I get endless questions about dating & women.
My brother, understand this:
You will never attract a high-value woman if you're not high-value yourself.
Before thinking: "How do I get her?"
Ask yourself, am I worthy of a loyal, loving & caring woman in my life?
High value men attract high value women.
Instead of chasing women, work on your self and become the best you can.
She will find you.
My brother, understand this:
You will never attract a high-value woman if you're not high-value yourself.
Before thinking: "How do I get her?"
Ask yourself, am I worthy of a loyal, loving & caring woman in my life?
High value men attract high value women.
Instead of chasing women, work on your self and become the best you can.
She will find you.
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The Greek physician Hippocrates described this state of social awkwardness or “shyness”, as that of people who “love darkness as life”, and “think every man is observing them”.
While Jean-Paul Sartre said famously said: "Hell is other people."
I always found it fascinating how humans are afraid of each other.
We're so self-absorbed that we think everyone's attention is on us.
We're so afraid of other people's judgment that we limit ourselves.
But let me tell you something...
Just like you stress out about their judgment, people stress out about what YOU think of them.
This is a very important notion to grasp because it gives you an edge over EVERYONE.
Here is the thing, if you know most people are wary about your opinion of them, you can influence their behavior by simply validating them.
I'm talking about a soft form of manipulation here.
Validating people and making them feel more secure about themselves puts you in a position of both power and appreciation.
People struggle so much to be liked.
Then why not tell them you appreciate them?
It's really that easy because that comforting feeling that comes from your validation is addictive.
They'll want more of it, so they'll go out of their way to please you and defend you.
Have you ever noticed...
The people you like the most are the people that "understand" you.
If you put some thoughts into it, we tend to like the people that "feel" for us or "understand" where our behavior comes from.
Guess what... What applies to you applies to them.
Leverage it.
Validate people.
Express your appreciation for them.
Tell them they look good, and tell them their passion is inspiring.
This is not evil manipulation. It's quite healthy!
The reason is that you not only gain points with them yourself but you also genuinely make someone's day.
This is key to building healthy relationships.
But be careful...
If they notice that you behave that way with everyone, it takes away the uniqueness of your relationship.
Solution: Do it in private.
Tell people, you're proud of them and happy to see them winning.
Do this with everyone. You'll notice that not only do more people appreciate you, but you also have fewer conflicting relationships.
Validate people.
Smile at them. Say they're great.
Tell them they look good. Imply that you missed seeing them. Greet them with warmth and insistence. People crave validation. Leverage it. That's a massive increase in your social skills.
These are the things no parent or school will teach you.
These are the things that you can't guess on your own unless you've tried them many times.
These are the patterns that require mistakes and slip-ups in order to be understood.
We made those mistakes and learned those lessons the hard way so that our members inside Social Skills University don't have to go through that painful process.
It's time to build your social skillset.
It's time you acquire an edge over the rest of the people.
Join 245+ active members.
While Jean-Paul Sartre said famously said: "Hell is other people."
I always found it fascinating how humans are afraid of each other.
We're so self-absorbed that we think everyone's attention is on us.
We're so afraid of other people's judgment that we limit ourselves.
But let me tell you something...
Just like you stress out about their judgment, people stress out about what YOU think of them.
This is a very important notion to grasp because it gives you an edge over EVERYONE.
Here is the thing, if you know most people are wary about your opinion of them, you can influence their behavior by simply validating them.
I'm talking about a soft form of manipulation here.
Validating people and making them feel more secure about themselves puts you in a position of both power and appreciation.
People struggle so much to be liked.
Then why not tell them you appreciate them?
It's really that easy because that comforting feeling that comes from your validation is addictive.
They'll want more of it, so they'll go out of their way to please you and defend you.
Have you ever noticed...
The people you like the most are the people that "understand" you.
If you put some thoughts into it, we tend to like the people that "feel" for us or "understand" where our behavior comes from.
Guess what... What applies to you applies to them.
Leverage it.
Validate people.
Express your appreciation for them.
Tell them they look good, and tell them their passion is inspiring.
This is not evil manipulation. It's quite healthy!
The reason is that you not only gain points with them yourself but you also genuinely make someone's day.
This is key to building healthy relationships.
But be careful...
If they notice that you behave that way with everyone, it takes away the uniqueness of your relationship.
Solution: Do it in private.
Tell people, you're proud of them and happy to see them winning.
Do this with everyone. You'll notice that not only do more people appreciate you, but you also have fewer conflicting relationships.
Validate people.
Smile at them. Say they're great.
Tell them they look good. Imply that you missed seeing them. Greet them with warmth and insistence. People crave validation. Leverage it. That's a massive increase in your social skills.
These are the things no parent or school will teach you.
These are the things that you can't guess on your own unless you've tried them many times.
These are the patterns that require mistakes and slip-ups in order to be understood.
We made those mistakes and learned those lessons the hard way so that our members inside Social Skills University don't have to go through that painful process.
It's time to build your social skillset.
It's time you acquire an edge over the rest of the people.
Join 245+ active members.
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If you're not sure about SSU:
Don't listen to me.
Read the reviews from the members.
Don't listen to me.
Read the reviews from the members.
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Forwarded from Masculine Tribe (The Masculine Sage)
The community which is the jackpot of social skills.
I am inside Social Skill University since day 1 and I learnt a lot pf great stuff.
Recommend for anyone who want to improve their social skills and other supporting skills.
It is very affordable right now.
Price will increase in 10 days.
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I am inside Social Skill University since day 1 and I learnt a lot pf great stuff.
Recommend for anyone who want to improve their social skills and other supporting skills.
It is very affordable right now.
Price will increase in 10 days.
Join now
https://gumroad.com/a/84500307/gldef
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Forwarded from Tatespeech
My Final Message has aired.
freetopg.com
This is the beginning of Stage 2.
Any of you who believe in strength, honor, positivity, masculinity, and becoming the best version of yourself.
Any of you who agree.
Please share the signal, share the message.
www.freetopg.com
We've only just begun.
- Andrew Tate
freetopg.com
This is the beginning of Stage 2.
Any of you who believe in strength, honor, positivity, masculinity, and becoming the best version of yourself.
Any of you who agree.
Please share the signal, share the message.
www.freetopg.com
We've only just begun.
- Andrew Tate
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