Wait for them to commit the abominable, and then PUNISH them for it.
"Remember, FORGIVENESS does not negate the need for PUNISHMENT."
Seize Control. E R."Poly relationship" doesn't exist
You just don't love each other but like to have regular sex
You just don't love each other but like to have regular sex