Social Skills University will be EVERYTHING you need to turn your life around.

Never been anything like it, most likely won’t be anything after it.

Mark my words.

Some asked when Social Skills University will be live.

Answer is June 30th

But on June 10th, I'm releasing the social skills Playbook for free

Drop your requests here.

I'll write about the 3 most relevant ones.

EDIT:

This is not an AMA, I will write a full post in the coming days.

If you feed it negativity it will give you back negativity.

Such are the laws of the universe.

If you have a problem, stay optimistic and learn to see the good side of things.

Truly nothing deserves to be blown out of proportion.

Expect the best.

Work for it to happen.

If you worry, you prepare yourself for negative outcomes.

Do not worry.

Take action and keep your hopes up.

If even though you do so and the outcome is still negative, above all, do not lose faith.

Do not lose your joy and do not lose your optimism.

Always keep your head up.

Little announcement.

Along with the 12 Laws of E-go, I've been working on an audiobook.

If you got the 12 Laws audiobook; you should get this one for free.

I've hired a professional narrator for the audiobook and it should be available tomorrow.

When that happens the price goes from 5 to 10.

Just a heads up.

PS: Nothing to do with the Social Skills playbook, that one will be free and I'll release it on the 10th

On helping others:

The easy way is to comfort them.

But is it the right thing to do?

Do they need comfort or a solution?

If they only need comfort, then do they really have a problem.

If you truly care about someone, avoid providing "emotional help".

Provide useful help.

Solve their problem.

Here is the thing, many times you'll realize people don't want their problems solved.

They seek compassion and comfort.

It's not good for them.

And it's a waste of time and energy for you.

Avoid comforting.

Real help is solving the root cause not putting band aid on negative feelings.

Understand this.

Audiobook uploaded.

Enjoy!

And get self sufficient, that's what Ego has mastery in! Do checkout his program, its Lit🔥🔥

Thread of the day.

PS: Those of you who are only following on Instagram and not Twitter, don't worry. I will post this on IG too.

https://twitter.com/EgoDriv/status/1530885700568158209

Remember: Do it.

Anti-Manipulation is a complex topic.

Complex because in order to protect yourself from manipulation, you must first learn manipulation techniques.

Figure out how they do it so you can prevent it.

And when you do, it will be tempting to use it to get your way.

But once you understand how weak it is and unhealthy for your relationships, you will make the right choice.

The right choice being: working on your people skills.

That is the alternative to manipulation.

You can either be charming but deceptive.

or

You can be convincing and genuine.

This is why assertiveness is the core component of social skills.

That's the alternative to being manipulative.

You can get your way with people without burning bridges.

Being someone enjoyable, likeable without being a people pleaser nor a manipulator.

It is not that hard.

First you must control your own emotions.
They will be used against you.
Learn to be aware of them, control how they emerge and prevent people from using them to your detriment.

Second, you must learn how manipulators operate and cut out anyone who is poisoning your life.

Third, you must be able to assert yourself and impose your presence without using manipulation.

This is the process Ego Driven has been trying to teach you.

This is what being mentally balanced and nurturing healthy relationships sound like.

Confidence. Assertiveness. Genuineness.

You can have the best of both worlds.

It is ready, waiting for the audiobook version to be done and you can all download it.

Hopefully during next week.

Might release it before the announced date of June 10th.

Evil Saint will also be part of the team for Social Skills University

Read more from him, he's an excellent writer.

https://twitter.com/sanctemalum/status/1531241788480049153

Giveaway at 6k.

I'll be giving 6 lifetime memberships to Social Skills University.

440 subs left 🥂

Thread of the day.

https://twitter.com/EgoDriv/status/1531578969186873345

Just because you live a normal life does not mean you are not in an ever present warzone where you’re being manipulated left and right on a daily basis.

You have “friends”.
You have “family”
You have “bros”

FOH, exceptions excluded ofc, statistics and empirical evidence however shows it’s not in Your Favor – There is a Snake in your Squad, as we speak.

People tell you just live your life, just focus on yourself, and do good.
Be good. Be kind, and positive, and have higher vibe goals, and people will flock to you.

Ofc, there is No denying that.

However was Eden not perfect? Was it not Good? Did the Snake not come?

EVIL is always there, lurking around the corner.

Just because you dont see the Snake doesnt mean he’s not there…

To be honest, most are not to blame, its modernism, the Zeitgeist that we are in, the direction society is heading. All that.

This just gives a f up programming, which is psyopping you, day by day.

Again, they are telling you stuff THEY Think to be True; doesnt mean it is … I roll with guys who are either Extremely against this - Anti Manipulators, or Manipulators themselves (for a living) - to help themselves, ofc, and those around them.

People are selfish ASF; and they just Get That.

So do I tbh. Betrayals keep piling up as I ascend, thats why Im candid asf with this message right now. It might come across as pressing, unnerving, antsy, full tilt - It’s because it is.

Ngl, if these were Duel Times, Id duel the F outta some churls, just to eradicate them from my eyesight..

However these are not the Times that We live in .. you gotta go about it slightly different. More indirect. More longterm. More calculated. Tactful.

And Remember, ALL because They started it.

Remember, THEY wanted this. They start the fight. You finish it.

Again, no pro myself, have my scars and what not, but I defer you to my brothers in arms in the mental warfare.

They know more about these things than I do.

What we talked about always has to do with programming. Now to root out the bad programming, that’s gonna take either of two things. Legit:

1 Complete Mental RESET, DEPROGRAMMING. Like Im talking Blank Sleight CLEAN.

However this might be a tad Too Lofty for some, to start.

I advise, Option 2: fill up your software with some mental warfare strategies.

Again, make no mistake about it. From the very second you wake up, have a moment to yourself, quick fresh up, quick kiss goodbye to the spouse, or your morning coffee and or smoke - AFTER THAT - Warfare is on.

Ngl, every Single Time I think Life is going to Let up…it does Not, it does the Exact OPPOSITE and Piles down the Pressure.

And this is why I’m sharing this with you today.

War is going on. Lots of sneaky manipulating bastards out there. They think they the sh, but they are not.

We need Warriors in this fight.

Am just here a humble Quartermaster trying to arm you against them, in your day to day battles.

Godspeed and here’s your access to the Armory:

https://gumroad.com/a/461790323

How to stop being too nice without becoming an asshole?

1- Work on your assertiveness

2- Learn to say no (with a smile)

3- Enforce your boundaries

4- Don’t let people chose for you

5- Get rid of doubtful speech (I think, I believe, Maybe etc…)

6- Accept disagreements

7- Be ready for confrontation

8- Stop justifying yourself

9- Help when you feel like it not when you're asked to

10- Impose two-way transaction, dont give selflessly to everyone

I will expand on this in today's thread.